Plz Help i am cofused about sex performance.?

Question

Hi,

As we see in porn movie that a man can penetrate the vagina for 30 minute or for more time span.
How it can be possible?
i see my boyfriend cannot stay in that position even for 4 minute continuously.
we take generally 5 minute in forplay, then 2-3 minute in real penetration then 4 minute in afterplay.

it that all normal? or we should meet doctor?

Plz tell me without taking any drugs in normal condition, how much time a man can spend in veginal intercourse. plz exclude the time of foreplay and afterplay.

plz the performance of man as well as ur expectations of women.

Thanks in advance to all answers.

Answer 1

Hi...there...supriya.....I hope that you are educated...I am not insulting you....my question isthat " you didnt get a proper sex education from anywhere else.".....am I correct? ok....about the man... after penetration ( into vagina.) normaly he takes 10 to 30 in and out actions.,....12 to 15 times (in and out together) normal...and healthy...in some cases cause of his practises (controling him self from ejaculation) he may take another 10 /15 possible....and in some case he may ejaculate within 10 also...but still they (the partners) are happy..cause they might know how to perform before and during the main play....and in your case it is quite normal with him...and for your information...the porn movie...they shoot a sexual intercourse with lots of intervals and shots exactly like a normal film shooting...like when we watch a song (even if the stars and the location is same for the entire song) within 5 minutes ..but to shoot that song it might have taken one day to god knows how many days...the same way the porn industry also takes time to shoot...in between the man may ejaculate...but they wait some time and shoot again...and you know while shooting these film the entire production team like from light boys to the director totaling a number of 12 plus number of peoples are around them watching the scene...and the expressions what we see all not natural..cause they are just actors...acting to the instruction of the director...and much more camera / digital techniques also they are using for post production.

Hope these informations are enough for to clear your doubts.

Answer 2

ok
it all depends
on persons
but 2 mins is a bit short

ummmm the question you should be asking
is if you are satisfied, do you have orgasm,
do you enjoy yourself

a porn movie is not the ideal judge as they use sprays and
pills to keep going that long

but generally from my experiences
foreplay has no set time, you can play for mins or hours LOL
depending on the mood
real penetration shouldnt be the focus, but the playing should be
at times i would penetrate for 15 mins then
play for a few mins till i could go again
and the second time would be longer i could go
up to an hour

as for expectations
thats up to YOU not a scientific study or answers
you expect more or you wouldnt ask this question
so you need to sit down and learn sexuality together

focus on the play, look at porn together while playing,
read up on techniques and try them

if you both are comfortable
seek a doctor who can recommend someone else
or treatments

sometimes lack of performance can be mental or
its can be because of physical problems ie prostate, circulation, heart etc

whatever you decide you need to approach the issue with care and love, because questioning his performance is like
a maor hit on his manhood
so be gentle
wP

Answer 3

It depends on the couple. There is no set formula. Some people enjoy having longer intercourse sessions than others. For young people it is very normal for sex not to last very long. As people get older, they may or may not want to improve their sexual experience by trying to increase the foreplay time and the intercourse time. Men usually have to think of something else in order to avoid early ejaculation. Women can help, by changing the movements often. That tends to distract the man for awhile.

Answer 4

Men are different. Some learn how to control their release and last longer, but it does take an interested person tolearn this. Some men think that sex is all about them getting off. Not very considerate of them I am sure.

Answer 5

the performance of your man is very very low. i think he is just a lazy boy. i think he needs a doctor