did my ex really love me???? ok my ex and i were together for 1 year and 10 months... then i started feeling like i was holding him back from going out and having fun... cuz he told his friends that hes not gonna go out cuz i moved well any ways.. i asked him how would he feel if we let our relationship go tell i moved back... he said if i want then ok he guess so.. so he stopped talking to me and i had a feeling he was cheating so i told him its over... then i got with this guy the guy was being an asshole so i left him... then my ex started talking to me he told me that hes been with a lot of girls... but he said that when i move back he wants to be with me... but i dont know i feel like he had no love for me...
2007-12-06 04:34:05 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
ok well heres some details from our past being together we both had sex once before we got together... we both got tested to see if we had STD we both are clean... when it hit 5 or 6 months being together he came up to me and told me that he let some girl give him and he made out with some other girland had sex with the girl who he made out with... so i got pissed off and went with him so i could see for myself if he had any STD and he didnt... i was still pissed but calmed down.. then i move when we were together for 1 year and 3 months and then he started calling me a hoodrat and a *****... i let it go so many times and then he started making lil problems and putting them to me and that made me feel like i was the real problem in our relationship and then i talked to his mom and she said that he seems like hes bord and lonely so i felt bad and now were split up im talking to my friend who wants to get with me and hes out there screwing some other girls
2007-12-06 04:53:10 · update #1
I think he loved you (or had some love for you) but if I'm not mistaken it sounds like you were the one that asked to call it off right? I really don't understand why you would assume he never loved you. He was with you for almost 2 years it has to be something there no matter who he has been with outside of you. He loves you!!!!!!!!!!!!! Maybe he has a little more growing up to do and from the sounds of it you too just give it some more time....Best of Luck 2 you
2007-12-06 04:42:12 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're both young. If he weren't quite fond of you, he wouldn't have invested time in maintaining the relationship while you were away in the first place. Young men are often more concerned with getting "notches on their belt", if you will, then settling down and having a serious relationship. Even if he feels like you could be "THE ONE", he might not think he has experienced enough of the world to make that decision.
...Or he could just be an asshole who was using you for sex. It's hard to determine whether or not he is being honest with you, when he probably isn't sure he's being honest with himself.
2007-12-06 04:42:39 · answer #2 · answered by a123e456 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Apple bottom, I can tell you how you should feel, like a dumb@ss. Yep, you're just one of his stopping off places. You should go to a clinic or doctor and be checked out. Good chance you've got an STD. After that maybe you should reevaluate your choices.
2007-12-06 04:41:19 · answer #3 · answered by Poppy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think the truth is that you don't want him to love you that way you have an excuse to go and be with guys who treat you like crap. The question that you have to ask yourself is why don't you want to be loved? Why are you looking for ways to make sure that your ex doesn't love you? If all you're looking for is a way to beat yourself up, there are easier ways to go about it.
2007-12-06 04:39:12 · answer #4 · answered by dstluke 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I doubt you stopped him from going out and having fun, since he has been with "alot" of girls. He had love for you though, he told you right what you needed to hear.
2007-12-06 04:44:39 · answer #5 · answered by paparazzi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you spent more time worrying about how he felt than how you felt when you were dating him. It is hard to say if he loved you or not. It sounds like he is still interested in you, but to say that you were and are his top priority, I could not say. I would not think so based upon his actions.
Take care,
Troy
2007-12-06 04:41:35 · answer #6 · answered by tiuliucci 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Worry about STDs, not love.
Love is not raging hormones. I know that.
What is your definition of love? Tolerance, fidelity, acceptance, obsession.???
2007-12-06 05:12:54 · answer #7 · answered by momonster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, I hate to say it , but sounds like you`re chasing this guy away.By, coming back , he probably does
2007-12-06 04:41:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no way of knowing that with such limited information. The only person who knows is him. You should ask him!
2007-12-06 04:36:55 · answer #9 · answered by jmattiesmufc 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
guys are like that.u should never let urself to be fooled again.let it pass.
2007-12-06 04:39:14 · answer #10 · answered by palay s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋