Other - Family & Relationships - 5 September 2007

well i found out my ex bf...got i new girl..
I can not take it nomore.
we still talk every night ,well he still calls me every night.
but i know he still loves me cause he tells me all the time.
like a few day ago h called my friend to talk about me.
he told her he was kinda using the other girl to forget about me.
we were together for about 1 year n have broke up lik 4month ago.
i try to get over him and everything but i just cant let him go.
when i lived by him everything was great..it couldnt be any bettter...but now the long distace is killing both of us.i mean we are like 1687.44 miles away:[
welll i talk to him seriusly like yesturday...and told him how i still felt and he told me to.
he said he had to think everything over .
sooo what if he says we should get back together ..what should i do???
what if he says this cant be nomore..am i soppouto stop talkin to him..
he is such a great guy but he is too insecure of himself.
helppp what should i do??

2007-09-05 23:30:27 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi,

As we see in porn movie that a man can penetrate the vagina for 30 minute or for more time span.
How it can be possible?
i see my boyfriend cannot stay in that position even for 4 minute continuously.
we take generally 5 minute in forplay, then 2-3 minute in real penetration then 4 minute in afterplay.

it that all normal? or we should meet doctor?

Plz tell me without taking any drugs in normal condition, how much time a man can spend in veginal intercourse. plz exclude the time of foreplay and afterplay.

plz the performance of man as well as ur expectations of women.

Thanks in advance to all answers.

2007-09-05 22:58:04 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

If my husband has been looking what would be the best way to approach him?

When I saw the website I decided to sms my husband but was afraid to confront him because I had not at that stage confirmed if the site was a porn site because his laptop was offline & I needed to double check.

So I pretended to send him an sms by "mistake". Saying"lol! have you been looking at dodgy websites again ;) He replied and said "No why?". I smsed back & said I had meant to send the sms to my friend because someone at her work was looking at porn & it got sent in emails to clients. (Which is true, it really did happen, just a few weeks ago though).

The next day I typed in the site I had written down and found it be a porn site. So that means if he has been looking at porn he lied on top of it.

I know its best to have open communication but I don't want to accuse him if he hasn't done anything or it wasnt his fault if it really was a pop up. Should I write him an email?

2007-09-05 22:44:38 · 5 answers · asked by withlove 1

later on after a month i found out that he has a son and married )cant confirm if they are living together but he said he has a wife or sumthin, regardless of that, i avoid him but still bugs me to have sex with him but the problem is that I gave my virginity to him and it will be hard for me to forget him that easily. we've known each other for 2 months already. help guys, i need a very realistic and effective and serious advice to this problem of mine.

2007-09-05 22:30:05 · 6 answers · asked by armyleen r 1

I went on birth control pills, and then I started throwing up constantly.
I threw out everything for two three days, and could not eat, and
threw out with gastric juices, and acid burned my tract, and my mouth and even my lips. I can hardly stand, and I am dizzy, I have fervour and headache.
At night I though that I was going to God, it was so bad.
And he hopes that I would cook, wash, clean, please him in bed and go to work to pay his bills, while taking it! All because he wants "pleasure" and "to feel it?" I do not understand how men can be so selfish! I would not wish it on the bitterest ex, the less so on a person who looks after you day and night! And after seeing me, all green, thin, with my lips patched the desire for "feeling pleasure" is so high, that he tells me to go on with this pill, or try another!
I am never putting this nasty thing into me ever in my life. Not this one, not any other one, not a different doze, nothing.

2007-09-05 22:21:32 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

What does it mean when a person who is already married for 5 yrs and is in constant touch with a married woman only over email and not seen each other and knows many of the problems of the woman's married life (if only the man has seen her photo ) and says that he misses her a lot , I always think of you etc.

2007-09-05 22:17:10 · 9 answers · asked by janu 1

Have fun with this one!!!

2007-09-05 21:06:16 · 9 answers · asked by Kamp 4

I've been seeing a girl for a little over a year. She seems to have all the qualities I want but I'm a little hesitant to move too far forward. A lot of my friends have gotten married and divorced in recent years but I've never been engaged. I have had some letdowns though. How can I tell if it's time to take things to another level?

2007-09-05 18:01:31 · 3 answers · asked by Average Joe 2

Hey people, My boyfriend of 6 months and I have been doing great, but we see each other just on weekend, which isn't bad, the weeks go by fast for us. He use to go out partying/dancing at bars in his town and we met and he hasn't been doing much of that, since he was working so much this summer. One of his friends who he partied with a lot before, is moving to the same town, same apartment building. Now I'm just worried his friend will want him to go out to bars on week nights when I'm not there. They use to go to college type bars and go dancing and drinking with girls before, I'm just sick to my stomach even thinking about my bf starting this up... I don't know what to do:( He knows I don't like him doing that, but I don't tell him he can't, i'm not controlling or nething, I'd just rather he not..It just makes me so nervous.. any opinions? Please nothing rude, I'm just pretty nervous about this situation...thanks!

2007-09-05 17:38:20 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ever since I turned 18, everything has gone to hell and it all has to do with my older sister. I used to live with her, and in turn for me being able to stay, I watched her kids. Welln I went to go visit some of my friends one day who lived about an hour and a half away. I then got a phone call from one of my family members who also lived in the area saying that my sister did not want me to come back-as in ever. So with that being said-where was I supposed to stay? I asked my (who I thought were caring adoptive parents) if I counld stay with them until I could find myself an apartment. Their answer? No. So I asked some of my friends if I could spend the night at their house every now and then. Their answer? Sure-but only when it was convenient for them as well(which was absolutely fine by me). Most of the time tho-I spent living out of my car (in my parents driveway). I recieved an email later, from my sister, saying how shes enjoying laughing in my face because of how miserable I am.

2007-09-05 17:20:29 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok there is this guy at my school that i ahve liked ever scence the meet the teacher nite ! well i told 1 of my bffs and he asked her out the day be4 i told her so it really made me mad well then they were dating 4 like 3 weeks and then he broke up with her and then is now asking my best best friend out but she is going to say no to him cus she has a bf and cus i like him and she does not want me to be hert . but the thing is i really like him and i would love to go out with him but he is always mean to me and calls me names ! and i always try being nice to him but telling him is work looks good , or i will offer him candy bars ,chips anything and he says no but he lloves all thos thing and when some1 else says to u want some he always says yes . please help me ! guve me tips on how to get him to go out with me or just be firends ! outfits to ware anything please help ! i dont get it he goes 4 the ugly girls then y is he not coming 4 me ? please help me !!!!!

2007-09-05 16:46:33 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

theres this girl that i loved we're currently not together because she wants to take things slow.I love her & i do not want to hurt her& end up hurting myself.Theres this girl i like,i don't know what to tell her,i wanna stop talking to her because i do not wanna lose the girl that i loved. can anyone give me advice to the girl that i like i can't talk to her anymore,without hurting her?

2007-09-05 16:23:26 · 1 answers · asked by Chewy 1

2007-09-05 16:20:25 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend and I have been dating for over 2 years, and he's made it clear that he wants to marry me in a few years after we're both done school. The problem is that I don't think I could marry him. I'm extremely insecure about his ex-gf/current best friend who has repeatedly tried to break us up and has caused some major problems in our relationship. I just don't want to marry him and have to spend the rest of my life dealing with her, and I know he's not going to get rid of her because he doesn't understand how much pain her involvement causes me. The question is, do you think I should carry on the relationship, because I really don't want to break up with him, or should I just end it now and get the heartache over with? Am I being completely irrational about this?

2007-09-05 16:19:00 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

well i have been with this boy for about 2 years nd he has done like alot of lieing to me in the past to make me not trust him hes hidden something from me for a year and a half and i found out not too long ago... but u know i forgave him for it .. it was really something big.. but i didnt think he would do that to me again.. and i dont think he would.
but anyways now me and him are having problems he says in to controllig cus i dont let him do what he wants because he has lost his trust towards me big time cus all he does is lie to me and texts gurls and not me.. and i dont know what to do i love him so much but now we broke up and i herd this gurl likes him.. and wants to go out with him.
im going threw alot right now and hes not even here for me..
i have gave him everything and now i need help.. i jus keep crying everynight.. i love him so much and he dosnt realize like hes been smoking pot and treating me like crap... hanging out with other gurls..what should i do?

2007-09-05 16:11:29 · 3 answers · asked by Christy S 1

Have you ever?...?
Just wanted to end a friendship/relationship with someone who at point you felt a bond to, in whateve way -and it's like you never wanted to tell them it's over, you just wanted to end everything in the secrecy-like block their phone; remove pics; not answer when they call-because you felt they did you wrong, and after you gave them a chance they messed up again and again?...And, it made you feel good to have that power, because you can walk away and not care, because it;s their* fault the friendship ended in the 1st place?..
* I have a friend who I've been friends with for 3 years now. And, when it comes to messages and phone calls-she's flaky. I *even ask when it's convenient for her to talk and call at the time she says , but no aswr-when I call, nor a reply. *She apologises and I know she cares for me, she's told me- I'm one of her BFF-but this has happened 3 different times now and I'm getting sick of it.

2007-09-05 15:56:58 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

She is on her 456th court battle with my dad over money, my dad raised me, all she wants to do is pay less and less and all I am trying to do is get a college education. She has turned her back on me and my sister time and time before, now she has subpoena'd me and my boyfriend and his mom to court. thing is there is no reason for her to do so. I want to end this unhealthy relationship with her once and for all and I need some words of power to leave in a voicemail on her phone, trust me, I am not taking the easy way out leaving a message, I just can never get through to her, but she has basically ended our relationship...HELP ME WITH WORDS THAT WILL STING BUT LEAVE A LASTING IMPRESSION...thanks!

2007-09-05 15:16:03 · 2 answers · asked by RJ 1

or good looking enough but really smart? if you were forced to choose one or the other, which would you pick and why? for me, I would take good looking and smart over unbelievably hot but stupid, because it lasts stays interesting longer!

2007-09-05 15:12:10 · 8 answers · asked by phlygirl 3

I have been seeing someone for about 3-4 months. I love him, but I still haven't told him the truth. I was born with a female internal reproductive system. I have a uterus, cervix, etc. But I have a male external reproductive system, meaning I have a penis. It works perfectly fine and I can pass as female, but he still doesn't know.

When and how should I tell him? Also, I won't be getting a sex change any time soon, so don't suggest it please.

2007-09-05 14:59:35 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a 30 y/o male and my wife is 31 - we have a 16 month old child together and haven't had sex in 2 months - in fact, we've only had sex 5 times this year - how concerned should I be and what can I do?

2007-09-05 14:58:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-05 14:54:30 · 1 answers · asked by crazy s 1

2007-09-05 14:35:05 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

We had been together over 2 years. The past few times we have fought it's because he lies about stuff or screws up.. and i get mad etc... then he decides he is on vacation from our relationship does not call for 3 or 4 days then when hes done calls and i wimp out and forgive him. I cant take it anymore its hurting too bad i want to move on... but like i said 2 years...feels like a lifetime exspecially since im 19. Anybody got good advice??? should i give in again or get over it...and how?

2007-09-05 14:22:01 · 13 answers · asked by SB1988 2

2007-09-05 14:11:45 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

It is possible depending on exactly my husband returns home that we will only have 4 days to spend together before his family wants to come a visit. I am afraid that my husband will not understand my need for alone time and I am worried that if I talk to him about me wanting more time with him, he will say no and of course that would hurt me. Any suggestions or help you can give? Oh we are planning a trip to see them for the holidays about a month after they want to see us.

2007-09-05 13:04:26 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

hey everyone.. i wasnt going to sit here and pour my heart out, but i need to tell someone or speak to some1 because all im doing is building it up.
Its been year and half since i broke up with my boyfriend for my parents, its because he was a different race 2 what i am. as my parents found out about it and said they would never accept it. i made a wrong desicion and broke up with him to make my parents happy. ive tryed to move on, but its not working. a big mistake that i regret but its happened. but not only that he texts me like every 4months down the line, saying the same as me, how he still wants to talk to me etc and still thinks about me. but recently he tells me, he got married but now is trying to get a divorce as its not working out :|,he tells me that he wishes he could turn bk time and do so much different to what happened then. its killing me, im fed up of coming back and 4th with him. and because i care so much i want to be there for him, let alone still be loving him?

2007-09-05 12:54:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm in second year of college and just feel so alone and empty.I have no friends there and don't have the motivation to keep going.Having a life of only going home,going to work,school and sleeping...that's all I have.My family is poor and couldn't afford to pay for my school,so I live at home and work to pay for it myself.meeting ppl is impossible.I'm starting to wonder if I should just get in debt and live in the dorms of a different school and start fresh,but I'm 20 isn't it too late.I've joined clubs but ppl seem to think I'm something I'm not and ignore me.They all seem to think I'm a party going whore...heh I'm still a virgin,have never dated,never even kissed,and never went to highschool parties,flat chested and my only makeup is mascara.But even strangers call me a slut or a whore as they drive by(how is wearing a t-shirt with loose jeans and old runners whorish?)I just feel so lonely,so pathetic and hated...

2007-09-05 12:43:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was sitting by the window seat and this girl (this is a campus bus that takes you from north to south, which is all there basically is here) saw one of her friends sitting behind me and she sat in the vacant seat next to me. She sat by the side with her butt facing me. I only took up half the space (as you're expected to) but when she sat the side of her butt was firmly touching my hip and her body was pressing on mine. I thought it was kind of hot, so I left it there, but do you think she realized what she was doing or was she like "oh it's just a guy, why not?"

2007-09-05 12:22:22 · 4 answers · asked by Rickyyy 1

Ok well my friend who is 10 years older than me that I only talk to through email is probably not going to come thru with what she told me, AGAIN!! I got her 2 new baby outfits and have asked when I can come to her house and give it to her in email for the past 3 weeks and she always reschedules on me. She told me last week that she wanted to reschedule for this week and that she would email me on when she wanted me to come over and she still hasn't. I cant take the stuff back either b/c I marked the prices out with sharpie. She told me her AC broke last week and I asked her husband if they had got it fixed yesterday and he acted like he didnt know what I was talking about. I feel she is lying to me for some reason, I dont know. But what do you think? What should I do? And I cant really call her either. Since I work at the same place as her husband does, you think I should just give it to him and let him take it home or what?

2007-09-05 12:13:20 · 19 answers · asked by pink_flamingo1211 1

I am at a crossroads here and i need advice. Okay I am not sure if my wife of 3 years is trying to cheat on me or not. I mean at nite I wake up to find her on the I.M., and when I ask her what she is doing she says nothing. I dont know what to do, I dont want to let her go but if she is playing me then I no longer want to be with her. I already warned her that if she does cheat on me then me and my little boy are gone and she will no longer see us again. There are also other people creeping around with her such as her sis-in-law and one of her "friends" so to speak. Is there a way to calmly sit and discuss this with her before I do find out for myself or do I wait it out and see what happens? Help please....

2007-09-05 11:49:23 · 4 answers · asked by D'zignz of Kaos 3