Singles & Dating - 9 April 2007

2 guys:one i have really good chemistry with i like his personality but im not soo attracted to him im not shallow so i look past flaws pyhsically we went out b4 and it didnt work it was long distance and i nvr saw him he made empty promises and i always waited around he always promised to come see me but something would always come up we went out for a month not a long time i know but we had liked each other for a few monthes b4 that ...then there is a guy i have known and had a huge history with since i was 7 im 16 thats about 9 years we're involved we nvr had sex but we almost have and we did alot of other things i have feelings for him but i liek him for all da wrong reasons i cant find myself to b in love with him cuz its all to sexual i want him it lust but i noe in my heart wen we both mature and get past a pysical thing we will have something real i believ he is the right one and teh other guy is wrong but i like the rite 1 for the wrong reasons vice versa wat do i do advice!!

2007-04-09 07:23:16 · 1 answers · asked by gottaloveme =] 1

My friend Pierre is cool and all, but hes been rambling on lately. We were sitting around at my crib talking bout sexs and all the fine girls at school and I told him that my fantasy was to do a Brazil orgy, and he comes outta left field and says that he had always wanted to have sex with a corpse but finally got to. **** I laughed just like the time he said that he wanted to the have sex wit his neighbor's 7 year old daugther Alice or the time he said that he wanted to *** on the Pope. But am now Im concerned cuz his grandmother is sick and I havent seen her around for 4 days and this guy walks around with mad used condoms but gets no sex from any females I know since nobody wants him since hes strange. Should I check on her?

2007-04-09 07:21:15 · 1 answers · asked by shortydeemac 1

I just ended a year-long relationship with a compulsive liar. He has many amazing qualities...he's goodlooking, smart, funny, outgoing, fun to be around, and likes a lot of the same things as me. But turns out he was cheating on me nearly the entire time, and telling the most elaborate, believable lies to cover it all up. When I would confront him with indisputable facts, he'd still lie his way out of it. I put up with it for a year because I kept hoping I could change him, and because he does have many good qualities. I tried several times to cut off contact with him, and every time I do, he immediately sucks me back in.

My question for anyone else who's been in this situation is CAN compulsive liars change? Or is it completely hopeless? When he attempts to start talking to me again, do I confront him on the fact that he's a compulsive liar? Do I give him ultimatums? It just seems like a hopeless situation. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

2007-04-09 07:20:41 · 12 answers · asked by Monica S 2

Which do you prefer?

2007-04-09 07:16:51 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

my boy friend moved to las vages recently.because hes talking to new girl!and he already cheated on 2!!!!!i for gave him but i never did trust him again!!!!should i be worried or not???????

2007-04-09 07:16:26 · 15 answers · asked by PrincessBaby 1

Okay guys... whats the truth about dating a single mom? I am separating from my husband and eventually will look to date again. How do guys these days really feel about dating someone with young kids? I also had my tubes tied and connot have more babies. Are there men out there that would date a woman and accept her kids and the fact that she cant have more?

2007-04-09 07:11:07 · 16 answers · asked by My two cents 4

I met this guy (he's not my boyfriend...think almost friends with benifits, im not looking for attachment) and we went out for drinks at a local bar to just hang out and talk. His roommate shows up because we were all going to go out together later that night. His roommate was really sweet to me the whole night, he bought my drinks for me and opened the doors for me being a complete gentleman. I really started to kinda like the guy but was respectful and kept my mindset on who i was actually on the date with. when my date went to the bathroom, me and the roommate ended up kissing and eventually we got caught. The guy i was on the date with said he really wasnt all that mad because he's not my boyfriend but if i want to continue to see him at all i cannot have any contact w/ his roommate but at the end of the night his roommate gave me his number under the table saying he wanted to get to know me more. if im interested in his roommate more than him, do i call his roommate or let it go?

2007-04-09 07:10:42 · 14 answers · asked by invictusaflak 2

me and my boyfriend have been together a year, I am his first relationship, so he want to have a break to experience other girls, he says he love me, and knows he will come back, should I think anything of it, am I waisting my time with him?

2007-04-09 07:09:58 · 6 answers · asked by amanda d 2

Okay. So, lets say you know a guy or girl and have really strong feelings for them. He or she has those same feelings. However, you 2 can't be together. With this in mind, and wanting to keep him or herself from getting the feelings he or she already has, he or she leaves you. (For whatever period of time). You 2 reconnect,and those feelings come rushing back-I mean RUSHING back! Only for you to find out that this special someone got together with another guy or girl.

Now keep in mind that this is a completely metaphorical. So this relationship could've been going for, lets say, 3 months minimum, 2 years maximum? They could be engaged, casually dating, it could be 1-sided, nothing but physical, whatever.

After being with you for, (whatever amount of time, and as a frined), this special someone breaks up with his or her boyfriend, girlfriend, or fiance. even tho you 2 still can't be together. How would you feel if this happened to you? how would you react to the shock, and after?

2007-04-09 07:08:39 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-09 07:07:08 · 23 answers · asked by Sara007 5

I have been dating a guy for about 7 months now, about 3 months ago we hit a rough patch, he had a real problem with me talking to an ex of mine from about 4 years ago, I tried to convince my guy that we were only friends but he wouldn't budge. We wound up taking a breather for about 2 weeks but continued to talk and work on things. Just when I thought things were going really well it came to my attention that he had started seeing someone else during this time and basically hid it from me. When I confronted him about it he said that he wasn't sorry because I hurt him by talking to my ex. HE claims to have completely cut this woman off now that we are completely back together but I know for a fact that they are still talking. What do I do?

2007-04-09 07:05:26 · 6 answers · asked by msmarin 1

ive been dating a girl for a while and i really love her and i thought she loved me untill today. i asked her whats on her mind and she said her best friend (a guy) asked her out. i was taken aback and asked her what her answer was. she made it very clear to me that she didnt love him and just wanted to be friends. later she was a bit off so i asked her whats wrong she said that she feels really sorry for her friend. i asked her if she loved me she said yes. i asked her if she still wanted to go out with me. she said she wasnt sure. i was really taken aback. she acted on the rest of our date like nothing had happened and as you can imagine i was really sad. i think she is letting me down gently. but weve been thrugh a lot because her ex gave her a lot of trouble recently and we got through it. she has been a bit depressed recently because there is a few guys that have asked made passes and i puttheminthereplace.she said well get through this but wat do u think is she still intrested???

2007-04-09 07:01:48 · 13 answers · asked by ciaran e 1

2007-04-09 07:00:07 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-09 06:56:43 · 12 answers · asked by kcicek3005 3

I have been with my boyfriend for two months now. I have been best friends with him for a year. He is Mexican and I am a white, American girl. He speaks Spanish, I speak both Spanish and English. My family however doesn't, and therefore they disapprove. They do not even know him, yet do not like him because he doesn't speak English. He also has a child from when he was in his late teens, and they do not like that either. Yes, I know that is a very difficult situation, but that doesn't change the way I love him. The reasons that they do not like him are very superficial. He loves me and I love him. He treats me well and I don't understand how they can be so hateful towards me about this. I know they love me, but they told me that I have made a "piss poor" choice and that I will be ruining my life if I decide to continue with him. They told me I should just "drop" him and move on. They said I am being selfish, I might as well just be on drugs and they will never approve.

2007-04-09 06:54:48 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 26 years old and I think she's about 21-24. We work for different companies in the same building, but i haven't had an oppurtunity to talk to her. (feeling like a 5th grader just thinking about it so please save the immature responses)

2007-04-09 06:52:15 · 20 answers · asked by JBNH007 1

2007-04-09 06:44:30 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was just wondering because im a mexican-american and i am really attracted to black guys but my cousins think that is weird... is there anything weird about that?

2007-04-09 06:36:39 · 15 answers · asked by Miss Cucumber Melon 1

heres the situation, ive known this girl form south africa for about 2 years, she worked in England with me for a year and we realy clicked 2gether. I really liked her but i wasn't sure whether she liked me although there were signs. Well the other day on the phone she admitted that she did really like me heaps but din't no how to approach when she was in England. We speak heaps and i really feel for her but im not sure what to do because she lives so far away. I wouldn't be that bothered but we just really click. Any suggestions please

2007-04-09 06:35:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

my boyfriend drove a girl to the store to visit her frds who working thier. That was a while ago and i said that i didn't like her to him and he knew that. It was about few months ago. No he went on a " date" well not really but he went food shopping with 4 of his frds and lata went back to one of their house and watch a movie, now when i called him cause i was on my break from wrk and he said were he was and who he was with. Now my question is should i trust him again, he kinda did this to me b4 and now he doing it again. Should i just take it like he's going out with his frds or should i take it like hes trying to go on a date but doesn't want to do it 2 close 2gether and have it spread apart so he might think i'll 4get about the previous one.

So confused

2007-04-09 06:35:06 · 1 answers · asked by ashley 1

I've known my boyfriend for 8 yrs.. But we've only been together for 2 months.... So he pretty much knows everything about me.. Let's just say I was permiscuous in High School and he is starting to trip over it and he is also having trust issues.. He's been cheated on and he knows that I've cheated in my past relatioships...I am in love with this guy and I would never cheat on him.. I tell him this over and over... But it still seems to be a problem.. Is it going to take time for him to trust me?? How can I be understanding..? but then at the same time I've NEVER gave him a reason to not trust me.. So it's driving me crazy when he tell me stuff.. I've never had such a strong feeling for anyone in my life I love him alot and I would never hurt him.... It hurts me when he dosen't trust me because I'm not doing anything wrong! What can I say or do to help him get over the past and start trusting me??

2007-04-09 06:33:34 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

has anyone done that?

2007-04-09 06:21:50 · 26 answers · asked by jj 2

im in college single and want to know were to meet hot latina girls

2007-04-09 06:18:52 · 9 answers · asked by Kris O 1

So I met this girl and went out with her for a few days, i later found out that she on a break with her bf who by the way is a dick to her and everybody says he's hidious. Anyway, He was the one who wanted the break, i got to kiss her but the very next day they got back together, she says shes confused, and i know she's just obsessed and used to the same guy, they've been together for 2 years, and i also know that girl is crazy about me, she likes me a LOT and i mean a LOT, but the obsession for that guy has her tied up, and i would fight for her, but i dont really know how to fight something like that and i really don't want to lose her because she's a great girl and deserves a lot better, i really love spending time with her and just hugging her and kissing her. how can i win her over that obsession, is it possible? or should just stay away from her and get over it and let that guy keep treating her bad?

2007-04-09 06:11:42 · 1 answers · asked by jextreme_22 2

I'll be honest, I was blinded by his car. I loved it! But by our first phone convo, I was sprung off of HIM and not his ride.

2007-04-09 06:09:18 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have notced that single older men between the ages of 38-52 seem to enjoy dating women in thier mid to early 20's and 30's...Maybe some of the older men on here can tell us why.

2007-04-09 06:06:39 · 49 answers · asked by tavia20019 2

2007-04-09 06:01:28 · 18 answers · asked by Sara007 5

2007-04-09 05:58:28 · 3 answers · asked by s h 2

How do you break up a short-term relationship? Don't give me any of those moral answers.

2007-04-09 05:57:50 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-09 05:56:12 · 7 answers · asked by Sara007 5