I am engaged to a guy and we argue a lot sometimes because I'm not the same person i was in the beginning of our relationship but he's going to school to finish and all and he met a girl there that he is starting to grow feelings for because she has some of the same interests as he does, the more they talk the more he starts to like her what do I do if I'm still in love with him like we used to be? He says that I don't make him happy anymore but yet he still insists on telling me that he loves me, how do I know whethor or not he really does and if he does what do I do try to make things between us better again?
2007-12-06 04:55:38 · 6 answers · asked by Christine C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
first of all find out if he is the one you really want or if he is just with you to pass the time- until someone better comes along...Do you have any interests in other people?
2007-12-06 05:01:17 · answer #1 · answered by kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He very well may love you still, but not be in love with you any longer. I still have feelings for all of my past girlfriends. If you truly love him, take a step back and see which way he will be happiest. Also just because he likes a person does not mean that he want to become involved romantically with that person. It is perfectly common for people to have friends of the opposite sex. If you truly want to make it work out between you the you will have to grow and change just as he is to accommodate both or your desires and needs.
2007-12-06 05:12:33 · answer #2 · answered by m_bram@att.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sucks, I know because I've been it through myself. It is the worst feeling in the world, it's like slowly ripping off a ban aid that covers a big cut over your heart!! unfortunately there's nothing you can do. He loves you but he's not in love with you. Do you understand? It's like this, he will always have feeling for you and want the best for you, he just doesn't want to be with you any more. The love flam in his heart has gone weak, pretty soon this girl will smother that flam and start one for herself. It is crappy and you have to stay strong. You can do it. Good luck and God speed!!!
2007-12-06 08:06:34 · answer #3 · answered by kennystreets 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one said love isn't going to hurt..
It sounds like he doesn't love you in that way anymore or else why would he share all this information knowing it will hurt you like that. I think he is too weak to end it himself. Find the strength to walk away, it will hurt, it will last for awhile but it won't be forever and then you can begin to look for someone who will do everything he can to be with you.
2007-12-06 05:08:09 · answer #4 · answered by Lil 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's telling you that because he's getting in your pants. If he's already move on then you need to do the same. It's over unless you're contend just getting laid once in a while.
2007-12-06 05:01:43 · answer #5 · answered by Poppy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's over sweetie...I think it's time for to get out a little and maybe find something new...
2007-12-06 05:01:56 · answer #6 · answered by freshsnow1986 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋