I went on birth control pills, and then I started throwing up constantly.
I threw out everything for two three days, and could not eat, and
threw out with gastric juices, and acid burned my tract, and my mouth and even my lips. I can hardly stand, and I am dizzy, I have fervour and headache.
At night I though that I was going to God, it was so bad.
And he hopes that I would cook, wash, clean, please him in bed and go to work to pay his bills, while taking it! All because he wants "pleasure" and "to feel it?" I do not understand how men can be so selfish! I would not wish it on the bitterest ex, the less so on a person who looks after you day and night! And after seeing me, all green, thin, with my lips patched the desire for "feeling pleasure" is so high, that he tells me to go on with this pill, or try another!
I am never putting this nasty thing into me ever in my life. Not this one, not any other one, not a different doze, nothing.
2007-09-05 22:21:32 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Men must be made compulsory to eat this pills themselves first, before thrusting it on their partner or "pleasure".
And I do not know how men can be so selfish and torment women so. It's an agony.
2007-09-05 22:22:05 · update #1
hey sweetheart.... do not take the abuse, please, it is your life your body, you need to see a doctor if this has happened to you, not be at home doing all the chores and having sex with him.. get yourself some help, it sounds as though you may have had a bad reaction to the pills , and nothing he can say or do can change that and he cannot force you to take more.. he can be put in prison if he forces you to take them or does not get you help when you are sick.. he may be your husband, but he is not your owner.. you are a human being not an animal there for his sick pleasures and bidding as i say please do not take any more abuse from him stand up and get aid its there for you
good luck, you are in my thoughts
2007-09-05 22:33:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you punishing yourself by being in a relationship with someone who treats you so terribly? He obviously sees you as someone whom he can either emotionally torture or rehabilitate, depending on the mood he's in. You can never live up to his expectations, because he is expecting you to be someone you aren't. This isn't a relationship---it's self-flagellation on your part!
Keep this in mind: Men are not created equal. Different people different personality. There are people out there, your partner included, who have "Fatal Flaws," a characteristics that can cause severe problems in a relationship. Stop taking that pills. It is harmful to your health.
No matter what your reason for being involved with a man who treats you in this demeaning fashion, one thing is clear: You need to end the relationship now! I suggest taking some time off from relationships for a while, so you can do some emotional healing and fill yourself up from the inside out. When you're loving yourself more, you'll be less inclined to attract partners who don't know how to love you.
ravishingV
2007-09-12 23:52:54 · answer #2 · answered by ravishingV 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gues what, no pill, and you will have a house full of kids with this selfish man. By the way, not all men are that way. Leave him and find a man that will treat you right. Also, tell the doctor what those pills did to you. You are probably not on the right kind for you. Everyone is different.
2007-09-06 05:29:25 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let me tell you by experience if he is acting this way then you are better off letting him go right now, if you are as sick are you say and he is only thinking of himself getting satisfied, then that is not right becuz he should consider you and not be selfish, guys are dogs when is comes to getting satisfied, they want it and they are going to keep wanting and wanting more because that is in their nature, you should try and IUD, they are way better than the pills, look into that before you relationship is in jeopardy. Just trying to help, but good luck.
2007-09-14 00:15:16 · answer #4 · answered by Boo Boo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not trying to cause comotion for you and your's but that is your body and your health and you take care of yourself first I've been there if he feel's that serious about it all tell him toget a hysterectomy if he want it that bad but you also got to make sure he doesn't get it somewhere else just alway's checkout all the options and possibilities what about even trying a patch or someother type of bc
2007-09-14 01:34:38 · answer #5 · answered by crazy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
AS the old adage goes you hurt the ones you love the most.
Then after reading what you said about your man If you can call him that .Your his DOOR MAT. If you were not so codependet You would have DUMPED HIS SORRY A$$ Along TIME AGO N BEEN ON TO A BETTER MAN,MAYBE?
2007-09-06 05:55:35 · answer #6 · answered by walter c 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to get a vasectomy, or see if they have something for men to take.
2007-09-06 05:28:25 · answer #7 · answered by thepeacelover01 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree. Some men are silly, stupid and idiots. No one has to go through what you are goign through. I am sorry.
2007-09-13 09:39:37 · answer #8 · answered by Dreamyraj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its sad to hear your situation. but i hope that you won't apply this to all men.
You just got into a bad situation.
why not try getting out of it. who knows... mr. right is just waiting nearby...
Good luck.
2007-09-06 05:32:41 · answer #9 · answered by jace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because this ONE guy is a complete *** doesn't mean that ALL men are this way! I think you need to dump his sorry *** because he OBVIOUSLY doesn't love you!
2007-09-06 05:31:06 · answer #10 · answered by Momof1 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋