Thanks for your attention, it might be help. :)
2007-12-10 22:18:31 · 11 answers · asked by FOX 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
first: the answer is in your hands
No matter how hard other people may try to help you, only you could make a big change. it is true that our name was chosen by our parents but it is us who make our name and the story/legend it brings. we are responsible for who we are now and who we will be tomorrow. It's our choice and our making.
2nd: what you do to others affects you
Imagine that we are the rays of the sun and that the sun is our creator. we as the rays came from one origin(the sun) and are connected because of it. we have our own wavelengths just as we have our own achievements. however, no matter how short your wavelength may be, whatever happens to you affects the others, whatever you do comes back to you since as I've said we came from the same origin. the only difference you have from the sun's rays is that you could choose your "color", you could choose how other people view you. you could be as dark as black(no color) or as brilliant as white.
3rd: it's not the end, strength is not the absence of weaknesses but the efficiency of dealing weaknesses.
suicide? many young commit suicide because they say they can't solve their problems but will you solve it by killing yourself?it's not the end as long as you're still alive and kicking. ti ends only the moment you give up. always remember that mistakes aren't wrongdoings. the best you can do is face your problems and learn from your mistakes. you may not find any solution now but it will dawn on you even when you think you couldn't conjure a solution.
4th: manage anger
why anger? simple: it boils jealousy, hatred, envy, wickedness and all those related stuffs.
manage. know when your boundaries are. getting angry is normal but letting anger to overcome you is...you know what i mean. don't let anger take yourself. because if you do you just let your identity to be spoiled or vanquished. after all, the best way you could humiliate an enemy is by treating him/her your best friend. why bother being stressed by your anger with all those wrinkles coming with it when you can go along without it?
That's all, hope i was able to help.
2007-12-10 22:48:23 · answer #1 · answered by -GrayStorm- 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Be a good friend - but realize that you have the responsibilty of getting your education and setting up a good life so you can be a better friend. Social life is so important when you are young - but I wish I would have spent more time getting my life together other than hanging out with friends. Make sure you have a skill that no matter what you can have a good paying job.
Don't get married too young - if you found that "right" person then they will still be around when you are ready to get married. Make sure you get along with their family and friends (make sure they have friends other than you and yours, also.) before you commit.
2007-12-10 22:38:39 · answer #2 · answered by so Fresh 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't grow up. I mean that as don't let yourself grow old, keep having fun, and enjoying life. Find humor in tragic times or happiness. Don't move too fast, take time and live and love. Pay attention to the world around you and become educated scholastically as well as socially. Enjoy and have fun and take passion in all you do.
2007-12-12 01:19:54 · answer #3 · answered by punxsyparty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You only live once. Don't let anything or anyone hold you back from doing what makes you happy. Be spontaneous. Get a little crazy. Have no regrets. Remeber, you are young and you can get away with alot more then you can as you get older!
2007-12-10 22:27:53 · answer #4 · answered by sendingtherainyourway 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a good education, stay out of trouble, make plenty of friends, and have a good time. Don't get married until you are sure that you are ready, and don't have sex without a condom!!!
2007-12-10 22:23:01 · answer #5 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
STAY IN SCHOOL!!!!! 4 REAL GO TO COLLEGE, GET DONE WITH COLLEGE.. U HAVE PLENTY OF TIME TO PARTY AND STUFF WHEN U R OLDER.... if i could go back i would do stuff a whole lot different
2007-12-10 22:23:40 · answer #6 · answered by Wilyum 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say:
Dont take drugs
Dont listen to anyone who puts you down - they cant determine your self worth
Be active and enjoy sport
2007-12-11 00:36:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Always be honest and tell the truth. Oh and save ur money.
2007-12-10 23:16:44 · answer #8 · answered by Freckles2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen to your elders, they dont seem to grasp the concept that weve been there, seen it, done it, got the t-shirt so we have a very good idea what were talking about
2007-12-10 23:26:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
do it ,what you think!
time never wait for anyone
2007-12-11 16:06:14 · answer #10 · answered by DareDevil Virgin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋