i have never done it so im still a virgin. i have been overprotected by my parents all my life and so i have never focused on having a boyfriend and i have never done "it" or have had it done to me. i may save my virginity till marriage.
2007-04-20 04:10:08 · 47 answers · asked by ILoveGreen ZipZapZop 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i am 17. just in case any of you are curious for any reason lol.
2007-04-20 04:11:35 · update #1
Mar...English please! Pero que buena respuesta!! Esta si que no me la esperaba. esta gents no va a saber de lo que hablas!
LOL
2007-04-20 04:31:01 · update #2
i agree with many of you....i wouldn't just do it with any guy....i want to fall in love(someday) and then it'll go from there.
2007-04-20 04:32:43 · update #3
Wait until you're married - then you'll be with someone you love and it will be real nice. Your parents aren't overprotecting you, they're looking after you 'cos they love you. They know what the world is like, and they don't want you to get hurt and do things you'll regret. Trust me - it ain't worth it just to be part of the 'in' crowd.
2007-04-20 04:20:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
It does feel good, but only if you feel like you are with the right person. Don't just do it to do it. It's ok to save yourself for marriage. And if the guy you are with doesn't believe in that, well he's not right for you anyways, so don't lose your virginity to him! Also, sex isn't something that is "done to you" It's a decision by both people to have sex together. It's not like oral sex or anything where only one person is doing something!!! When you do decide to have sex, it might not be all it's cracked up to be at first, but you'll see that it can get better lol. I'm with my boyfriend now for 7 months (i'm 25) and I enjoy our sex life very much! When you become more of an adult you won't be so overprotected. Make sure you protect yourself from diseases and pregnancy, don't forget about that!!
2007-04-20 04:16:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Later in life, after you have experience and a lot of it, after you find out and know what you like and what you don't. But know that most guys you will be hookin' up with, b/c of your age just want a piece, some guys might be sincere and like you for you but there are the ones out there that only wnat that one thing! Date many, you don't have to date just one guy/girl unless that is the agreement between the two of you- I advise not to just date one person you're too young and need to live, learn and experience - remeber break ups should never hurt it is only learning and a process before you meet your knight and shinning armor / princess -if you're dating you're dating - dating does not mean marriage! Be carefull not to get a bad reputation though. Only when you are married is it a lock down and no others are allowed and always, always, always practice safe s_x if and when you are ready. Talk to your parents this is a serious question you've asked here and there are a lot of freaky people out there looking for young girls/guys asking questions like this -be careful!
2007-04-20 04:30:20 · answer #3 · answered by sophia_of_light 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
save it ! well sex is woooohaaa great, once you do it that's it you have to keep doing it its kind of an addiction really, i have lost mine when i was 18 (21 now) and i regret it coz the looser i lost it to wasn't worth it, i wish I'd saved myself for my man now ... it might hurt at first and you might even think 'is that it?! ' the first time isn't always (well practically never)great, its when you really love the person you r having sex with and when you know your body very well and most important, not be shy of your partner seeing you in all the different positions , that is when you really enjoy it to the full, well g luck to u and i hope that you will find the right man quickly so that you can try this amazing thing! another thing i might not have mentioned is that the one I'll lose your virginity for will really appreciate you and feel that you are outstanding because nowadays, at 16 girls r not virgins anymore!!
2007-04-20 04:21:54 · answer #4 · answered by ஐ♥P u S s y CaT♥ஐ♥ 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Please do not fell any pressure to do anything sex is only going to be enjoyable for you if you are in a loving relationship and are both 100% sure that you are ready waiting until you are married is of course the best option as you will have built a loving and trusting relationship with your husband. Good luck and remember at 17 you are still very young and this needn't be a worry to you at all.
2007-04-20 04:21:33 · answer #5 · answered by mumof3! 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sex without love is pretty meaningless. In my experience the one night stands were of little reward, felt a bit sleazy and I felt used sometimes, it was just me getting my rocks off. However, love making is a great way to get to know someone, to relax in their company and put their needs first. Okay, so things fade a bit with age but it's still good fun to play around with someone you love. I'm a mid 50's guy and I would recommend finding someone you love and taking it from there. Good sex is like no other feeling. If it lasts a while and there are toys, all the better.
2007-04-20 04:17:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
I would advise you to remain a virgin until you are ready to find out if that experience is something you want to have. To be honest, it all depends on the person you are with that makes the experience all that good. Never rush into something just because everyone else says its a good experience, be sure that its something you want to do and make sure the person you are with is someone you want to share that experience with. Also, make sure you use protection and remember this you can always practice abstinence seeing that you are a young lady who has her whole life ahead of her. Think about it first.
2007-04-20 04:17:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Saving your virginity till marriage is the absolutely positively the best thing you can do and don't let anyone else tell you different. you will not regret having made that decision..
Your parents sound like good people and have many yrs of life experience... listen to what they say... they will save you a ton of heart ache and heart break in the future.
2007-04-20 04:35:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It does hurt the first time, but more than that, if you do it with some guy--not someone you really love, when you look back at the experience, it will be with some sadness and regret. It doesn't matter if you're married or not, IMO, just that you truly love the person and he loves you back. This is a life changing thing.
2007-04-20 04:19:24 · answer #9 · answered by melouofs 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy being a virgin. Flirt with the boys but keep it above the waist. Only take the next step when you love the guy. Until then, follow the advice of learning about your body from Allen555
2007-04-20 05:54:53 · answer #10 · answered by Fraggle Rocker 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's not what you "think" it would be. Not even close. The way for it to reach that level of being absolutely amazing - it has to be with someone that you can say you truly love and can share that with. In my experience the only time it was amazing was with my bf that I have now. because it's on that "level"
Other times it's just a mess and guys usually don't know what they're doing and you leave unsatisfied anyway.
Save yourself till marraige if you can.
2007-04-20 04:15:17 · answer #11 · answered by jd 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋