2006-09-19 17:09:47 · 33 answers · asked by Manda 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Train him. Tell him what you like. Reward him for doing a good job. Communication is key.
2006-09-19 17:11:04 · answer #1 · answered by Plasmapuppy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to just tell him. Dont waste your time. You can guide him in the right direction or you can get on top and do it yourself. You can say things like "hey lets try this" or "try doing it like this, i love that" while not actually saying, you are bad in bed and it wont hurt his ego as much. The male ego is a very fragile thing! Good luck!
2006-09-19 17:12:37 · answer #2 · answered by sassysharli 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you really like him train him..... sex is important and must be enjoyable for both if you weren't doin' it for him wouldn't you want to learn? Besides learning and exploring different things is fun and can only make you a better lover.......I taught my man and trust me take the time to teach it's so worth it......
When he's doin' something wrong in a sexy voice say " No baby like this....and guide him until it's the way you want it.....
Good Luck and enjoy.....
2006-09-19 17:22:34 · answer #3 · answered by Annalise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's not that you tell him. You just say, what you want him to do to you. Guy's don't know what you want unless you tell them. Or else, they'll just go on doing what satisfies them. It's you that has to tell him what you want. You can't expect him to know. While in the process tell him what you want him to do to you. and how you want it done. show him use yourself as an example. hope this helps.
2006-09-19 17:15:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should come right out and tell him, unless you don't mind destroying his self confidence completely. I hate to say it, but you are going to have to show him what you like. It all depends on how into this guy you are.
2006-09-19 17:12:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like him enough to stay with him just be honest. Tell him what you need. Don't just say you don't do it for me. Teach him what you like. Everyone is different. More people would stay together if they would learn to talk to each other.
2006-09-19 17:12:40 · answer #6 · answered by purrfectsandcastle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its true sex do need a lot of talkin too...else will sulk with time...talk bout sex in general not when u making love ,but otherwise...& do take time while makin love...hav this thing called tease in sex life will do the trick ,tease on him & u'll find soon if hes just shy or its just him to be that way...put forward ur likes & dislikes..as mere talk..& let him join in...& do giv him his time to open up...be innovative & passionate...make him feel that fire, should light up his...hope it works for u...all luck..enjoy !!
2006-09-19 17:18:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont tell him - you dont want to hurt his ego... try showing him, or suggesting something youd like to try (even if you know its a sure fire way to get you going - he obviosuly doesnt know that) try to make him feel good about the change..!
2006-09-19 17:24:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You told the rest of the Internet, now tell the one guy that you need to tell. I would want to know if it was me.
BTW, it's not me is it?
2006-09-19 17:11:44 · answer #9 · answered by live2ride 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men in the sack are like puppy dogs that love to be trainined. just tell him what works for you, and direct him how to do it right. but dont do it like you are ordering. or move on and find someone else.
2006-09-19 17:11:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋