See, the thing is that this guy is my boss' little brother and that he has made it clear to me that he really likes me. I've already made it clear to him that I like him too, but want nothing more at this time. I am not ready for a committed relationship and also I don't see him as a boy friend material. I feel that he needs to get his life together first.
I don't mind having sex with him since there is this huge sexual tension between us, but not sure if this will end up complicating things or not....like awkwardness and all. The guy is nice, but he seems having a hard time understanding me in general. Should I just forget about all other stuff and go ahead with the sex idea or not? Also how am I supposed to tell and explain to him that I love flirting with him and all, but I don't think we will last as a couple at this time without hurting his feelings?
2006-11-14 23:03:58 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well first let me ask you this. what do you think the purpose of sex is for? If you are just having sex but no relationship, isn't tha called "being used". you are giving him what he wants. i admit, guys are perves. they are willing to go through months of relationship to get to home base. But if you give him a short cut, really, what do you think that is? I really cant make the decision for you, it is up to you. But I'll leave you with this thought.
What do you get from all this? what are you benefitting from?
2006-11-14 23:10:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 1⤋
Just tell him you're NOT interested on having a girlfriend-boyfriend relationship with him, but...
...you're interested with him sexually and don't mind having sex with him.
You and him being co-workers complicate things, since all of the dangers (including sexual harassment case) of co-worker relationship.
Maybe one of you should transfer to a different floor or building or departement or branch, just somewhere to make sure that the two of you are at a comfortable distant away. Since he is the boss' little brother, I'm sure he can pulled some strings.
And oh, if you want to have sex, make sure it is NOT during office hours and in an office enviroment.
2006-11-14 23:35:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
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See, the thing is that this guy is my boss' little brother and that he has made it clear to me that he really likes me. I've already made it clear to him that I like him too, but want nothing more at this time. I am not ready for a committed relationship and also I don't see him as a...
2015-08-13 14:52:06 · answer #3 · answered by Fiorenze 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you should be avoiding the situation...as much of it as possible.
The next worse thing to having sex with your boss is jilting one of his/her relatives.
Not a good career move.
If you lost your job over a failed relationship or a quick romp in the sack, can you quickly replace it with one that is comparable.
If you were really attracted to one another and truly saw potential for something long term then it might be something to consider.
If you are just out to get a quick piece of action...I'd look somewhere other than the office/job place.
2006-11-14 23:17:09 · answer #4 · answered by Randal D 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
NO! you don't have sex with a co-worker. 1. This guy is the boss's brother it is sexual harrasment. Talk with the human resource department and keep a record of the times that he has petitioned for sexual favors. Also keep a record of the times he has said it will help you go up the ladder, because it won't it will help you out the door.
2006-11-14 23:08:35 · answer #5 · answered by mom of girls 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No dont be silly! That's not a joke, a cup of coffee, or cigar. I feel by doing that you will loose your respect, diginity, decency, varginity (if not already lost), grace and many things more. The person may think and consider you as prostitute and nothing more! Therefore be careful and dont spoil yourself. Moreover, that is workplace and not a brothel and there shud be a morality observant environment in office.
2006-11-15 01:09:56 · answer #6 · answered by MY Regards to All 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that this is too much complicated. Why should you mix up with smb (who you can have complications with later on) and suffer the consequences, when you can find smb who may offer you love (real thing) and make you happy...and above without finding yourself in an unpleasant situation at work!
I say NO!
You better don't mix work with pleasure and flirting, cause it may end up badly.
Don't think about that guy. Consider him just your boss's little brother and that's it!
Find a real boyfriend and make yourself happy!
Good luck
2006-11-14 23:12:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
The answer? No, No, and No! Having any sexual contact with a coworker can lead to potential law complications and other things you do not want to be entangled with. If you guys "break up" he can say you "sexually assaulted/harassed/or raped" him. Vice Versa. To protect yourself and others, the answer would definitely be NO.
2006-11-14 23:18:01 · answer #8 · answered by ms_ikia 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sex without feeling is just that.... Sex. If something were to happen, how would you feel if your entire work place found out about it? Work place romances are tricky, someone always gets hurt.
2006-11-14 23:06:44 · answer #9 · answered by shepherd169 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Don't do it, unless you wanna have a big headache later on. Be in better control over your life.
2006-11-14 23:09:17 · answer #10 · answered by seek_fulfill 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋