My boyfriend of 3 years has watched porn the entire relationship, is he cheating on me?
2006-09-19 17:13:10 · 14 answers · asked by T.T. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It all depends on what he does after watching the porn. For example, watching porn gets me so horny that I immediately attack my significant other. At times during our SEXCAPADE, I may fantasize about some scene I had just seen in the porn film, but I don't consider that cheating. My significant other is so well gifted in the art of sex, that I can't imagine going elsewhere for sex or companionship. Instead of cheating, perhaps your boyfriend is using the porn to help put him in the mood to make mad, passionate love to you. Also, perhaps your boyfriend finds porn as educational as he finds it erotic. I say that because of personal experience. I'm 64 years old, and I never began watching porn until I was gifted with some porn tapes on my 60th. birthday, and my sex life has never been the same. I've learned so much from watching porn that my sex life has improved tremendously. In my opinion, porn alone does not convict an individual of cheating. If you're watching porn with him, you don't cheat do you, just because of the porn, so give him the same consideration.
2006-09-19 17:43:42 · answer #1 · answered by tyrone n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-07-20 05:51:21 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I'm not a guy but cheating is cheating.
I had the same problem with my boyfriend of 3 years.
There are other ways of cheating then sex!
Ask yourself this does it hurt you or make you feel uncomfortable
when he watches porn? If your answer is yes then weather or not
he feels it's cheating it's still wrong.
I personally believe when your in a committed relationship you shouldn't lust for another person, only for each other.
If it bothers you should tell him. If you have and it has continued
then maybe he has an addiction and needs to seek help.
I hope things work out for you.
2006-09-19 17:34:04 · answer #3 · answered by kandn 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Looking at the answers, it's clear women don't like when men watch porn. But to women: did you consider that the reason men are horny enough to have sex with you is because of the mental stimulation the porn offers? Did you consider that if you force him to not watch it, (apart from the possibility of pissing him off so much he will resent you and not want sex), that you'll end up with much less sex?
So why does it really bother you? Are you jealous from the imaginary cheating of your man watching another naked woman? Except that it is just on a screen. It means nothing more than that.
Best of luck to you,
Leafgreen
2006-09-19 18:02:21 · answer #4 · answered by PaymentKey.com 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i dont think so...porn is just movies..they are not real...wut u guys have is. dont let petty differences or hobbies get in the way of that. so the man watches porn..big deal..i know alot of women that do the same. its not like he's actually having sex with them. thats like saying im married and i think jessica alba is ugly. dont worry about it.
2006-09-19 17:22:42 · answer #5 · answered by Aljohn T 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No and why do you think it is. It is just a movie, guys like to get off alot more than a woman. Now if he starts comparing you to or expects something that you find uncomfortable or unreasonable then there is a problem
2006-09-19 17:19:18 · answer #6 · answered by wow one 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love watching bisexual porn when my girlfriend is at work bisexual guy's are sexy and hot and I love watching bisexual guy sucking the other guys c o c k that's so freaking hot and it gets me hot and h o r n y
2016-05-09 02:26:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No hes not cheating just getting a visual reference for bedtime!!!
2006-09-19 17:17:16 · answer #8 · answered by upsetinkenosha 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Some people class it as cheating some dont it's different for everyone
2017-04-15 17:00:16 · answer #9 · answered by Toni 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope! just like somewomen watch lifetime some guy just like to see other women make out
2006-09-19 17:20:19 · answer #10 · answered by spades c 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋