I am at a crossroads here and i need advice. Okay I am not sure if my wife of 3 years is trying to cheat on me or not. I mean at nite I wake up to find her on the I.M., and when I ask her what she is doing she says nothing. I dont know what to do, I dont want to let her go but if she is playing me then I no longer want to be with her. I already warned her that if she does cheat on me then me and my little boy are gone and she will no longer see us again. There are also other people creeping around with her such as her sis-in-law and one of her "friends" so to speak. Is there a way to calmly sit and discuss this with her before I do find out for myself or do I wait it out and see what happens? Help please....
2007-09-05 11:49:23 · 4 answers · asked by D'zignz of Kaos 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
dont jump to conclutions. she may just be addicted to IM and inocently flirting to boost her self esteam.. I wouldnt do anything unless you know for a fact that she is cheating.
2007-09-05 11:55:54 · answer #1 · answered by alora 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are definitely at a crossroad. I understand that you don't want to wrongly accuse your wife, but at the same time if she is playing you it is much better to get it out in the open sooner rather than later. I know it is going to be difficult but you should open up the communication lines. Sit and talk let her know your feelings and get her to open up to you or there's option two. Create yourself a fake I.M. account and try to talk to her on one of those late nights, if she responds to you then your answer is obvious.
2007-09-05 19:26:31 · answer #2 · answered by Notorious_WC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't wait it out because if you find out that way it will hurt worse then her coming out and telling you i would sit her down and be serious and ask are you cheating and let her know if you find out later things will be worse for her if she is a real women and tell you now then things will be bad but maybe we can work it out or just let her know either way yo find out your leaving just rather she tells you or not it will be worst for her, so if she loves you (she wouldn't do it) shell tell you if she doesn't then you find out then she doesn't care about your commitment think about it.
2007-09-05 19:01:58 · answer #3 · answered by sweets20 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
check out the computer and see if you can see what shes doing. if you feel she is and have proff by all means get proof good lawyer and both of you throw her out not leave its her problem but if you leave you could lose the house and boy.
2007-09-09 00:42:16 · answer #4 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋