Today i went to see my bf n everything was alright untill we were the only ones in the house he then went weird and then walked to the kitchen i followed n said hey whats wrong n he said i dont know how i feel about you :/
he said dat his mate asked him what would he do if his other mate n me were doign stuff behind my bfs back :S
n he said back to him i dunno i guess pissed off :S
and i told him how i felt and stuff but he doesnt seem to do anything :(
he then walked me hoem half way n i told him how i felt and then said you can walk me home or go home okay its your choice he said walk home, so we left but now i want himto come to me and not me going to him, but i dont know how long i should leave this? :(
i love him too much!!!
i dont wana lose him
and i didnt do anythign wrong this time pelase help me :(
2007-12-06 04:58:37 · 15 answers · asked by St*r 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You've already lost him in the sense that he doesn't have the same love for you that you have for him. If his love were real, there wouldn't be any of this "I don't know how I feel" cr*p. This isn't about you doint anything wrong...I'm sure you didn't. But the reality is that hanging on to him is only going to put you through an emotional rollercoaster because he is not committed to trying to love you.
2007-12-06 05:00:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
When a relationship ends, it's not..i repeat it's NOT b/c one of the people involved has done something wrong! Why do people think that????? It's not true.
IMO, a relationships ends b/c something doesn't work anyome for one of the two. You can't force things of this nature.
Your bf sounds like he really isn't sure how he feels. He told you that. Why he told u that? So you'd be warned. So you'd give him some space to think. He may not feel the same about u. Again, nothing you've done! Just how life is, sometime!
Don't pressure him. Don't blame him or you. If it doesn't happen...move on. There is another guy out there for you.
2007-12-06 05:05:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm trying to be optimistic, but it sounds like he just isn't interested. I'm sure he cares about you, but a relationship that isn't balanced (i.e. you have much stronger feelings for him than he for you) isn't worth saving. If he's feelings are going to "catch up" they will whether you're 'together' or not. As cleche as it sounds, you can do better! You should be in love with someone who loves you back without a doubt!
But I think you already know all of this.
And who knows...maybe he'll come crawling back some day when he realizes what he's lost.
2007-12-06 05:10:23 · answer #3 · answered by a123e456 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it up, the guy is a jerk!!! I can't stand seeing you girls trying to hang on to these losers. Think ahead. Don't you want someone who respects you? Get a clue, he doesn't care and he's probably got nothing to offer anyway. Find a hobby, learn to type, read a book, do something to improve yourself so you don't have to go on whining and clinging to losers. Believe me, you are not losing anything worthwhile!
2007-12-06 05:20:01 · answer #4 · answered by karenhjones 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him even though it will hurt like hell.
I think it is awful when people do that. If you don't love me then leave but don't make me beg, or guess if you are going to love me again...and keep me hanging.
If he doesn't feel the same way, you got to have more love for yourself to leave him before he decides that he has had enough of you after keeping you hanging...
2007-12-06 05:03:52 · answer #5 · answered by Lil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like he thinks you're cheating. some serious one on one time and lots of fun, flirty, lighthearted phone calls could put more interest back in your relationship for him. i dont think he doesnt like you, because otherwise he wouldn't have told you how he felt (guys generally have a hard time with that), and he wouldnt have walked you home or said he'd feel angry if you cheated on him. spend more time with him and make it clear that you like him a lot. dont focus too hard on this or he'll be turned off and it'll make things worse. have fun with him. good luck!
2007-12-06 05:04:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's ready to move on. Better let him go, before he lets you go first. And don't listen to blistering b. This is not about you making a fool out of yourself. If he's ready to move on, he doesn't care about the sex. Be smart and make the first move!
2007-12-06 05:03:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's trying to get out of buying you a x-mas present
2007-12-06 05:01:38 · answer #8 · answered by slushpile reader 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its obvious that he does not feel the same about you ,like you feel about him.
he is not yours so i think its best you start looking else where
and find someone who does really love you and vice versa.
goodluck.
2007-12-06 05:03:45 · answer #9 · answered by silky1978 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yeah! That and kick off the heels.
2016-05-28 11:03:44 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋