? we met while i was visiting my friend in another state, than a few days later, there was a small get together at her place. we were drinking, and me & him got along really well. he kissed me. and kissed me. and kissed me. BUT he has a gf out of the country so i kept pushing him away. later on, everyone went to bed & he was suppose to leave with his brother, yet he stayed (fell asleep outside my door) & i woke up in the early morning & found him there. i woke him & we started talking, and that lead to us having sex...and later on, having sex again (the chemistry was insane) & than sleeping together all afternoon. the sad thing is, is that he's now moved to be with his gf, & what we had was great, but i cant help but wonder about him. was i just a fling? since i left (2 days after that happened) my friend told me that he wouldnt shut up about how much fun he had with me, but he felt bad about his girl. Now i'm left with wondering about him...stupid feelings.
2006-09-19 17:13:29 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It was just a fling. Don't get personally attached. You can't have a relationship with someone based on sex.
2006-09-19 17:17:54 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, you were just a fling.
Unless he comes up to you or sends you a letter to say he wants to be with you and break it off with his current gf, you were simply some fun he had while he was "out of town".
really don't think you should entertain any more fantasies of him, cos he sounds like quite a jerk to me already, from what you've described.
and yes, you were right- stupid feelings. Don't be led by them.
2006-09-19 17:22:44 · answer #2 · answered by Beth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SORRY TO TELL YOU BUT IT SOUND LIKE YOU WERE JUST
A FLING. AND YOU NEED TO LET THIS GO, IT WILL ONLY
BE HARDER FOR YOU AS YOU KEEP THINKING ABOUT
WHAT IF. BUT MAYBE NOW YOU WILL LEARN FROM THIS
AND GROW AS A PERSON. THAT MAYBE YOU SHOULD
TAKE A LITTLE MORE TIME TO GET TO KNOW A PERSON
IT WOULD BE A LOT BETTER EMOTIONALLY FOR YOU.
2006-09-19 17:19:02 · answer #3 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it was just a fling. you probably just got to attached, when guys (you know guys) just want sex
2006-09-19 17:22:26 · answer #4 · answered by LAUREN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that called hot sex it dont last for long. move on!
2006-09-19 17:18:05 · answer #5 · answered by spades c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋