Other - Family & Relationships - 10 December 2007

Missed it?
So my friend and her husband are trying to have a baby, she has missed her period for 9 days now and has taken 3 urines preg tests that all are negative...what's going on with her, now she is worried.

2007-12-10 23:35:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 15 and basically to sum it up, everyone who I've ever loved in my life (my dad, grandpa, aunts, cousins, ect). I've never had any friends or anything. So anyway, my problem is that I can't like love anyone anymore. I can care for a person but I don't love them and I won't tell them I love them either if even I thought I did because if I tell them, I'm afraid they'll just end up leaving me like everyone else has. I can't trust anyone to do anything nice for me without wondering if they had an ulterior motive. I can't stand having people touching me. I just have a really hard time relating to people and getting them to like me. Even since I was young and I think I was really nice. I even remember doing kids' homework in school so they would like me. How can I make myself more normal? Thanks.

2007-12-10 23:32:25 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just dont know.

2007-12-10 22:34:21 · 12 answers · asked by D 7

Thanks for your attention, it might be help. :)

2007-12-10 22:18:31 · 11 answers · asked by FOX 1

2007-12-10 21:48:28 · 17 answers · asked by Akash Jain 1

i bought my mum two tickets to go and see Celine Dion (she has adored celine dion for years) for her and a friend as a christmas present, but every time we get on the subject of christmas presents, she always tells me not to spend more than about £30 on her (i spent 200!) Im worried as to what she'll say when i give them her.

would you be happy with the present or should i be cancelling?

2007-12-10 20:54:19 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

and then you became frightened even tho you were long distance anyway?

2007-12-10 20:31:37 · 4 answers · asked by Auntie Marie SueB 3

need some advice

2007-12-10 20:21:32 · 4 answers · asked by James M 1

ive bin with my boyfriend nearly 2 years now we did have a break before and he went off wiv another girl. i just want to know is he still seeing her behind my back or anyone else?? i love him so much and i really hope he isnt cheating on me. he has been really different lately which is making me think that he is cheating. anyone got any answers??? please help x

2007-12-10 20:20:10 · 14 answers · asked by Suzie M 2

A woman caught me looking at her chest yesterday, at the food court, in the mall. (I don't normally stare like that, but I wasn't even really looking... I was kind of just spacing out.) She smiled, but then she shook her head and waved her finger at me. What does that mean? Was she upset? I felt bad about it, and I still do, kinda.

2007-12-10 19:20:32 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

We are exposing groups of Christian Fundamentalists who sell literature advocating hitting their children with branches, plastic plumbing piping, paddles and advocate whipping 7 month old babies if they are irritable. Can anyone tell where it says to do this in the bible. http://childabuseaustralia.wordpress.com/

2007-12-10 18:45:37 · 3 answers · asked by Terry G 1

My partner and I live together and are planning a future together that includes marriage and children. He is a successful business man. He has been given a fantastic opportunity to buy into a huge company as an equity partner. This would mean us moving to another state. I am a professional earning a good salary, nowhere close to the same scale as what he will be making, but love my job. My family are here and my mum is not well and has been told her outlook won’t be good in 12 months. Should I go or should we do the long distance thing for 12 months? Could that cause the end of our relationship?? We are madly in love and I don't want him to miss out on this opportunity and regret it.

2007-12-10 18:37:03 · 3 answers · asked by Kels_Bells 4

2007-12-10 17:38:20 · 7 answers · asked by natoshh 2

I am 26 years old, and my husband took his own life 2 months ago. We did not have any children, and we were separated for over a month before it happened. I was prepared to file for divorce bc I he was addicted to drugs & alcohol and it was ruining our lives. I am ready to date other men, but I feel so guilty because I feel like it might be hurtful to his family and make it hard for them to grieve. I haven't talked to my inlaws much since my husbands death, but I do still love them and I don't want to cause them any more pain. I have been dating someone for a few weeks, but I have basically kept our relationship a secret. I really like him and he's a great guy. He knows my situation, but I feel like its not fair to him because I am holding back due to the stress in my life. I think I worry too much about what other people think, but I just don't want to give the impression that I didn't love my husband. A lot of people won't understand why it's so easy for me to move on.

2007-12-10 17:24:19 · 6 answers · asked by Starting over 2

move out next month. I wish she would change her mind. Want to scream out loud for her to stay. Her mind is made up so i am trying to accept it. I love her with all my heart and will miss her very, very much. Once she moves out i know it will be time for me to let go, cause for now im still holding on. I think about her moving out and it hurts so for now i try not to think about it. Any advice please................. Ur little girl

2007-12-10 16:57:00 · 1 answers · asked by little girl 1

I (20years, a model and soon a uni graduate) have been dating this guy (24 years) that has two kids, and to tell you the truth isn't that good looking at all. But I have fallen deeply in love with him and the two girls. I have met all of his family and stay over his place all the time over weekends. My family would have never imagined me to go for somebody with kids and are very disappointed in me. They said they would never approve of him and would never want to meet him. I love and respect my parents and family dearly, but on the other hand I am so in love with him.

My dad is crazy!! And he still doesn't really know but has a fair idea about it. He said if I am dating this guy (which I denied), he would go around there and bash the f*&# out of him!! My brothers and uncles want to go round and "half kill him". They say he is only going to get me pregnant and leave me, but i know him and he is a beautiful person!!

I feel I am hurting my family because of my love for this man!

2007-12-10 16:53:49 · 9 answers · asked by Mandy B 1

I've been working for the same company for 10 years now. About a year ago the company hired a new secretary. (we'll call her Gail. Of course, that's not her real name) At first I really didn't pay to much attention to her. She was just the "new girl on the other side of the building". About 3 months after she started I met her. It wasn't anything special I just had to make a delivery to someone in her department but since that person wasn't in his office I left the package with her. She was very nice and rather personable. For the next month I really didn't think to much about her. While walking into the lunch room one day I notice that she was sitting by herself and I decide to sit a few seats away from her. We started talking and before I knew it, we had talked through our entire 1 hour lunch break. Needless to say, we had hit it off pretty good.

Over the course of the next few months I would occasionally take a "detour" so that I could spend a little time with her and would try to line up my lunch breaks so that we would have lunch at the same time.
I found myself quite "captivated" by her.
One day while passing by her desk I noticed that she was rubbing her shoulder. I asked her, if she was alright and she told me that she had taken a little spill on a wet floor. I walked up behind her and started massaging her shoulders. She seem to be really enjoying it so I kept at it for several minutes. After I finally stopped she said, "you're hired".lol

But since that time whenever I see her, I have the desire to physical touch her. Whether it's a gentle rub on the back or just simply touching her arm I just can't pass by her with out touching her. I honestly believe that she is enjoying this as much as I do.
About 2 weeks ago her and I were the last ones in the office area that she works in. I was helping her put on her coat. After she had slipped her arms into the sleeves she spun around and there we were...6 inches apart with our eyes lock onto each other. My heart was thumping so hard I thought that it was going smash right through my rib cage. It pretty much took everything that I have not to "take her" right on the spot. It would be safe to say that we have developed feelings for each other but
as of to date we have not slept together or even kissed.

You see, Gail is married. For about 8 years now and has 2 children. From what I can figure out her and her husband seem to be getting along just fine. That's to say, they have no real conflicts that I can see. She never says any thing negative about him.

One part of me wants to hold onto her and never let go. But I also have this "little voice" in the back of my heading screaming that I should really put some distance between us because this isn't the right thing to be doing.
FWIW I'm 38 and she is 33.
Constructive opinions only-Please.

2007-12-10 16:43:32 · 5 answers · asked by Jus1oftheboys 4

ok this guy that i have known for some years now and he did some really bad things. he wants me to marry him. so anyway he's going to prison and now he wants me to wait on him for as long as he's away. but in the past he has been in jail, he says that samething and ends up going back to one of his ex girlfriends and i feel like hes gonna do the same thing this time. so what should i do?

2007-12-10 16:42:18 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-10 16:31:37 · 7 answers · asked by crazyhorseavi 4

I just wanted to see how often people masturbated...
to compare to me. Just so see if I'm normal-
I do have a boyfriend though- and I know that masturbating isn't bad- so i do it! lol
to be fair... I'll tell you I do it about 3 times a week, and probably have sex about 3 times a week too... normal?

2007-12-10 16:25:10 · 56 answers · asked by pam3la 1

2007-12-10 15:48:13 · 7 answers · asked by vincent 6

theres a girl ivce known for about a year shes one of my good friends i have came to fancy her over the past few months,we were ok buddys in high school but i college weve hung out more. i just dont know she has a boy friend that she seems to like alot, i dont have a cjance shes real pretty and im fat,shes kinda a cow girl and im mixed, ive never had a girl friend or even yes...got laid the shame,i dont know im a nice guy i got a okay face i guess but... im huge im bout 330 but im built for a fat guy i can move and im not what your thinking of one of those big tubos that have huge bellys i have a big one but its more flat then oval, i played football for 3 years in high school i just dont know what to do im pretty much a pittiful tubby boy thats gonna be the next 40 year old virgin lol yea but just give me your thoughts and advise tubby boy lol

2007-12-10 15:42:18 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

i lived with abuse for years and now im gone. and life is so sad, for me right now. omg he had me arrested, i need help

2007-12-10 15:41:57 · 2 answers · asked by sheilasays 3

I have been with my boyfriend for two years now and I really thought that he was the one. We never fought, and when we did have issues we dealt with them right away. In the last 3 months he went away to school to a big city. I got accepted to the same grad school and department and I am moving into the same town. Before these last 3 months, we've never been apart. The long distance has put a strain on the relationship but nothing I would call serious. I thought that we would pick up where we left off when I moved. Last week I moved into my studio and the second day I was there he broke up with me. He said that he just didn't love me anymore. I know being in the big city for the first time was very exciting for him and I thought that maybe all the distractions could have been a contributing factor. He has changed (not for the worst) since he's moved. I thought he was the one. I have had boyfriends before but nothing like this. He was without a doubt the love of my life.(to be continued)

2007-12-10 15:04:48 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

Would you date a woman who had a child with special needs? or would you think it was too much to handle? my husband is having a very hard time with the fact that we have a special needs son, and our son isnt even a serious case. I'm just wondering if a lot of men have issues like this.

2007-12-10 14:55:28 · 5 answers · asked by Butterfly 3

seriously. i'm still looking. any advice?

2007-12-10 14:33:53 · 5 answers · asked by loveangel101 2

IAM A 35 YEAR OLD WOMEN,IAM NOT BAD LOOKING,NOT A BAD PERSON,,IAM A LEAP BABY,,THE 29TH OF FEB,,I JUST GOT OUT OF A 13YEAR RELATIONSHIP,,THAT I WAS WAY WAY OFF ON WHAT WAS GOING ON,,IAM FAR FROM STUPID,,,,NOR IAM A PUNK,,I CAN FIGHT FOR MYSELF,,RATHER GOOD AT IT,,I NEED HELP,,I AM SHY OF THE $$ I NEED TO FILE FOR MY SON,,OUT OF EGO,GREED,AND A REAL SICK SEX PROBLEM(,IAM GATHERING) WILOIAM TAYLOR IS HIDEING MY SON FROM ME,,I MISS MY SON,,LIES HAVE HURT MY CHILDREN,,THE TRUTH IS SOMETHING THEY WILL KNOW KNOW NOTHING ABOUT TILL THEY FEEL THE EMTIONS THEMSELVES,,I DONT KNOW WHAT I WAS WAITING FOR,,BUT,,IT HAS ALMOIST COST ME MY SON,,CAN SOME ONE HELP??EVEN TO HELP ME DO THE PAPERS??I KNOW WHAT HAS TO BE DONE,,THE REAL DEAL IS THAT IS DEEEEEPER THAN ANYONE WANTS TO SAY,,PEOPLE ARE GETTING INTO SOMETHING THAT IS GOOING TO BACK FIRE IN THEIR FACE,,I JUST WANT MY KIDS TO LOVE THEMSELVES INSIDE AND OUT,,ALL I CAN DO IS LOVE THEM,,THEY HAVE BEEN FORCED TO PICK SIDES,,THIS IS LIFE NOT A BING GAME

2007-12-10 14:06:14 · 1 answers · asked by paytonsrm 1

all i can say is i did bad stuff in a mens restroom with my ex then i lie to the princelble and said i didnt do anything.

2007-12-10 13:46:23 · 2 answers · asked by Rosa M 1

just small gifts .is it better too give ;or recive ..

2007-12-10 13:38:05 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-10 12:56:50 · 1 answers · asked by Robert J 1