Singles & Dating - 19 September 2006

I've had my bf for a month now. Though, what we've done has basically gab on the phone. Really never had a date. Just once hanging out at his house w his folks there (his nephew in the way), and running into him at a festival and sticking with him there. I ask this also because we became a couple the first day we met ( thur a friend). I don't know if its wrong or not. I have some feelings for him, but not full romance. I just wanna see him more. He lives only 20 mins. away. Though, neither of us got a car. Is this stupid, or is it just something happening now and has a chance of changing? Should we split, or just what and see what happens?

2006-09-19 17:33:00 · 5 answers · asked by Artsy 1 3

2006-09-19 17:31:39 · 33 answers · asked by Paul T 4

I like this guy i just started hanging out with and im getting mixed signals. we have plans to hang out and i want to make a move but im not sure how since ive never been the one to initiate. hes shy and im shy but i decided to change this and make a move. i need guys opinions on this one! i dont want him for just hook up though. but what kind of approach would you want from a nice pretty girl? guys how would i go about this i never make the move haha.. btw i give everyone credit out there who does!

2006-09-19 17:30:53 · 13 answers · asked by narski123 1

I met him a week ago, and although I don't want to be bf/gf, I want to get to know him better. My heart jumps at the site of him (I've never been like this around a guy b4), and we both smile when our eyes meet. One of my friends even heard him say he wanted to meet me (b4 we met) so she introduced us. Problem: He's Chinese, I'm American. He's only here for a year. :(
What should I do.

2006-09-19 17:29:31 · 12 answers · asked by gemma gemma 2

I have been out with this girl from work about 5 times and she has never turned down a date. She always seems excited to go and we have a good time. I have hooked up with her on the last three dates and have slept in her bed with her twice (no sex). She is kind of shy around a lot of people and she describes herself as a nerd but she really isn't.

I am about 10 years older than her and she has never been married. I think she may be fairly inexperienced in dating even though she is in her mid twenties. We have never really talked about our past relationships so I am not really sure.

She always answers my calls and we have good conversations. However about a week ago I just noticed that something was different. She has never called me first but she has started a few e-mail conversations.

I am just not sure if she is interested or if she just doesn't know how to tell me to get lost. I think about her all of the time but I don't know if she thinks about me until I contact her.

2006-09-19 17:23:34 · 11 answers · asked by William J 1

Turning Back

If I could take the hands of time and turn them back again,
I'd leave some bridges left unburned, and chase another end.
I'd leaves the stones I chose to turn exactly how they were...
And turn the stones I once ignored to find myself for sure.
I'd face the fears I once escaped-while unafraid to sink...
Confronting every time I missed the chance to stop and think.
I'd take the bets I once refused to see if luck had changed...
Befriending every stranger while the rest were left estranged.
Taking what's familiar I'd just toss it all aside...
And risk the chance to open up to see what's left inside.
I'd live the life I've dreamed about, yet too afraid to chase-
Just to see the look of awe on every doubtful face.
I'd do these things and so much more and owe it all to you...
For all the things you've said to me, and Hell you put me through.
So now that I have cut these chains I choose to live for me!
Not the way you'd like me to, instead, a life that's free!

2006-09-19 17:21:45 · 18 answers · asked by smartestassofthemall 3

Is there something wrong with me?

2006-09-19 17:21:32 · 39 answers · asked by Golfgirl 2

i been dating this boy for 3 weeks now and we really want to meet each other for the first time but he live far from me and we both in school.

2006-09-19 17:20:35 · 8 answers · asked by Native Princess 2

2006-09-19 17:18:52 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am not the real jealous type, but I am driving myself crazy.
Awhile back my boyfriend was talking to his ex and other girls he knew behind my back. I mean he was talking dirty to them, ect.
He promised after he was caught that he would not do it anymore, but I am worried he is doing it again.
You see he deletes everything from the computer before I come home from work, and I have even been threatened by a girl I dont even know. Can someone PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE
tell me how I can find out who he chats with online, sends email too, ect.
Like I said, he erasing stuff on our computer. HELP

2006-09-19 17:18:46 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I hear women all the time "He is not even a real man couldn't even help me with 100 dollars this month" or something like that. If my wife had asked me for money like that when we were dating we wouldn't be married. Some women get in relationships and start spending because they feel it is their man's responsibility to take care of them. I believe in equal partnership no housewives here

2006-09-19 17:16:25 · 28 answers · asked by Big Daddy R 7

? we met while i was visiting my friend in another state, than a few days later, there was a small get together at her place. we were drinking, and me & him got along really well. he kissed me. and kissed me. and kissed me. BUT he has a gf out of the country so i kept pushing him away. later on, everyone went to bed & he was suppose to leave with his brother, yet he stayed (fell asleep outside my door) & i woke up in the early morning & found him there. i woke him & we started talking, and that lead to us having sex...and later on, having sex again (the chemistry was insane) & than sleeping together all afternoon. the sad thing is, is that he's now moved to be with his gf, & what we had was great, but i cant help but wonder about him. was i just a fling? since i left (2 days after that happened) my friend told me that he wouldnt shut up about how much fun he had with me, but he felt bad about his girl. Now i'm left with wondering about him...stupid feelings.

2006-09-19 17:13:29 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend of 3 years has watched porn the entire relationship, is he cheating on me?

2006-09-19 17:13:10 · 14 answers · asked by T.T. 1

How do you deal with all the pressure that comes with it?
There's enough issues in a relationship without adding other people's bigotry and intolerance...so how do you deal with it?

2006-09-19 17:11:02 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-19 17:09:47 · 33 answers · asked by Manda 2

2006-09-19 17:07:24 · 14 answers · asked by Raptor 3

Wut do YOU BELIEVE is the best way to a womans heart?

im not looking for advice or help. i just would like to know your point of view...wut u think is the best way

2006-09-19 17:07:19 · 7 answers · asked by Aljohn T 2

My boyfried is a really good and honest guy. He treats me really well and we have never fought , but I just dont feel the same way anymore and I like an other person . I don't know how to tell him. Please give me some advice . I don;t want to hurt his feelings or make him suffer , becuase he doesn't deserve anything bad.

2006-09-19 17:05:52 · 18 answers · asked by Ale D 1

I am 20 years old and I never had a girlfriend. There were some girls as friends, but not as girlfriends. I know I look good, because a lot of times girls actually come and start talking to me and I dunno what to talk about, so I usually talk about thing that I know most-politics and current world events :), which I guess is a turnoff to them and they quickly walk away.I dunno what can be more exiting to talk about than global warming..lol jk I lack confidence to talk to a girl, because of fear of rejection. Do you think I can still change my personality?

2006-09-19 17:05:32 · 17 answers · asked by Nice man 5

My first love who I still love very much is getting out of prison in a few weeks. He has been in there for 5 years over burgulary. I have been writing him and getting close to him again for awhile now. He says he has changed and still loves me and wants to get back together when he gets out. He was very young, 18 years old when he got into trouble and made mistakes but I do still love him and would love to be back with him but with his history, i dont know if that would be a good idea or not. People change and i know everyone deserves a second chance but i am really confused and would like some advice on what I should do. My family hates him because of things he has done and that also bothers me because i care alot on what my family thinks. Please help, if you were me, what would you do? Should i give him a second chance and start over? Thank you for your help

2006-09-19 17:03:25 · 22 answers · asked by kristen e 1

2006-09-19 17:03:25 · 1 answers · asked by mirna7936@sbcglobal.net 1

Ladies can you help me figure out what is wrong? I am 23 5'9" 160lbs in good shape and have a nice tan. I have brown hair, green eyes, and dress very neatly. The problem is I am getting a divorce and now I am moving on. I go out with friends on the weekend to different clubs and it seems as if there is no women that check me out. When my wife and I were together and we would go out I would have women come up to me all the time and likewise for her (men). I have never had a problem meeting new women in the past but now I it seems as if I have it rock bottom. I am a very nice looking guy (not to boast) but I know that there are other guys out there that look better. What is the problem? I treat women like they should be treated and not like a piece of a.s.s. Got any tips or advice? I am not desprite to find somebody but I would like to find someone so that we could start off as friends and see where it goes.

2006-09-19 17:01:53 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

technically, if her hymen is already mostly torn somehow (non-sexual) & he may not know anyway.. or would that make it worse or create false expectations (keep in mind it's only a friend from uni that's not all that experienced really) what if she just doesn't want to make a big deal out of it? why or why not?

2006-09-19 16:59:44 · 19 answers · asked by pinoro 3

2006-09-19 16:58:49 · 32 answers · asked by slaphappy 3

Im not sure if this is appropriate for yahoo answers but is 6-7 inches for a 17 year old too small for girls my age? Is this average for a male or too small?

2006-09-19 16:58:42 · 15 answers · asked by TT M 1

A cashier at a local convenience store did that to me this evening. But, given the fact that she was wearing a big ol' rock on her ring finger, I really don't see what, if anything, it could mean. Anybody have an idea about this?

2006-09-19 16:56:14 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-19 16:52:42 · 13 answers · asked by Gina Marie :] 1

2006-09-19 16:51:08 · 4 answers · asked by jonathanglidden 1

is it "alrighty" or "alrighdy" which means "alright" ?

2006-09-19 16:50:59 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am moving in with my boyfriend.... in about 2 weeks, I would really like to do something special for him and also get him a perfect gift so I need great ideas And not just things like sex on the floor , something that is really GREAT

2006-09-19 16:50:23 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous