Well I just transfered to a new school this year and have been going for about a month now. Theres this shy girl in 3 of my classes that I am obsessed with. We dont really speak shes really shy. I stare at her a lot and smile and when she sees me she looks away quick(a sign?) I also asked her for help on some classwork once and she seemed to come out of her shell a little. She also text messages on her phone about 20 each class we have together. Damn im usually not shy around girls but im not used to going for the super shy/quiet ones.. Someone with experience please help me out...*SpRuNG!*
2007-09-20 15:06:12 · 7 answers · asked by thatguy. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't be shy! If you are not shy and just go up to her she'll feel more comfy. I am not usually shy but there is this guy I like and I just get super nervous! But when he just talks to me I open up and start talking and then it's no longer so bad. So if you start it off, she is sure to follow and begin to talk to you.
2007-09-20 15:15:43 · answer #1 · answered by Gaby C. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being a shy girl i can help you.
try talking to her more and this time if she catches you staring at wave. When the class ends try cathing up wit her and mkaing small talk. The more you talk to her the more she will open up for you. And once you get you know her better she'll probably be comfortable around you. It's just when she turns around she probably think "oh god! is there something on my face ? are my clothes ok?"
so maybe thats why she always turns away.
I recommed maybe sending her a few text messages?
I wish you the best of luck
2007-09-20 22:14:22 · answer #2 · answered by jenna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be cool with her,,,be yourself.Talk abit but not so much that it scares her.Time time time is what you need and you have it.Dont rush and just start little causal conversations.Like about work or that class,friends,teachers. . .any events goning on at the school.We like it when you talk to you ;)
2007-09-20 22:16:17 · answer #3 · answered by Dark Mistress 444 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
spend more time with her. =) and dont always talk about classwork. get to know each other. and try getting her msn or something. shy girls usually come out of their shells when u chat with them on msn.
hope it works. =)
2007-09-20 22:12:30 · answer #4 · answered by kit22manza 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it. She likes you obviously, and she is too shy to ask you out. She would love it if you asked her out.
2007-09-20 22:16:18 · answer #5 · answered by Jessica Smith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she dosn't like to talk to you (by the way she probly likes you) you should tell her how you fell with a note not a text(and as extray give her a gift)
2007-09-20 22:14:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it slow with her, but be very approachable. Also, make her laugh!
2007-09-20 22:12:38 · answer #7 · answered by asdfghjkl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋