Singles & Dating - 16 November 2006

Im having a gf. i really love her but she hasnt any feelings for me. Is this normal? She accept me 1 week ago. She is trying hard to like me. and im helping her to do it. She wants me really much and i really like her. How to make her like me?? What to do?? Is this normal??? -this is my first and hers too-

2006-11-16 17:18:52 · 22 answers · asked by veether 2

I am asking a legitamate question. It is said, and I know from personal experience, that the penis will grow even larger than its average erection size if the man is extremely excited. When I would be by myself MBing, it would only be about 6-6 1/2 inches, but during sex with a female whether pentration or oral, it was well over 7 inches. Quite a bit larger because it seriously took me by surprise when I looked down at it.
I think that women need to pay attention to my every need, and I think they need to work on their sexual technique if they want to get what they want. Which is around 8", give or take a few centimeters.(Some prefer 9" or larger). Some guys are big without being very excited, either naturally, or from the jelquing techniques or pumps. So women, are we going to start paying attention to a mans every emotion and need as well as developing sexual skill? Also, there are some tightening exercises that can be done for women. GOod luck!

2006-11-16 17:18:38 · 4 answers · asked by Sir 3

2006-11-16 17:18:31 · 8 answers · asked by gaeldami1 2

Okay finally after seeing eachother for 88 days ....we make it to bed. Kissing for a long time. We get into missionary position and then he stops....? i know there must have been something in his head he was thinking of ? it was pretty late too say 2 am or so.
the next day we had a late breakfast. started making out again.....then again made it to the missionary......then again...he could not procede..
MEN....help me out here!!!!! What do you believe causes this?
put as many ideas as you can. What was he thinking? its was something in his mind for sure???? what could the main reasons be. and another things...he said it was cause im extremely beautiful? okayyyyy...isnt that suppose to be a good thing?
please help

2006-11-16 17:18:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I met this girl a few weeks back. And for the record, I do have a girlfriend. But the thing is, I find this girl attractive. We've exhanged SMSes numerous of times. But, few nights ago, when I was chatting with her, she asked me whether I'm single or not? Well, feeling and thinking that being honest is the best thing to do, I answered "I've a girlfriend". Then the next day, I SMSes her few times, there's no reply from her? I'm puzzled? Why does she ignores me now after knowing that I've a girlfriend. Kindly advice me on this. I'm dead puzzled!! Thanks in advance.

2006-11-16 17:16:32 · 12 answers · asked by chadwick 1

My b/f (fiance) went and found my journal filled of my personal thoughts and feelings, read it, ripped it to pieces,called me at work to cuss me out and be mad at me about it. He was mad about things that happend b4 i met him. I want to know why guys would want to invade privacy like that, because he won't give me an answer?

2006-11-16 17:15:58 · 22 answers · asked by kevie_gurl 2

I asked this question a few months back, but it's always fun to see the responses I get!!! I'll tell my story:
I was on a date with this guy, it was like our fourth date and we seemd to REALLY like each other. I asked him if he wanted to get some dinner and he didn't have any money. I am not a gold digger so I offered to pay. Anyway, we were sitting at the Olive Garden enjoying ourselves and I laughed at something he said (He made me laugh quite a bit!!!). My laughter can get pretty loud sometimes, especially if I think that something is really funny. He got real serious and scolded me, he was like "don't laugh that loud, you are embaressing!!!!" I was SHOCKED. I couldn't even eat after that!!!! I decided not to go out with that guy again!!!

2006-11-16 17:15:54 · 10 answers · asked by Easter Bunny 4

i was with a half korean girl in highschool but i feel like thats different. im really attracted to asian girls. and wonder if they think about white guys differently??? the only ones i seem to find or want to get with work at the chinese buffetts... im not going to hit on a girl while shes working.....thoughts.

2006-11-16 17:13:18 · 14 answers · asked by dj_darkside 1

ive crushed on this VERY good guy friend of mine for a pretty long time but he doesnt know. we're extremly comfortable around each other. somehow, someone mustve found out and spreading rumors. now, he wont look at me or talk to me like he usually does everyday. what happened??...

2006-11-16 17:13:05 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

It was last week tat my gf accepted me. But i asked her a question weather she likes me or not and she came out with a answer tat she hasent like me yet and she will try to like me. I really love her very much. She call me to do something to make her like me. the problem is we don noe wat to do. This is our first time. She says tat she wants me to be her bf but hasnt have feelings for me yet. She is battling hard and im supporting her. Can u guys tell me wat to do. To the gals, how to make u gals to like a guy. Im physically fit but kinda short ( 167 cm ). I cannot affort to lose her cause she is really good. She too want me like crazy. Any tactics that can seduce her??? I care too much 4 her. so pls do help me.

2006-11-16 17:06:25 · 17 answers · asked by veether 2

Ok i met this girl a little over a month ago and we do like each other ive said it and so has she and i know its a lil fast but i do want to ask her out. But, she says she wants to focus on school for a little bit before she gets into a relationship and isnt ready for one. she says if i want to i can wait if i dont thats fine too and believe me i do want to wait im just wondering would i be wasting my time if i wait and could this "waiting period" benefit us later on when we hopefully get together.

2006-11-16 17:06:15 · 10 answers · asked by The kid 2

2006-11-16 17:05:57 · 26 answers · asked by josie 2

My girlfriend always initiates our conversations by texting me. She hasn't texted tonight. Should I play like I don't care and just not speak with her tonight or be the man and say "hey"??

2006-11-16 17:04:28 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am always thinking about her and what shes doing, and when I do, my stomach gets all light. We talk once a day if not more, and we do something usually every week if we get the chance. We are honest with eachother, and we have been dating for about 8 months. We are both 14...

2006-11-16 17:03:34 · 17 answers · asked by Zach S 5

2006-11-16 17:03:20 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

he's a sophmore, im a junior.
he's not that cute, and (4give me, but...) i have shallow tendencies when it comes to datable guys.

2006-11-16 17:01:20 · 4 answers · asked by need 2 get a grip 3

Whats next?
i want to take things slow but i want to take things to the next level, me and my guy havent done anything but just cuddle and kiss, well i want to get more intimate with him without going to fast and just jumping right to sex.....so do you have any ideas on what i can do with him while we are together? like i said i want to go slow so please dont suggest oral sex, or anything like that right away, i'm looking for something else...please be specific, and give me ideas that can lead all the way up to sex.....Thanks

2006-11-16 17:00:02 · 15 answers · asked by curious 1

2006-11-16 16:59:48 · 11 answers · asked by Easter Bunny 4

I had one but it didn't work out, simply because I was holding back emotionally since I'm not sure whether or not the other person would be around tomorrow (it would be stupid for me to give all of myself to him if I don't have all of him to me.). Although we made out a lot, We didn't go as far as having sex though (although he always talked me into it). He said relationships shouldn't be a cage and it should have room for growth. Our commitment, according to him, was about growth and not exclusivity. But honestly for me, I think it was all crap. He was my first boyfriend back then when i was still naive. Now, older and wiser, I would not consider having an open relationship again.

How about you, what are your thoughts? What makes it different from friends with benefits? Can commitment really take place in an open relationship?

2006-11-16 16:59:04 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

For the past two months I've been dating a guy who I thought was wonderful. I'm 26 and he is 27. He always picked me up and took me out every weekend and some weeknights. We recently had sex for the first time, but he didn't stay over...he never stays over. I asked him why he never takes me to his home and he says he didn't want his children to get attached to me just in case we didn't work out. I totally bought it thinking "wow this guy is a great father".
Last night a good friend of mine called and said she ran into him at a restaurant...with a woman who called herself his wife. My friend said he was very rude to her and when my friend asked "who's this" the wife said "I'm his wife and who are you?" My friend said she just walked away.

What I'm curious to know is do I tell her....or do I just leave it alone and hope he gets what he deserves? I feel so betrayed...I can't even imagine how she would feel. I don't want to be a homewrecker...what do I do

2006-11-16 16:58:57 · 10 answers · asked by GreatDivide 1

We say that we have crush on somebody and we say we love someone.. Wht actually it means in terms of "LOVE " & "CRUSH"?? what is the boder line b/w both??

2006-11-16 16:56:58 · 36 answers · asked by Kiven 1

Should I talk to him, or just continue to avoid him?

2006-11-16 16:56:16 · 16 answers · asked by Anna.R 3

everytime i want to look through his phone he snatches it and tells me i have no buisness looking through it. he deletes all his missed calls, recieved calls and outgoing calls...why is he doing this? is he cheating?

2006-11-16 16:55:49 · 16 answers · asked by KDUB100 2

my bf was cheating on me after 10 years of dating and i am hos fiance and i caught him cheating on me with some1 close to him, and this is very true HIS MOM!!!! GROSSS!!!! in my bed what am i to do????

2006-11-16 16:55:36 · 6 answers · asked by pooh_female 1

say if it was just bad timing or you two were too young,do you still have a special place in ur heart for your first g/f /relationship(and or kiss if ur first kiss was with ur g/f and meaningful).Would you give her a 2nd chance?And even if things ended badly(same questions). shy guys answers even better since my ex is shy/not too confident.

2006-11-16 16:55:14 · 3 answers · asked by dabluschmosprincess 1

i had relationship with my boyfriend since 4 yrs. we loved each other very much. but we break up bzoe he said he cant marry me because of his family & society, and now he has started avoiding me since 1 & half year. in starting he met me talked me but from the last 6 months he is behaving like i am a stranger for him. and he moreover look at other side & stand where he can not see me. i know that he loves me. but i cant tolrate his behaviour anymore, because i love him & i cant see that i am nothing for him.
i want to forget him, but some how i am not able to doing this. i am thinking of him every second, i always talk about him with my friends, i dont know how could i forget him. i cant do unjustice with my parents only because of him. they love me so much. i just want to forget him any how. i will be thank ful who can give me support.

2006-11-16 16:53:48 · 8 answers · asked by Jeny 2

I was with a guy for over 3 and a half years, and he broke up with me 4 or 5 months ago. I still love him as much as I did when we first got together. How do I just let go of that and move on?

2006-11-16 16:51:22 · 8 answers · asked by Rita 3

My girlfriend has been secretly wearing my glasses when I am out of the apartment and all day at work and I caught her doing this and she explained she wants to wear glasses because she loves how she looks with them but with the prescription lenses in them as well. The glasses she is wearing are my last prescription which is -3.50, I am starting to notice she is naturally squinting too, should I just let her wear my old glasses and let her enjoy them, she is 21 and I am 24 and I am thinking about proposing soon (Xmas) and don't want any fighting over this issue

2006-11-16 16:51:11 · 8 answers · asked by Greg 1

Everywhere I go you see a tall man, like over six feet with a five two or shorter girl!
Why???
If I was a guy and I was tall I wouldnt want to have to bend over to kiss my girlfriend...You think tall men would want tall women and short men short women, it just looks better I think, like avril and deryk or sandra bullock and jesse james, I dont get it.
We tall girls (im fivenine and a 8th) have ******* too you know!

2006-11-16 16:50:41 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous

hes 4 years older than me and he sits by me in the lunch room and asks things like "do u got a bf." and "wanna hang out." i dont know if he is just playing a round or being seirous!!
plz help me im so confused!!!

2006-11-16 16:49:33 · 17 answers · asked by Nicole 1