Other - Family & Relationships - 6 December 2007

2007-12-06 09:09:47 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

A Quick Summary I'm 21 and my Fiancee is 20 we are suppose to get married next year and Found Out that I'm 7 wks pregnant! Anywayz Don't think it's too much of the hormones but I notice that he is very immature when it comes to our relationship, but when it comes to my kids I have (before being with him) and other things he's not. Example would be if you snap on him (which I do quite often, he'll do it back then justify it because i did it). Things like that gets old real quick, at times it just feels like he's another kid and that I have to hold his hand on a lot of things. I'm use to older guys, this is the first time that I'm in a relationship with a guy my age.



Please help, and Serious Replies Only!.....

2007-12-06 08:43:58 · 1 answers · asked by kizzykay86 2

2007-12-06 08:34:33 · 16 answers · asked by LivingDeadKat 4

I think so.

everything is such sh*t right now.
I'm tired of putting trust into people that don't deserve and
time and effort into people that abuse it.

tonight I shall get drunk and record myself karaoke-ing haha
thats always fun and interesting.
how do you guys deal with your bad days?

2007-12-06 08:34:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

im getting bored of her, what should i do?

2007-12-06 08:33:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well me and my bf have a long distance relationship and we bothe havent told our parents but i have a tebbile gut feeling that my bf's parents have found out... why is that?

2007-12-06 08:24:11 · 2 answers · asked by gunzi14 1

and is sensative to your moods and needs?

2007-12-06 08:23:26 · 20 answers · asked by Ahwell 7

my dad hasn't been feeling well lately. Hes been complain about how his back hurts and how he gets tired when he just simply walks. i think its low iron.. i don't really know
i want to help him but i don't know how:(..

2007-12-06 08:21:37 · 3 answers · asked by zoey101 2

2007-12-06 08:12:06 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

i told my teacher i think she's very attractive... and was actually wondering who she was before she was my teacher... I told her i saw her one time in the summer and she was kinda shocked when i told her in detail what she was wearing. Do u thnk its a turn on or a turn off ?

2007-12-06 08:00:03 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I almost never message him (although I used to, but he made it clear he did not want to date again and was kind of rude), so I pretty much stopped making any effort.
So what's the deal? Is it possible he wants a good friendship (he has plenty of friends already)? Is he being controlling, or is he just annoyed that I don't pay very much attention to him or flirt anymore?
It was a pretty short initial relationship but it was sexual. What's going on here?

2007-12-06 07:42:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

We live in Tampa, Florida. There was recently an offer at our job for an agent to move to Tulsa, OK. for a management position. My boyfriend is considering taking it if the offer is good. He told me very casually over our work's instant messaging system: "I might be moving to Tulsa", and didn't tell me much more until I constantly asked him wtf he was talking about. Then he explained the issue. So...if the money is good and they offer a good package, I could see why he would consider it.

I guess my question is...if he moves, even if he's just considering it and inquiring about it, that PRETTY much tells me where our relationship stands. He doesn't care about leaving and I, nor his friends are important enough to stay.

I guess I'm just the one to put love before a career. He's the oposite aparently.

So anyway...yeah...that pretty much tells me where him and I stand right?

2007-12-06 07:37:45 · 30 answers · asked by xoookissthisooox 2

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 9 months. He has pretty much everything he wants and if when he wants something he just goes out and buys his. Basically no money problems on his end. me on the hand, i am broke, and i have no idea what to get him. He is 25 and a website designer, he loves to drink and go out, stay in and watch movies with me, travel, museums, pretty much anything, but i am lost and he specifically told me no clothes!!!!! i was going to get him a nice Razor gift set but he went out and bought it for himself so now i am lost!!! Help please!!! Thank you and merry christmas!

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2007-12-06 07:21:54 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hey guys:
I am on a quest or rediscovery. I spent two weeks away and smoked and drank and partied and meditated on life.
Tell me about any discoveries youve had recently and how you are re-building your life!
Kiel

2007-12-06 07:12:36 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

If your boyfriend has dated someone else in the past, do you have a right to know what he has done with her? I really want to know what he's done before I do anything with him. He says he's come close, but that entails a lot. I've asked him about it, but he tries to push it aside. Any help please, and if you need more details, just ask. Please help!

2007-12-06 07:08:14 · 6 answers · asked by bittersweetsymphony0812 1

-Me and this guy were friends before
-He told me that he wasn't sure if he was ready for a realtionship but then he asked me out anyway.
-Since we'd been going out we had seen eachother less than before we were going out so I asked him what was wrong
-He said he can't commit right now cos of stress & he's nealry finished uni & wants to wait till it's over.
-Now he wants me to meet up with him this weekend
-He isn't seeing anyone else because I know his friends and he knows some of mine-plus he doesn't sleep around-he's slept with 1 girl & he's 22.
-I think he's afraid to label us boyfriend & girlfriend cos he's scared of it getting serious & he's young & doesn't know what he wants.
-H e sounds confused so shall I just go with the flow cos I never said I wanted anything serious (I haven't slept with him)

2007-12-06 07:07:58 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

why is it no one is willing to help out someone that is trying to help themselves, but will give everything to someone who sits on their butt all day and reproduces insanely and collects the checks?

2007-12-06 06:52:18 · 14 answers · asked by Kelly 1

My boyfriend..who I absolutely adore..he is my highschool sweetheart and I don't think I could find anyone better than him...is addicted to porn and it hurts me for him to search on the internet for the stuff he likes. We are an interracial couple and he owns over 90 interracial porns...that doesn't bother me as much as it does when he gets on the internet and looks at it. I just feel like I am not good enough for him and I brought it up to him and he blew up saying well I am not going to ever look at it again and you could have worse at least I am here all the time with you and not running around f**** other females or out until 5 AM in the morning. It really hurts me that he don't understand where I am coming from with this and it hurts me for him to be SOOO interested in all this fake sh** when he has me..a real woman..am I wrong for feeling like this???

2007-12-06 05:45:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

i mean since morning till night what do you do all day.

2007-12-06 05:29:32 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I can't handle life at the moment. I don't no what i'm doing wrong but I feel low and tired all the time. I am fed up of my job, but I love my flat, and I can't find a guy who really wants to be with me. Im pretty and outgoing I don't think its worth going on.

2007-12-06 05:20:27 · 60 answers · asked by Hybrid 2

Today i went to see my bf n everything was alright untill we were the only ones in the house he then went weird and then walked to the kitchen i followed n said hey whats wrong n he said i dont know how i feel about you :/

he said dat his mate asked him what would he do if his other mate n me were doign stuff behind my bfs back :S

n he said back to him i dunno i guess pissed off :S


and i told him how i felt and stuff but he doesnt seem to do anything :(

he then walked me hoem half way n i told him how i felt and then said you can walk me home or go home okay its your choice he said walk home, so we left but now i want himto come to me and not me going to him, but i dont know how long i should leave this? :(
i love him too much!!!

i dont wana lose him

and i didnt do anythign wrong this time pelase help me :(

2007-12-06 04:58:37 · 15 answers · asked by St*r 2

is it a bad thing to talk to my ex.s mom?

2007-12-06 04:55:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am engaged to a guy and we argue a lot sometimes because I'm not the same person i was in the beginning of our relationship but he's going to school to finish and all and he met a girl there that he is starting to grow feelings for because she has some of the same interests as he does, the more they talk the more he starts to like her what do I do if I'm still in love with him like we used to be? He says that I don't make him happy anymore but yet he still insists on telling me that he loves me, how do I know whethor or not he really does and if he does what do I do try to make things between us better again?

2007-12-06 04:55:38 · 6 answers · asked by Christine C 1

my mom is sorta uptight and ive never lived with my dad and i dont want to hurt my mom and leave my friends.HELP!!!!!!!!

2007-12-06 04:47:31 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

should i feel like im hurting her feelings cuz i dnt call her? we're not serious at all, just casual, but why do i feel like i should be doing more?

2007-12-06 04:34:38 · 6 answers · asked by nmcs 2

did my ex really love me???? ok my ex and i were together for 1 year and 10 months... then i started feeling like i was holding him back from going out and having fun... cuz he told his friends that hes not gonna go out cuz i moved well any ways.. i asked him how would he feel if we let our relationship go tell i moved back... he said if i want then ok he guess so.. so he stopped talking to me and i had a feeling he was cheating so i told him its over... then i got with this guy the guy was being an asshole so i left him... then my ex started talking to me he told me that hes been with a lot of girls... but he said that when i move back he wants to be with me... but i dont know i feel like he had no love for me...

2007-12-06 04:34:05 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Right before Christmas!!!

So all I know is this guy got with this girl (ages 24 & 30ish) They were together for almost 3 years. They have a 1 year old together. The girl has a 5 year old and the babies dad has a 12 year old that just moved in with them about a year ago. Dad just up and left and moved in with another girl. Left mom with all the bills, and all the kids ( one not even hers ) Mom loves him and is hoping to have him back. Thinks he's her soul mate.

What a jerk!! Do you think he'd been cheating on her with this other girl prior to leaving (i do) Do you think he got into drugs or something?? They seemed to be happy and he was dad to the 5 year old....I don't think she should allow him to waltz back in....And he is now jobless....

2007-12-06 04:32:53 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

My bf of 2 yrs has not treated me the greatest. I have stuck it out this long in the hopes that he would make some changes so we could be happy. He pretty much has put everything else in his life first excluding me and my two children. I flat out told him that I was going to get my own place because I wasn't happy and I was tired of all his promises to put us first for once and falling through and disappointing the kids. Things have gotten much better in the last month. He comes home for supper to eat with us now, he spends more quality time with me and the kids. He has started helping me our around the house but I am now at this point where I really want to get my own place and call it quits. I feel to a point where the damage is done and I can't do it anymore. I have sat down and looked at my financial well being and I could do it on my own with the two kids. I guess my question is if I stay will it really be ok or if I go am I really messing things up for me and my kids?

2007-12-06 04:31:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

at work theirs this guy i've become close with not as in a way that i like him just that his a good friend and fun well we play around saying we are together like we say we are diorce then he says were back its funny but today he sent me a text saying if i was down to get with him i think i been iving him wrong signals and he knows i have a b/f but even though i have a b/f i always still play the game that we are together or i sumtimes blow him kisses and stuff i dont want to hurt his feeling wat do i do do i avoid his question or what

2007-12-06 04:29:38 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous