i sent him wrong signals?

Question

at work theirs this guy i've become close with not as in a way that i like him just that his a good friend and fun well we play around saying we are together like we say we are diorce then he says were back its funny but today he sent me a text saying if i was down to get with him i think i been iving him wrong signals and he knows i have a b/f but even though i have a b/f i always still play the game that we are together or i sumtimes blow him kisses and stuff i dont want to hurt his feeling wat do i do do i avoid his question or what

Answer 1

Tell him you hate him and let him get on with his life.

Answer 2

OOO yeah, you gotta be careful with that kind of stuff. he should probably guess your off limits because you have a boyfriend but if your being too flirtatious he might take you has the "two-timing" type (which I'm sure your not). You just need to tell him it was all for good fun and that you didn't mean anything about it. Ignoring his questions will only make him upset . Worse case scenario, he'll think your playing hard to get and want you even more

Answer 3

You are in dangerous territory. Not with this guy at work, but with your boyfriend.

Would you be saying you are "with" him, or blowing kisses to this guy if your b/f was sitting next to you? This is a good test to see if your flirting behavior is inappropriate.

I would take action to correct this work-guy situation right away, and just tell him you are sorry if you gave him the wrong idea. You may want to talk it over with your b/f as well, before he finds out what you've been doing from someone else.

Answer 4

well do u bring up ur boyfriend around him? if not then u did give him wrong signals. whe a girl talks about her boyfriend in good light then that means shes happy and is not looking. not talking or saying only bad thing gives the impression that ur not happy and maybe looking.

well, i would have you ask him what he means by what he said, then say you boyfriend wouldnt like it, then say look i like u as a friend and we can play around but im with someone can u respect that? see thats softly puts him in a slope where u can control how to handle him with out hurting him. then it should be over, well he may not talk to u about it.

but r u sure u dont like him? cause if u didnt then he should have known where he stood with u.... i hoped i helped

Answer 5

Maybe... Yeah... in the books on body language it says that if a girl bites her lower lip in means she is nervous... meaning she is into you ... later in the book it tells you that not everyone has the same body language and use it for the same reason... but for some reason... people never get that far or forget it as soon as they read it... But then again... it's hard to retrain your self "not" to do things when you are nervous... because it only makes you more nervous... A better thing to do is to blab to everyone how you chew on your lower lip when your not into a guy... that will really mess them up. Plus it gives you a better edge... then when you are into them they will be so defensive when you start chewing your lower lip... you can work a kind of Magick.

Answer 6

This could get real ugly if you do not get to the point real fast....If one day you are flirting with Guy at work then B/F comes in then you will have a s**t load of problems...The easiest way to handle this is to let the Guy at work know that you two are FRIENDS and that is all it will ever be...Be upfront and honest at all times...In the end you will feel better about talking to him....good luck and remember be firm

Answer 7

Just cut the crap. Stop the flirting. You did not send the wrong signals, you knew what you were doing. Everyone knows how guys take things. So just cut the crap. Sorry to have to say this, but you need to wake up and realize it is a two way street. It is not all the guys fault.

Answer 8

Us girls think it is fun and cute to be flirty, but guys don't. Not that they can't enjoy it, but they are almost always after more! I learned a long time ago not to be flirty in those ways, because I always found myself in a bad situation having to tell them that there is nothing there for me. I have lost a lot of guy friends that way, because they always wanted more than I did.

Answer 9

You should be honest with him...tell him that you just liked flirting with him but don't want it to be anything more than a friendship. Then...lay off of the flirting because you have a boyfriend who would probably get upset about it since this guy is into you.

Answer 10

I would honestly tell him how you feel, that you really like him as a friend and enjoy playing/flirting with him, but that you just don't have feelings for him beyond that. It's always best to be honest, if possible.

Answer 11

You can jokingly say "no, were divorced today".

And keep saying no?

OR, the next time you play with people, tell them, "naa.. that's the way we play with everyone. We both know were just friends."

See, by you telling that to someone else in front of him, you are basically telling HIM that you both are just friends, but NO ONE is embarrassed.

Good luck!