Singles & Dating - 14 November 2006

I was seeing a guy for a few months and he went away to nigeria to work on the oil rigs, he came back to great britian for a training course and we met up. we got on great and it was if we had never been apart. i really would like to make a go of this and wait for him, does anyone have any similar experiences, he might be away again for 6 months, do you honestly think he wants the same as he drove 3 hrs just to meet me?

2006-11-14 23:56:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have been dating for about 6 mos. She has been distant for about 3. I know what most people would say, she's got someone else, she's still looking, etc., but I am really convinced that it's more a situation where she is really torn about what she wants and she doesn't know. But she doesn't seem to be doing anything about it. I have resigned myself to backing off for a few days, maybe a week. Ladies esp., how long should I expect to wait until she has taken a realistic, objective look at what she has and could have vs what she would have if she goes on alone? I am certainly not perfect, but I treat her well, and she treats me wonderfully. She just doesn't come around nearly often enough for my liking.

2006-11-14 23:55:46 · 6 answers · asked by randyken 6

2006-11-14 23:52:30 · 9 answers · asked by inquisitive 1

Hi my name is Trevor and I am 24 years old. Before I ask my question I just want to say I have had a lot of horrible reply's to some of the questions I have been asking can you please stop doing this. Any way back to my question.

The guys I work with have found out that I am a virgin. And have already keep pestering me in going out and getting laid. How can I stop them from pestering me because I don't agree with one night stands and I would like to find a girlfriend when I am ready. I have tried telling them no and they just don't listen. Also has a similar experience happened to you. The only reason I am asking is because I want to know if I am worrying over nothing.

2006-11-14 23:50:56 · 47 answers · asked by ? 1

So me and this Chick I met were talking in this parking lot. We decided we were gonna go get something to eat. She had to get something out of her car, I walked with her. Now, a golden rule for a stud is always look for signs of kids. I looked at the car for anything that would indicate that, car seat, bottles, dipers, toys. I saw a booster seat, and that was it, I turned around and walked off. She chased me down and tried to talk to me, I told her, Sorry Babe, no time for other peoples brats.

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2006-11-14 23:48:46 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

Letting them back in her life?

2006-11-14 23:47:26 · 15 answers · asked by murmic05 3

Everything i try never seems to be good enough for her i dont want to lose her I have never been this happy before. The fact iv neva been in a serious relationship before may have something to do with why i cant do it please help thank you

2006-11-14 23:46:57 · 14 answers · asked by Neil L 1

i am seeing a guy who is 30 years old. i am 23... we have excellent communication & great understanding.. we get along really well... but we both belong to different cultures, i belong to indian culture and he belongs to the western... this bothers him allot... is this the right reason to go our seperate ways ???

2006-11-14 23:42:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Please help, I'm 16 and I have been secretly seeing my mums ex who is 46.
We went out for a drink just to catch up and talk about a job and we ended up having sex. We have since met up twice and I have stayed over at his house.
He has daughters older than me which is a problem as we never got on.
He didn't mean to sleep with me and I didn't mean to fall for him but it just happened.
It isn't illegal in this country as I am at the age of consent. I know you are probably all thinking he is a pervert and I am just some niave kid but please believe me it isn't like that.
Me and my mum have never been very close she walked out on me when I was 4, and no this is not revenge on her my point is she has never considered me so i dont see why i should cnsider her.
I'm in love with the guy, I would do anything for him, and I don't know what to do as I only see him about once a week. Please help.

2006-11-14 23:36:46 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-14 23:36:36 · 8 answers · asked by mai s 1

2006-11-14 23:36:13 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

i love my guy and he loves me but i seem to be the only one who does or says anything romantic how can i get him to pay a bit more attention and suprise me once in a while?

2006-11-14 23:33:05 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-14 23:32:20 · 7 answers · asked by breeze 2

2006-11-14 23:31:58 · 9 answers · asked by metallixan 2

2006-11-14 23:31:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

How can i get talking to her without:

a) Coming across as a pervert?

b) Coming across as a rapist?

c) Coming across as a weirdo?

d) Coming across as cheesy?

Also, how can i be sure she doesn't have an Arnold Schwarzenegger boyfriend working out in the backroom? Should i ask before working my magic?

And is it safe to get talking when i'm panting like a c*nt on the treadmill?

Thanks.

2006-11-14 23:28:42 · 16 answers · asked by bobby t 3

If you had to pick between a blonde and brunette which one would you pick? (They both have great personalities)

2006-11-14 23:27:36 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

we've been together for about just under a year now. i love and care for her alot but she keeps to her self alot and doesn't provide much fun. when i try to suggest fun things to do she will often reject them and would rather stay indoors and do nothing. i'm not much of a party animal but don't mind going places for a bit of fun. i'd like her to be herself and go crazy sometimes and wild... but she tries too hard to please by being 'miss goody two shoes'.

2006-11-14 23:26:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

what you look for most in a girl? do you prefer them to be more lady like than loud and wild. more of a listener than a talker? anything?!

2006-11-14 23:21:08 · 16 answers · asked by lulu x 1

Whats the most hottest thing your guy had done to you.

2006-11-14 23:18:28 · 7 answers · asked by ROUGHPANTHER 1

Any time of brand is good, I'm all ears...or is it eyes.

2006-11-14 23:17:49 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

What should I write to a female that showed intrest in me that doesn't make me look like a tool?

2006-11-14 23:14:32 · 10 answers · asked by mickeys12 1

This happened on more than one occassion. I meet a girl and we exchange numbers. I call we chat a bit and ask if you want to have dinner,coffee,etc.. You say no because of this or that,which is fine. I call the following week and the same thing happens. So I take the hint and never bother ya again...Then 2 weeks later You call me and say "why are you such a stranger" "why have`nt you called". At this point I`m disgusted and make up a lame excuse or say that I`m seeing someone. Why did you bother to call

2006-11-14 23:07:11 · 15 answers · asked by bigpumpdaddy 4

and after giving a reality check .. suddenly they email u cursing and swearing at you ??

i answered a question . part of his question is that he is desperate to find a beautiful white woman - a hot model , which i assume hes looking for a date or something . there was a picture and frankly he is not gd looking

all i said was you are not that good looking so he can forget about dating hot models. (i didnt even say he's ugly)

the next thing he emailed me saying im ****** up..blah blah blah .. dont even understand what crap he was talking about. and that i dont even know him to give that kind of comments.. (duuh does anyone here know everyone? no rite)

Moral of story if you dont want any negative feedbacks or comments or any "wrong" answers. please dont ask . this place is for laugh enjoyment and peoples opinion.

pheww.. my ranting for the day

2006-11-14 23:06:42 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

See, the thing is that this guy is my boss' little brother and that he has made it clear to me that he really likes me. I've already made it clear to him that I like him too, but want nothing more at this time. I am not ready for a committed relationship and also I don't see him as a boy friend material. I feel that he needs to get his life together first.

I don't mind having sex with him since there is this huge sexual tension between us, but not sure if this will end up complicating things or not....like awkwardness and all. The guy is nice, but he seems having a hard time understanding me in general. Should I just forget about all other stuff and go ahead with the sex idea or not? Also how am I supposed to tell and explain to him that I love flirting with him and all, but I don't think we will last as a couple at this time without hurting his feelings?

2006-11-14 23:03:58 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

Think a woman with very white skin is beautiful and in the same thought think they same about a woman with dark brown skin?..............Is this REALLY possible to like two opposites equally?.....Or does the scale ALWAYS tip?

2006-11-14 23:03:22 · 8 answers · asked by Direktor 5

I am not a nutter, I am writing a 5000 word project on sexual health for my Adult Nursing Diploma and would also appreciate anywhere I can get statistics for STD and teen pregnancy rates over the last 5 years.

10 points for top answer

Thanks for your time

2006-11-14 23:01:42 · 7 answers · asked by grandpasapornstar 2

we broke up a month ago, because i have really bad anger problems and drinking shows it, ive gotten voilent before and ive hit him but i love him and i miss him, i want him to know ive sorted myself out and id do anything for him i want to know how i can show him, i cant explain how i feel he makes everyhting right i want to give him the world all i have to do is look at him or even think of him and i smile i want him to know how much im hurting now hes gone and i want him to know i love him

2006-11-14 23:01:22 · 13 answers · asked by purple pixie 1

I see people's answers on here that say this is only a word. I have also seen questions looking for the definition of this word. I see other answers that describe this emotion perfectly. I see others that say "don't say it if you can't show it". So here's my question:

Why do we, as humans, have such a hard time showing this emotion to the people in our lives? and Why can't we say it to those we do love and those we show it to?

2006-11-14 23:00:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-14 22:57:04 · 18 answers · asked by Bob 1