Singles & Dating - 20 April 2007

2007-04-20 04:52:18 · 14 answers · asked by sexylips 1

sorry if this seems a bit long and complicated...but this is....I have been seeing a guy off and on (more off) for over a year now...through this I have had a boyfriend and he has had many girlfriends...yet they always live hours away...but we always seem to end up together at some point...I know how I feel about him and have told him the same...and he always agrees...that things feel different and right when we are together...he tells me that i'm gorgeous...that I have an irresistible charm...that he finds me intriguing big time...everyone comments on our energy when we are in the same room...even strangers...but when I tell him how I am feeling...he always agrees...he says he feels the same...and then says he can't commit at this point..he said he is kinda scared...is this normal..I just don't know how to take this...should I be insulted...or should I back off and give him time to figure this out...just feel like...given how long we have been doing this...he must feel something right

2007-04-20 04:48:42 · 2 answers · asked by kirtleysgirl 1

My estranged husband and I have been battling issues for our entire relationship, and it is now definately to the breaking point. Most of the time I feel like an enabler to his bad habits and destructive behavior. But, because I love him, it is difficult for me to say no or be strict with him in any way. He does not have difficulty being tough with me, and it always get's a reaction from me. How can I really toughen up with him, to stop enabling him and envoke a change? I prefer not to "play games" but at this point everyone is telling me to stop enabling him, stop making myself available to him. The nicer and more helpful I am to him, the more distant our relationship gets. Would it really get through to him if I acted the opposite?

2007-04-20 04:47:37 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

texting her, calling her, talking about how great a girl she is, all of sudden drops of your list of priorities. You stop calling her. Wont really return her calls. What happens? There was no specific event that happened, no bad drunk night, cuz the partying is always fun. no bad conversations, cuz we're never at a loss for words with each other, 3-4 hour conversations about everything...Is there a switch that goes off in your head that's like "just kidding, never mind, moving on" Thanks for your help...

2007-04-20 04:44:58 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Say you are at the bar with a bunch of friends. You buy a round of drinks and include "whatever the gentleman at the end of the bar is having". He comes over and you talk with him all night. The two of you close the bar and end up back at his place. You end up talking for quite sometime and learn alot about one another. The making out starts and it leads to the bedroom where you tell him that you're not ready to "sleep with him". He says that he is ok with that. You start talking again and the next thing you know its back to making out...and then you give in to your own hormones flying and sleep with him. The both of you fall asleep and you sneak out in the AM before he's awake. Should you call him or should you wait to hear from him?

2007-04-20 04:41:02 · 12 answers · asked by The girl next door 1

well today he was really sweet, but the last few days i've talked to him for about a half hour and he's acting really indifferent. what can i do to make our relationship better again?

2007-04-20 04:36:27 · 22 answers · asked by nicole r 2

if you were to answer HONESTLY would u find a girl that was 130 pounds, hour glass shaped body, 5'4, an okay looking face, as someone you would go out with? She's fun to be around, likes to have fun, knows when to be serious and polite and all dat sh**. The only thing she listens to is rapp and she really wants to get ganstas but she doesn't know how. But she dresses like what people would call 'a prep' though she hates them!
HOw would she get gangstas?
Do you think she's attractive??

2007-04-20 04:33:16 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

PLEASE only mature advice, no stupid answers!! If you don't have something good or nice to say, DON'T answer!

ps. I am 25 he is 29 and we both have been engaged in the past and obviously they didn't work out. Now we found each other and are in love.....so now what? I want the whole marriage and family situation sooooooooo bad!

2007-04-20 04:23:48 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-20 04:15:21 · 5 answers · asked by Marino 3

help me please

2007-04-20 04:14:00 · 17 answers · asked by jewelzlovesfalloutboy 2

2007-04-20 04:12:05 · 29 answers · asked by pass_gas_girl 1

i have never done it so im still a virgin. i have been overprotected by my parents all my life and so i have never focused on having a boyfriend and i have never done "it" or have had it done to me. i may save my virginity till marriage.

2007-04-20 04:10:08 · 47 answers · asked by ILoveGreen ZipZapZop 4

WHAT IS WRONG??? Hi guys, ive got this problem. i've been out with my guy for 1yr 6months now. I REALLY LOVE

HIM!!the problem is that eachtime we are together we end up with a fight.the problem is me!i'm always in a bad mood,even though i love being with him.he never makes me mad but i'm most of the time not satisfied and i always have something to argue on and that irritates him a lot and i know if it goes on like that he will piss on me and i don't want that to happen.i want to make him happy i really do but i don't know how to.i'm jalouse and possesive! and i'm doing my best to trust him and control myself! i always ask him stupid questions that irritates him,i can't find a way of haveing an interesting conversation with him
i really would like our relationship to be like it used to be when we first met.we used to laugh and make jokes we always had something to say.i started a job and i'm trying to handle my relationship with him and my work!but i always was in a bad mood before starting my job!i react like a spoilt girl even though its not the fact!i react like that only with him!!

2007-04-20 04:07:49 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

What type of jewlery, clothing, body size, face features, colors, personality, hair color, hair due, and so one be honest and have fun answering this question.

2007-04-20 04:07:42 · 6 answers · asked by ME 4

is it possible ???

2007-04-20 04:02:08 · 13 answers · asked by barley 2

2007-04-20 03:58:06 · 19 answers · asked by olivier1uk 3

i'm just wondering why is it wrong to have a relationship with your cousin?cause i have a relation with my cousin and i love her so much and she feels the same way to me.i have already started noticing her when we were still child i'm 7 years old i think and she is 9,that's the time i already felt i had a crush on her,but she just don't notice me.then after 11 years passed,i saw her again on the burial of our Aunt,i felt the same feeling i felt for her when we were still young.then we went back home to our province,i started texting her then i also proposed to her what i truly feel for her.then i went to church alone, i asked for God's assistence, i prayed to Him to help me take a chance to Love my cousin and be with her.then you know what happened,God answered all my prayers.Now we're Boyfriends and Girlfriends,but now our family and relatives knows about this and all of them are protesting against us.but we never listened to them cause they don't know how we love each other.Help Pls.

2007-04-20 03:51:38 · 50 answers · asked by yang 1

How come when a line is crossed in a relationship you cannot ever go back to how things were? what changes? and why would it repeat or be easier to do a second time?

Iam talking about abuse: verbal, physical and mental.

once someone you love insults you or hits you or plays head games, if you forgive them they only do it again.

why is that? is it becuase it is no longer taboo?

2007-04-20 03:49:56 · 11 answers · asked by stopit! 1

2007-04-20 03:49:33 · 15 answers · asked by Gabrielle 1

Why do guys whistle, honk, stare and other things of that nature? I'm not trying to bash or put down guys. I just want to understand why. Do you get some kinda thrill out of making a girl uncomfortable by staring or whistling.
I don't approve of guys doing it, but I think I understand it's just a guy a thing to do. Just clarify it for me. Don't just say "it's a guy thing", that doesn't help.
In my opinion, it seems stupid. To honk at girl and then floor it down the street? Ooh, Baby, let me run 50 mph to catch you...you must be a dream.

2007-04-20 03:49:32 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

What is the first think you think of when you are going to have sex with a woman? What turns you on the most? Whats a turn off??

Just curious!

2007-04-20 03:46:23 · 7 answers · asked by tigresspunk44 2

my man has been completly depressed and distant lately. His comments are getting so mean that it is beginning to wear me down and hurt my feelings. he calls into work a lot and then he complains cause his check is short. when he is at home, he just sits there ALL day long and doesnt do anything at ALL.

well the other night we got into a fight. he screamed horrible things at me, told me i was a bad person, cussed at me and said that no one would ever want me. he even pushed me down on the couch.

My passion for him is totally going away, first it was the depressed attitude, but the way he talked to me the other day I cannot tolerate.

its time to move on i think. how do i break up with out putting myself in danger, or risking him doing something crazy cause he is so depressed?

when i try to talk to him, he finds some way to blame me for the issues/.

I am so sad, we had been talking about a life together...he is all i could ever want except for his bad attitude

2007-04-20 03:38:15 · 24 answers · asked by stopit! 1

2007-04-20 03:34:34 · 6 answers · asked by BRIAN S 1

Ok so my BF and I have been together now for 6 months and things are alright. The thing that is the problem though as I have had seen this and gone throught it in the past is, In the beginging and wooing stages of my relationships the guy is wonderful, giving, taking me out, little nice things all the way. However once they get comfortable and know that I am so for them and in love with them all that stops? What is the deal ? I know this is concidered the "honeymoon" stage where life is grand and your on cloud nine. I just dont get it though. I am a giver and love to do so all the time weather it is gifts, or tokens of affection. I just tend to get burnt and do not recieve as much as I give nor even get a little back in return. I fell give and take is important. Equality. SO how do I let my BF know this with out blowing his ego or making him think he has to do as much as I do. AND can you explain why you guys tend to do this the slacking off bit? Mature anwsers Please Thank you.

2007-04-20 03:32:47 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

it doesn't have to be big or expensive, just something that is meaningful - and clean, thank you very much! anyone got any experience or suggestions, guys, what would you like your girl to do?

2007-04-20 03:31:30 · 33 answers · asked by sunny_angel 1

I've been talking to someone interesting for about two months now, but we've never met. He's vaguely mentioned something about wanting to meet in person sometime. He emails once a day, but i'm unsure about whether or not he likes me.

....How do I know if I like him? I look forward to getting his emails, and I always smile a lot when I read them, and we share some fairly interesting conversations. He has several qualities that I really like, but others that I wasn't really looking for....So, how do you know if you share a bond with someone online?

Thanks so much.

2007-04-20 03:28:55 · 6 answers · asked by Erica 3

I find it odd that when you are'nt with anyone noone seems interested in you.Once you have a boyfriend/girlfriend whatever the case may be.then all of a sudden people are interested in you and want to date you.
ofcourse I am not talking about people knowing that you have a boyfriend/girlfriend or not.
Wondering if when you are in a relationship if something changes in your outward appearence?any one have any thoughts on that?Has anyone ever noticed that?

2007-04-20 03:28:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I feel like he's neglecting me sometimes... he's always too tired or busy. he has very good reasons, he works a lot and he has his band and his house and his college. he is a very active man and i know he loves me very much. but i still feel lonely and i just think it's unfair i always have to do what he wants and change my schedule after his. it's really frustrating, i want to live my own life...so should we women accept this type of situations and what is our limit?

2007-04-20 03:23:58 · 11 answers · asked by ADA 2

Answer Required.........................:)

2007-04-20 03:23:10 · 7 answers · asked by Xenomaniac* 2

i am looking for answers on both sides. weather you agree or not. sometimes i think it would be better to just never get hurt and sometimes i think it's worth it. let me know.

please refrain from any rude answers. thanks

2007-04-20 03:20:34 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous