I hear women all the time "He is not even a real man couldn't even help me with 100 dollars this month" or something like that. If my wife had asked me for money like that when we were dating we wouldn't be married. Some women get in relationships and start spending because they feel it is their man's responsibility to take care of them. I believe in equal partnership no housewives here
2006-09-19 17:16:25 · 28 answers · asked by Big Daddy R 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i just think if we are not living together or married we should not share bills because we did not make any. I know a girl who's boyfriend pays her car insurance. I can't even think about that. I am married and my wife and i share
2006-09-19 17:28:45 · update #1
You do realize that it goes both ways, right? There are just as many men out there that think it's their girlfriend's job to pay for everything and to take care of them. If you really feel that strongly about equality in relationships and between men and women, you probably wouldn't have just asked a question like this.
2006-09-19 17:22:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The ho be po.
Hey! Who is giving me these thumbs down? My little poem was just a joke. I respect women. No, let me rephrase that, I respect women who respect themselves. I don't care what the financial arrangements are between a boyfriend and girlfriend. It is none of my concern. It sounds like the guy asking the question is hinting at women using men for their money. That is not a healthy relationship for either the man or the woman. If she is in it for the money then yes the term ho fits. If she needs a little help, AND he wants to help that is a different story. I'm with the questioner 100% on the "I wouldn't have married my wife" bit. On the other hand if she were after money, she wouldn't have married me anyway!
2006-09-19 17:18:40 · answer #2 · answered by YahooGuru2u 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If a couple is just dating, it is very presumptious of a girl asking her boyfriend for money, especially if he has never asked her for money. Some women play the "we are equal to men" game, but they want to act like a helpless femme fatale when they want a gift or something they need. If they think their sex gift to a man is why they want payment, then perhaps they should pay him for his sex gift to her. Maybe they should be prostitutes if they want that type of relationship.
If a couple is living together, then it is alright to ask the boyfriend to help pay the bills and loan her money as long as she pays it back. In fact, if they are living together, they should both pay 50% of all the bills.
Sometimes men put themselves in this type of situation because they want to please her and make her happy, thinking she will admire him for being so generous. Then, when she starts to ask for money regularly, it gets annoying and the man thinks she is using him.
2006-09-19 17:27:50 · answer #3 · answered by nobluffzone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's because these women are lazy and believe that it's something that's "owed to them", by the simple fact that they are women and have "put out" for a particular man. In my opinion, they are nothing more than prostitutes and should get jobs to pay their own bills. I don't understand, first they scream for equal rights, then when it comes down to it they still expect the man to support them. Yeesh! Talk about a double standard.
I'm a woman, by the way, independant, pay my own bills, and have raised my own children.
2006-09-19 17:22:10 · answer #4 · answered by brendalyn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like to pay when I go with a gf to dinner, movies. But I think that one shouldn't pay for the bills of the other partner unless they're living together, married, or have something agreed (maybe she's doing a master and he's supporting her).
2006-09-19 17:22:36 · answer #5 · answered by Roberto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're meeting the wrong women. There are self sufficient independent women in the work force who don't expect a man to help them financially in life. Men should look for this trait in women and seek them out.
2006-09-19 17:19:16 · answer #6 · answered by fried_twinkie1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those are lazy women unwilling to work to EARN their money. The amount of money u make has nothing to do with being a "man." A real "man" is someone who works hard, stands up for others, can get over his pride, is nice, fair, and loves without cheatin.
2006-09-19 17:19:02 · answer #7 · answered by bebeeangeldust 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thank you god that this question is here. Man I feel that same like you but didn't know how to express it out like this one. Hell ya man, some gals now days man. Exactly like you have said it. I too also believe in equal partnership. MAN< I got so much to say in this one but man I can't ay it here man lol. This ?? is the sh*t!
2006-09-19 17:25:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women that expect their boyfriends to pay their bills are doing themselves a major disservice. The last thing I would ever do when I was dating was make a man feel like it was his job to pay my bills.
2006-09-19 17:22:56 · answer #9 · answered by MartMo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm glad you specified "some women" cause i dont depend on my bf to pay my bills. I make my own money and i dont mind spending it on him some times. i agree that it's a two way street. we should both be able to treat eachother to something nice and help eachother out once in a while
2006-09-19 17:22:06 · answer #10 · answered by girlwiththegoodies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋