Well, Here's the deal, I REALY REALY like my best guy-friend! And this weekend we're going to the mall 2 gether and withone of our other good gfriends (thats a guy) But IDK what i should do about flirting with him or whatever! Becuse I just dont want anything to ruen our friendship! 'Cuz we've been friends for about 3 years!
2007-09-20 13:49:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Did you ever think, maybe he feels the same way, and the reason you two are friends, is because he likes you just the way you are, so be yourself, and you can try fliriting with him as long as its extremely SUBTLE!!! i little eye contact, a wink, or do what i did, tell him, you know if you werent my bestfriend, you would have your hands full, because you are the best thing i have ever known, then YOU MUST LAUGH YOUR A** OFF, but keep your eyes on him, that way you have an out, if his reaction is one of pure shock!! (by the way, i married my best friend almost 3 years ago, and the fun has only gotten better!! good luck!!)
2007-09-20 13:58:13 · answer #1 · answered by oh really 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you guys have been best friends for so long, he may not respond right away, or at all. You want to start out really subtle, because he might not like you like that. If he responds, start flirting a little heavier.
Of course if he knows that you're into him, it could make things a tiny bit awkward, but it doesn't have to. If you guys are as good friends as you say, he won't let something as stupid as this ruin everything.
One of my best gals is into my best guy friend, and he knows it, she has for like a year, but nothing is awkward. If he doesn't like you in that way, just go on having the fun you did before. I know it might crush you a bit, but such is life.
2007-09-20 21:00:44 · answer #2 · answered by Katie M 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
kind of check for signs of him liking you. you never know.
play it safe with the flirting. guys like it some, but don't turn him off with too much.
go for the subtle attempt to win him over.
don't be all in his face to ruin the friendship.
if you find out he doesn't like you back, be cool with it. Life goes on. There are plenty of boys in this world! (=
2007-09-20 20:55:35 · answer #3 · answered by Hot - Maddie - Rod 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well think about it what if you guys do end up in a relationship and end up breaking up do you think you guys would still remain great friends??? in my opinion i wouldn't most of my best friends are guys and i dont think i would run that risk .....my advice to you is dont do it unless you kno you wont regret it in the end
2007-09-20 20:57:17 · answer #4 · answered by krys 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys that are friends with girls fall into 2 categories. Gay and Ones that want to hook up with you.
2007-09-20 20:55:56 · answer #5 · answered by Rick R , Super Duper Samurai 侍 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please don't go to the mall for a year.
Instead take that time to go to English class as much as possible. You can't spell words like "REALLY" and "RUIN" correctly.
Your parents and teachers have failed you. God Bless.
2007-09-20 20:54:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋