Right before Christmas!!!
So all I know is this guy got with this girl (ages 24 & 30ish) They were together for almost 3 years. They have a 1 year old together. The girl has a 5 year old and the babies dad has a 12 year old that just moved in with them about a year ago. Dad just up and left and moved in with another girl. Left mom with all the bills, and all the kids ( one not even hers ) Mom loves him and is hoping to have him back. Thinks he's her soul mate.
What a jerk!! Do you think he'd been cheating on her with this other girl prior to leaving (i do) Do you think he got into drugs or something?? They seemed to be happy and he was dad to the 5 year old....I don't think she should allow him to waltz back in....And he is now jobless....
2007-12-06 04:32:53 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I'm with Poppy, through and through on this one. Poor kid, being left with not the momma! What a piece of **** that guy is, of course he was cheating! She needs to get with that kid's mother and check his ***, for sure! The girl he's with now probably doesn't even have a clue about him yet and I hope she isn't pregnant. She needs to go file for custody of that kid if there's no mom and take his bummy, lecherous *** to child support, and in the mean time try to get welfare or something to help her provide for all those kids. Tell her to keep her legs shut and clothes on from now on - she doesn't need any more kids and I hope she's learned from this. The only real victims here are those 3 kids. How did she get with him in the first place? Was she the other woman, did she know it? If she was, that should have told her something right from the start. I wonder how many other girls he's done this to? Those poor babies.
2007-12-06 04:46:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
do no longer tell your Dad. you're able to tell your mom you realize. She needs of venture to tell him herself; that provides them the perfect odds to staying at the same time. If he reveals out from the different source that's going to be plenty extra good for them to stay to tell the tale this. in case you tell her you realize a weird and wonderful element could ensue to her; earlier she has been virtually splitting her character between her lover and her husband. as quickly as you tell her you realize you will crash those 2 worlds at the same time and the value of what she has performed could hit her. it'd rattle her adequate to start questioning approximately doing the wonderful element. in case you confront her, do no longer ask to verify and so forth... basically it appears that evidently say, I *understand* you're having an affair with Mark. go away her no room to wiggle out of it. i'm sorry which you're able which you're able to do some thing like this. that's no longer the shape of element babies nor youthful-person could handle. =/ that may no longer basic on a spouse to be separated from her husband like that when which mixed with the consistent touch with Mark known... that's the way it occurs. no longer that what your mom is doing is nice via any stretch, yet your father made an quite destructive decision while he left for clean Jersey and maintains to be there 24/7. He could be coming domicile a minimum of on the weekends and dealing extra throughout the time of the week so he can take an added Friday off for an prolonged stay and so forth... via failing to do those issues he has in a fashion deserted your mom or perhaps you. Ask your mom for funds to purchase a e book you want/actual need, ~$30. Then pass purchase this e book and supply it to her; His needs; Her needs; development an Affair-information Marriage. it'd deliver the message which you realize what's up in case you could no longer convey your self to speak to her approximately it. face as much as the temptation to abuse your mom and insist issues of her now which you realize. Even annoying that she tells your Dad isn't good even nevertheless it'd look like the logical element to do. She has to do it on her own.
2016-12-30 10:39:13 · answer #2 · answered by balderston 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy was probably cheating before leaving, and his erratic behavior could be caused by drugs, or another addiction like sex, sounds real messed up, Hope the best for her!
2007-12-06 04:46:47 · answer #3 · answered by A.K.A.Allen 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The guy can't keep it in his pants. That's pretty much the sum of things. He looks for easy targets. She was one and still is if she really wants him back. Sad thing is he's a sleeze and she's a dumb@ss!
2007-12-06 04:38:18 · answer #4 · answered by Poppy 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋