WHAT IS WRONg????

Question

WHAT IS WRONG??? Hi guys, ive got this problem. i've been out with my guy for 1yr 6months now. I REALLY LOVE

HIM!!the problem is that eachtime we are together we end up with a fight.the problem is me!i'm always in a bad mood,even though i love being with him.he never makes me mad but i'm most of the time not satisfied and i always have something to argue on and that irritates him a lot and i know if it goes on like that he will piss on me and i don't want that to happen.i want to make him happy i really do but i don't know how to.i'm jalouse and possesive! and i'm doing my best to trust him and control myself! i always ask him stupid questions that irritates him,i can't find a way of haveing an interesting conversation with him
i really would like our relationship to be like it used to be when we first met.we used to laugh and make jokes we always had something to say.i started a job and i'm trying to handle my relationship with him and my work!but i always was in a bad mood before starting my job!i react like a spoilt girl even though its not the fact!i react like that only with him!!

Answer 1

Problem with love is that you can't give out more then you give yourself. Your dealing with the fact that you really don't care much for you or your descisions. Also could be that your brain is telling you this relationship isn't for you, but your heart won't let go. Better to have both in the game or else its going to be heck. Love isn't enough, he might not have what it takes to confront you on these things and make you feel better and your suffering for that. Might just mean you need a stronger individual in your life, or learn how to use the one you've got to make yourself happy. If you can't maybe you rush'd into a relationship thinking it would make you happy, when in reality the best way to do it, is to be happy with yourself enough to feel you deserve to be in a relationship, not because it well make you happier but because you need it in your life. Seems your haveing trouble growing with the relationship in your life, and instead are fighting with it.... can be many causes of that.... good luck and just try and relate as honestly as you can with you man without getting anger or upset, if you can't then your hiding things ether from him, or yourself.... time to be honest with yourself, then!