Other - Family & Relationships - 11 December 2007

I asked a similar question yesterday and THEY ALL SAID YES. Today I am asking it directly, and asking in the relationships section and not business and finance to see if I get anyone to answer otherwise. I deleted the question because I don't want people to read those answers when they're doing a search online and possibly add to the propaganda on the web that says bad credit= loser. However, to all the people who swear up and down this is the case, I hope you lose your business, your job or your house and have to run through not only your savings but your credit so that your family can eat. I really do. Then you can rethink your position.

2007-12-11 23:59:08 · 12 answers · asked by hmm 5

why am I made to feel like an underclass... I'm in my early 30's and we have decided not to have kids... yet .. the grief I am getting from people is really getting me down.. what is this obsession with having kids all about?
Why can't I just be accepted as I am.
Apparently, we are not a family we are a couple.. so what..
I love my life the way is it.
Do you have this problem with people?
What is it with these people pushing the need for kids onto us?

2007-12-11 20:45:49 · 23 answers · asked by I've got it! 2

ok, im 6 mos. preg. and I'm so tired of the baby's father's excuses for why he cant see or be with me as much. we see eachother about 1-2 every one or 2 weeks and we talk on the phone every now and then. Hes excuses are that he's always stressed out because hes been trying to find a job for almost 3 mos. and worries that he wont be able to help me with the baby, and also because hes having a hard time trying to sell his house because hes not able to make the payments, etc. hes 31 n im 20, and he told me that i need to stop acting like a lil kid because i always call/text him telling him that i'm tired of him because he ignores me, leaves me hanging, doesnt want to be with me, etc but he gets on my nerves because when we see each other is only for about 1-2 hrs or so, and dont even seem like he wants sex with me anymore. I also get mad cause i feel like he doesnt understand or care about me because he gets mad when i complain about the way he is with me because he's always stressed out

2007-12-11 17:27:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Have you ever tried to get along with or tried to like someone that is just NOT likable?

2007-12-11 17:03:36 · 14 answers · asked by SuziQ211 7

Okay, so i used to be freinds with this guy, and one day he stole a bunch of my stuff and now he won't give it back. My parents cant do anything about it though! But the problem is he thinks he is so cool, and now, wherever i go, there he is. he is always trying to be freinds with my freinds, just to ruin my life! What can i do to make him go away?

2007-12-11 16:18:42 · 5 answers · asked by happyguy555 2

If not, what age do people usually purchase their first house?

2007-12-11 15:37:13 · 4 answers · asked by Virginia 3

Hi,

I am typically a t-shirt and jeans kind of girl. I ALWAYS do my hair and I more often than not wear make-up, but I feel I can do all this and still look beautiful with a cute t-shirt and jeans on.
Now, my boyfriend is like this, no matter what I'm doing, if I'm going to the gas station, or even if we're just going to Wal-Mart 12 in the morning, he expects me to look the same way I do when going to school or work. This means I have to wear a fancy top with my jeans or a dress, with jewelry, make-up and have my hair done. What's wrong with me wanting to be comfortable every now and then. I went to the store with my hair in a ponytail and well, jeans and a t-shirt on the other day and it really bothered him. Now, let me make this side note. I hate dresses and his ex always wears them, he has done everything in his power to make me wear them even when I say I'm not comfortable in them he still tries. Also, his ex is ALWAYS dolled up. Is he trying to turn me into her?

2007-12-11 15:34:02 · 19 answers · asked by Tnisha 1

You ask a question they will answer it with another question. Could it be they don't know how to answer it? Or are they just being funny?

2007-12-11 15:01:49 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

my daughter is in kindergarten this year and is having trouble. she is having trouble with speech (in speech therapy) , recognizing letters and numbers. she only counts to 11 and they say she should be counting to 20. she can only recognize a few letters from the alphabet. every single day i read to her, i point to the words while we read. i go over her speech papers that are sent to me (try to get her to pronounce the words the way they should be), we do the alphabet with and without looking at the letters, we do the same with numbers. i have bought flash cards and we work with those. i made her a childrens cd with the alphabet songs and all sorts of kids songs for her. i dont know how else to help her. she does not require a special education class, i just dont know what else to do to help her so please dont be disrespectful when answering. this is an innocent child we are talking about. if anyone has any creative teaching ideas for me please do tell! i just want to help her learn

2007-12-11 14:26:31 · 7 answers · asked by myourchisin 3

2007-12-11 14:21:06 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

This is a work situation and she has been disiplined more than once.

2007-12-11 14:20:44 · 5 answers · asked by just me 7

i consider myself a good kid.good grades,good plans, no drugs/alchol,ppl have told me that im mature for my age and that i have a good head on my shoulders.i dont wanna be around my mom AT ALL anymore,where as before i always wanted to be near her.but shes ditched me so many times to go party that i think it is a defense mechanism to protect my broken heart, by putting up a wall between us. the other day she told me i had to grow up, that hurt, b/c if she was paying attention shed surely see that im trying and tell me to slow down. she told me that i need to walk the straight line shes put out for me...???...im my own person and i have my own plans, doesnt that mean something??she said when i move out then i can have a say, but until then i just have to deal .,and i think "well im graduating early, that soon enough for you". instead of being sad to leave im gonna be happy to get away. the main reason to why im graduating early b/c is of her. im i wrong?do i just have to deal with it?

2007-12-11 14:19:59 · 6 answers · asked by Sabrina 2

2007-12-11 14:17:59 · 5 answers · asked by Cam1051Sec 5

I haven't seen this women since I graduated from college, 7 years ago. She was pregnant when we graduated but she told me that the baby wasnt mine and that she and the father were getting married, which they did. Last week she contacted my ex-fiance, my daughter's mother, to get my contact information because her husband was not her son's father and she think's that I might be. I just finished talking to her and now she wants me to take a paternity test. I offered to get a paternity test when I found out she was pregnant. And tonight she had the nerve to get angry with me because I told her I am not paying for it. I dont think I should have to pay for the damn thing. I was going to pay for it when I offered to take it 7 years ago but I am not now. Is that wrong?

2007-12-11 14:05:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

we have been married 1.5 years and in the begining she always wanted it and would start the act, now she wont hint about it or act like she even wants me. We have had a past of me doing drugs while she was drinking and alot of abuse and fighting went on but its over and she cant let the past go. I try to start over new and yet she still holds on to the bad times and the bad things i have done to her and doesnt see the good i have done or the changes i have tried to do to make her happy again. She is very bitter and her attitude tells it when she speaks to me even if i have done nothing wrong she is still angry with me. What do i do to help her forget the past and work on our future...I ask her to do things i want and i will do the things she wants..and i do them for a while and she doesnt do her part so i get mad and go back to my old antics....help me

2007-12-11 13:38:41 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-11 13:37:36 · 4 answers · asked by BlueRetta 1

seen childbirth,
witnessed death,
or seen an angel?

If so please explain, and please please don not lie...

2007-12-11 13:34:53 · 5 answers · asked by Rise, Lord Vader 3

My mother in law is like the bad dream that wouldn't end. My husband and I thought we had seen it all when it came to her. But recently she sent some sort of greeting card or what have you to someone and it's been getting around. I didn't want to be petty and get back at her but this has been going on for 2 years and he and I can't stand it. Could you guys please help us find a card, funny comic or anything you can think of to help us. She's gone too far and it's really past the point of annoying. I can't believe she's this old and still has nothing to do with her time. I wish I could be sorry for doing it this way but I'm not. He and I have too many other things so worry about. I appreciate your help in advance.

Hope y'all can help us.

2007-12-11 13:32:35 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just need honest opinions .

Is it wrong for a woman to hit a man back after he hits her? Serious answer only please.

2007-12-11 13:29:54 · 6 answers · asked by FieryRedAngel 2

if someone masterbates twice aday is that to much

2007-12-11 13:23:18 · 5 answers · asked by jordan c 1

2007-12-11 13:16:15 · 2 answers · asked by Brandon s 1

its really weird and wow i cant stop thinking about him.
wat do i do

2007-12-11 12:56:18 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

If your ex bf ignores you completly when he broke up with u 3 months ago does he still have feelings

2007-12-11 12:47:09 · 4 answers · asked by sixxss 5

My friend and I want to have sex, but im not sure if I should wear a condom. My older brother's friends said i don't need one and just to pull out, but my dad says i should wear one. What do you think I should do?

2007-12-11 12:37:38 · 11 answers · asked by K-Deeznuts 4

2007-12-11 12:33:39 · 3 answers · asked by Vera 1

I am not going to spend a year and a half more in high school, im just not. in 9 months, im 18 and then im going to get my GED, and do whatever. i know my parents wont let me drop out, so im planning (with a freind of similar mindset) to go to california or somewhere to wait out the 9 months and then come home.... i just wanted to know what problems i might run into and any helpful tips...im gonna go anyway, i just wanted to know...thanks.

2007-12-11 12:04:55 · 22 answers · asked by checkeredskaterboy 1

I really like this guy but he's a lot older than me. I see him everyday exept on weekends and he always notices me. The only problem is the age difference and the fact that he is engaged. He was engaged before he ever met me and I noticed he wasn't the same before he noticed me. I always feel like I want to tell him the way I feel but I'm afraid of what he'll think. There's so much of my life that I want to spend with him as just friends because i don't want to risk our friendship and I'm pretty sure he considers me a friend because one of my friends asked him for me. Now I'm worried that I will never get a chance to tell him the way I feel about him before he gets married. Should I tell him or not? I love him so much and there isn't anything I wouldn't do for him. He means everything to me and I'm not sure about what i should do. What should I do?

2007-12-11 11:41:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hey tell me what's on your mind. no need to hide secrets just tell me what's bothering you and i'll give you the greatest advice.
For Example i ask you "What Bothers You Today?" and then someone gives me and answer saying that their family member past away and you cant get over it. i might tell you "Well.. They are not gone.. you will know they are still in your heart. and you will never forget them. So Just know that they will never leave.." and someone else might give bad advice saying "Well just get over it they died they will never come back" thats horrible! so just come for me to give you great advice..... Trust me it will make your life easier!!!!

2007-12-11 11:08:01 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

well there was this boy i barely lnew.. well i didnt know him at all he was my cuzins friends. we were all talking on three way for a while a long while like 4 or 3 hors and it was klike 3am and my cuzin started getting tired. this boy was soo sexi and he thought i was too so i asked him watd he do if he as right on top of me and he said some nasty things. i felt uncomfortable but i went with it. and we kept going and going on and on with the dirty talking yes it ws phone sex OR whatever u call it but i felt guilty afterwards and so did he when ppl found out and started calling him chil malester so is phone sex considered normal.. or like totally gross

2007-12-11 10:56:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-11 10:53:49 · 65 answers · asked by Anonymous