I am not the real jealous type, but I am driving myself crazy.
Awhile back my boyfriend was talking to his ex and other girls he knew behind my back. I mean he was talking dirty to them, ect.
He promised after he was caught that he would not do it anymore, but I am worried he is doing it again.
You see he deletes everything from the computer before I come home from work, and I have even been threatened by a girl I dont even know. Can someone PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE
tell me how I can find out who he chats with online, sends email too, ect.
Like I said, he erasing stuff on our computer. HELP
2006-09-19 17:18:46 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Download a keylogger. You can hide it so he doesn't know that it's there and it records EVERYTHING typed with the keyboard. And the window name. so if he's chatting on IM you'll know the screen name of the person he is chatting with and what was said. Good Luck!
2006-09-19 17:24:10 · answer #1 · answered by cloudberry84321 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
instead of punishing yourself by trying to track his every move, don't you think HE should be the one suffering?
It's clear that he has been hiding things from you, and only confessed when he was caught. If he wasn't, he would still be happily playing you and thinking you a fool.
So don't be one.
Help yourself by breaking off and shutting this harmful person out of your life. Don't prolong the misery of always suspecting. The trust in the relationship is already absent.
Let his own fire games burn his own ***.
Take care, you.
2006-09-20 00:27:39 · answer #2 · answered by Beth 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hello =) Boy problems are the Worst! Im so sorry you are going through this.
Honestly, if you do not have trust, you do not have anything. If he is erasing stuff, it is very clear that he is doing something with no regrets. Please, for your own sake, move on. There are many other guys out there worthy of your time. =) Good Luck
2006-09-20 00:34:25 · answer #3 · answered by nikki_butterfly777 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try buying a computer program that records every word that is typed. However, it does not seem like this guy is worth it, I would just dump him and save myself the money and the heartbreak.
2006-09-20 00:23:24 · answer #4 · answered by student16 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he did it once, he can do it again. The only way you gonna find out who hes chatting with online is to have his id and password for his messenger, and thats impossible.
Goodluck. Just dump him and get you a man who treats you right.
2006-09-20 00:22:42 · answer #5 · answered by stemo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YOU NEED TO BE HONEST WITH YOURSELF FIRST, IF
YOU DONT TRUST HIM THEN WHY ARE YOU WITH HIM
AND IF HE DELETE THINGS ON HIS COMPUTER AFTER
HE SAID HE WOULD NOT DO ANY MORE. SOUND LIKE
YOU NEED TO FIND YOUR SELF A NEW BOYFRIEND;
IT ALL ABOUT RESPECT AND HE REALLY NOT GIVEN
YOU ANY. AND YOU DESERVE THAT. AND THE LONGER
IT TAKE FOR YOU TO REALIZE THAT THE HARDER IT
WILL GET TO LET GO. THE ONLY PERSON THAT WILL
CONTINUE TO HURT BY THIS IS YOU.
2006-09-20 00:24:59 · answer #6 · answered by luckystar 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go to your start menu and select (search) then click on files and folders then check the dates. Oh and don't forget to check the hidden folders too.
A friend of mine taught me to do this when I thought my hubby was cheating on me. Luckily false alarm. Good Luck!!!
2006-09-20 00:22:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok girlfriend set his azz up. make up a name like some one he knows and an email address. write something the night before that you might think he is doing like( when do you think we can meet up) something like that and wait for his response he does not catch on.. if he writes back then u know he is a cheater...
2006-09-20 00:24:02 · answer #8 · answered by babycivic27 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont know how to do it, but there is a way to go into it and get the history of what has been done on it...... get a book or ask some one who can tell you......put this guestion in the tech part of this space....... God bless
2006-09-20 00:22:57 · answer #9 · answered by Annie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is obvious he is cheating if he erases conversations from his computer. Why would you want to stay with a cheating boyfriend anyway?
2006-09-20 00:20:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋