Men! What do you like your girl to look like? What attracts you?

Question

What type of jewlery, clothing, body size, face features, colors, personality, hair color, hair due, and so one be honest and have fun answering this question.

Answer 1

Ok, I'm a man and here it is:

First and foremost, I like curvaceous woman! There is no height-weight matrix that I can give you here. There are so many different variations on body types, however slight, that such calculations would not work. What looks good on one woman, in terms of weight, might not look good on another even though they are the same height. I could say women who are a size 12,14, 16, or 18....but then I might be leaving out a women who is a size 20 or 22 but is still smoking hot.

Now I said curvaceous. Today a lot of people would call those same women fat. I think the standards set today, by whoever sets them, are seriously out of wack. I love the look of the female body in and out of clothes but I almost feel cheated that the women today that often appear in little or no clothes are so thin, practically anorexic. There have always been skinny women and that is fine but why did that have to become the standard?!?

To me, curvy women have large breasts, Ds if not DDs or larger. I love large breasts on a woman, they are the best aspect of a woman's physical sexuality.

Curvy women have round, plump backsides.

Curvy women have bellies and these women's bellies jiggle ever so slightly.

You can't count the ribs in a curvy woman's body.

Now there is a difference between curvy and obese of course. A curvy woman can still wear fashionable clothes, from places like "Layne Bryant" and "The Avenue". They can fit into sexy underwear like a thong or boyshorts. And not to sound pervy, but when you are making love to them, they can be on-top and not make your breathing difficult.

Perhaps a good example might be Plus-Sized model Mia Tyler, sister of actress Liv and daughter to musician Steven. I've seen women even bigger than her that are still sexy as hell.


Beyond that;

I love women with black or red hair. Especially red, almost any shade. A mix of both red and black is cool too. This hair is best if it is long, a little past their shoulders. Then they can do that sexy hair-flip thing.

I like women who wear sexy, somewhat revealing clothing. Not something crazy, something that a prostitute might wear but just something that shows a little skin. They have to be classy too, of course. Like a low-cut blouse that shows off the cleavage of a curvaceous woman. Also, I like women who wear dark, vampy colors.....kind of the "soft-goth" look.

I don't have much of a preference in terms of women and jewelry. I do like women who are into body jewelry though, the whole body modification scene. I think tattoos and piercings are sexy on a woman, provided the tats aren't something too masculine.

I don't have much of a preference in terms of facial features either. Almost all women, provided they have decent make-up, can make their faces look presentable.

Color? Do we mean skin color? Then I'd have to say Caucasian, Asian or light-skinned Latinas. I do have African-American or black friends, some of them female, all of these being strictly platonic. It's not a judgment of their worth as persons of course. I simply don't find dark skin very attractive, sexually speaking. (Not that African-American women give a damn what I find attractive, I'm sure! I am white as all get out myself.) I like paler skin, regardless of race, even Caucasian women with very dark tans are a turn-off. You just don't see such things much anymore though.

I like women with "sweet" personalities. The kind of woman who would appreciate a big stuffed animal as a gift. I like a woman that I can laugh with, one that has a good sense of humor. Also, to be perfectly honest, I like women with a bi-sexual or even a bi-curious orientation. Once again, I'm not trying to be a perv, just honest. Now, I'm not saying that I wouldn't want a monogamous relationship with such a woman. Monogamy is always best. But within the monogamous relationship, being a man with a bi-female can open up whole new worlds in terms of keeping the sexual spark alive in your bedroom. Even if it is nothing more than fantasy, a brief, "wow, that girl there looks hot, doesn't she honey", such things can go a long way. Here, the sexiest part of a woman like this is her mind, her personality, not her body.


There are other things, in categories that you didn't mention. For example, I love to cook and I am very good at it, so I'd want my woman to be able to do other household things well, assuming that we were living together of course.

Well, I hope this helps somehow. I was very, very honest and as thorough as I could be. And I had fun. );-)

Answer 2

I'm bi so this may change things... But if I were lesbian I'd still find some butches hot. They are! =) I like both lipstick lesbians and butch lesbians. For some reason I have a special attraction towards butch girls though. Maybe because they come off as strong and protective on the outside, but on the inside they're sensitive and timid... Really feminine, ya know? Uh... sexy.

Answer 3

halter tops,tight jeans,daisy dukes(hemmed,not cutoffs),what is most important is what she wears in her head,and her outward projection of how she carries herself,something that clothes will never compete with,slender-petite,no jewelry,blue-hazel eyes,hair color/style is not important,

Answer 4

Wow, good question. I have always wondered this as well....can't wait to see these answers.

Answer 5

i truly have no idea --- there is no one thing nor combination of things that i could point to and say thats it ----- its the package --- how she looks the type of person she is --- everything else is just window dressing so to speak

Answer 6

my girl attracts me there is no specifics every women is different and beautiful in their own right to catagorize them is just stupid.