should i feel like im hurting her feelings cuz i dnt call her? we're not serious at all, just casual, but why do i feel like i should be doing more?
2007-12-06 04:34:38 · 6 answers · asked by nmcs 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
because you can't do casual...just like me
I couldn't go on a one night stand without expecting something more...
If you feel bad, it only means that you are a real great guy, that's all or you wouldn't worry too much.!
You care so it has to mean something...
2007-12-06 04:42:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are interested, call her.
If you are not interested, do NOT call her.
Assuming you are not interested, calling simply because you don't want to hurt her feelings is inappropriate. If she is looking for something (like a relationship) that you are not interested in giving her, the best thing you can do for both of you is end it now. If you don't want things to become serious, dragging it out might make her feel a little better now, but it will be much more painful in the long run.
If you DO actually LIKE her, stop being an asshole wasting time on yahoo answers and call her already!
Good luck!
2007-12-06 12:50:47 · answer #2 · answered by a123e456 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are feeling guilty you probably should be doing something - why do people ignore their consciences and instincts? God gave them to us for a reason - to know what's right and wrong in ourselves - don't try to justify or reason things away. Even if you are only casual,we are all human beings. We matter. If you feel you should call her, do it. It'll take a load off your shoulders, cause obviously it's weighing on you now. Just remember, the way you treat others will come back to the way they treat you. What goes around, comes around.
2007-12-06 12:46:01 · answer #3 · answered by karenhjones 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does she expect you to call? Have you told her you'd call? If so then do it. Otherwise leave it alone. Is this the most you've got to worry about?
2007-12-06 12:43:22 · answer #4 · answered by Poppy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either you are an empathetic person and know that she is dissappointed by you not contacting her or you know you should have contacted her and feel guilty about not doing it.
2007-12-06 12:38:55 · answer #5 · answered by fantasy gal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you have more then just friends feelings for her, if you think you should call her, do it.
2007-12-06 12:38:26 · answer #6 · answered by tarie75 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋