Other - Family & Relationships - 5 September 2007

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2007-09-05 05:59:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

My 21 yr. old son bought a house when he was 20. I told him at the time, he was too young for such a responsibility, but he did it anyway. He has an $800.00 house payment, and never has any money now. His bank account is always overdrawn, and I am constantly giving him money. I see him staying home, when he should be out having fun with his friends on the weekends. I am starting to go broke myself. How can I stop giving him the dough, without him losing the house, and getting bad credit?

2007-09-05 05:30:23 · 19 answers · asked by Mrs. Pickles the lunch lady 6

finally accepted him.We've been together going on 2 years and she hates him.In the dream we became engaged when suddenly a girl was telling my sister and I about her boyfriend and a recent pregnancy scare they had.Turns out her boyfriend was my boyfriend.I called him (in the dream) and confronted him about the girl and he brushed it off saying it wasn't a big deal and he was leaving her and marrying me.I screamed at him that he said he would never hurt me and that everything he said was all a lie.I woke up to find myself crying and my boyfriend shaking me awake and holding me until I calmed down.I told him about the dream and he says until I stop doubting him and his intentions with me (he wants us to get married) I'll keep having these types of dreams (this wasn't the first time).What do you all think? I somewhat agree,but also think that my mothers feeling towards him might be part of my problem because she makes me feel I should be wary with him despite him not giving me reason to.

2007-09-05 04:55:55 · 5 answers · asked by ConfusedHMD 2

For the past year my boyfriend and I have had a long distance relationship. I live in TX and he lives in CA. We are ready to take the next step in our relationship. He wants to move to TX with me but not until March. I had surgery about 4 months ago, so my time limit to have children is closing in, so we want to be closer together so that we can work on getting pregnant. However, I've mentioned to my mom before that I want to move but she has let me know she doesnt approve. She believes that once I move, I will never come home. I have a very close relationship with her and just the thought of leaving her and my nephews breaks my heart, but I want to start my life also. I just dont know what to do anymore. How do I break it to her and my sisters. This is so hard my heart hurts!!!

2007-09-05 04:25:36 · 10 answers · asked by lorimtx2204 3

And please dont say wait til I move out bacause I cant wait that long! Thank you in advance

2007-09-05 04:24:56 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Would you date someone that has difficulty reading. I have said that I wouldn't "But". I have said it's not ashame when a person can't read, it's only ashame when you do nothing about it.

2007-09-05 04:23:16 · 3 answers · asked by deb 2

I will make a long situation short. I have a 19 year-old daughter who is married and lives two hours away from me. Her father, my ex-husband, lives 30 miles from me. When she and her husband come to visit for a weekend, they 'always' stay with her Dad. She says her Dad is doing this and and that, has already made plans with them, as well as cooking a dinner for them. She will call me a few times a month, but it is always when something is wrong or she needs money. When they are in town, she says they will come by and visit, but they don't. I try calling her (and emailing), but I always get her voicemail. Until the age of about 14, she and I were inseperable and I worship the ground she walks on. We're attending an event in a couple months. She called me 5 days in a row to make sure I had bought the tickets. Maybe it's me, and while I know she has to balance her married life and working, I don't know what has happened to our relationship. We never get the chance to talk.

2007-09-05 04:10:17 · 16 answers · asked by snowman68 3

See, he lives in another town and we spend time on the internet and phone talking. We used to be very much in love but I screwed it up on purpose because I was so young. What does it mean now when he says he wants to see me, then in another email he says there is nothing between us, then in yet another he says the sky is the limit when talking about us meeting face to face again. He's only been divorced about 6 months from a woman he married on the rebound--he says If I hadn't have broke things off with him, he would have never gone through this. Sometimes he acts as if he wants to care about me and sometimes he acts as if he is mad at me still. Any advice? I really love him and I always have but I was young and stupid when I was with him before. Any advice on what to do, or how to show him I truly care would be greatly appreciated.

2007-09-05 03:49:54 · 8 answers · asked by Amanda T 3

well i been with charleton since valentines day, he cheated on me wit like 4 girls, but i still love him, i went to his house, n out of nowhere he kisses me in the mouth, n tells he he is in love ewith me, (afetr we broke up, do he really love me, r did he jus say dat beacuse, all his bitches, kno about his cheating, might i mind you i never, kissed his as long as we were 2getha, but dis momerial weekend, things were different

2007-09-05 03:43:28 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

im looking for churches in the clermont county are of cincinnati ohio that will help with shelter and or food....any help is greatly appreicated! THANKS!! i need phone numbers and such! thanks

2007-09-05 03:20:50 · 1 answers · asked by Danielle 1

when a girl i like(she doesnt know i like her visa versa but im pretty sure she likes me even though i dont really know her good) asked me how i was doing in school then when i was done talking to her one of her friends looked me in the eyes then smiled

2007-09-05 02:59:25 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im friends with a guy in work and weve just started going to lunch together. He has a gf so its purely platonic but i worry bout going to lunch with him as people are always making remarks like oh what u 2 get up to and stuff like that. It makes me embarrased but dont want to lose a friend or have to hide him

2007-09-05 02:57:55 · 18 answers · asked by joanne100uk 1

Im friends with a guy in work and weve just started going to lunch together. He has a gf so its purely platonic but i worry bout going to lunch with him as people are always making remarks like oh what u 2 get up to and stuff like that. It makes me embarrased but dont want to lose a friend or have to hide him

2007-09-05 02:56:02 · 2 answers · asked by chinwag 1

my nan shes 62 but shes not like an ol granny shes actice and looks young.....

2007-09-05 02:50:07 · 2 answers · asked by mals2008 3

My hubby comes back from a weeks training course on friday so ive booked the kids away sat night and was wondering if anyones got any ideas for a fun/ romantic night out that doesnt involve silly amounts of dosh, pubs, clubs, bingo or bowling! thanks!

2007-09-05 02:47:17 · 6 answers · asked by bekkibex 3

My partner is really stubborn and since we started living together, he's started treating me worse, like now he's got me (we're engaged), he doesn't need to try any more. He keeps arguing with me over really silly things, like if he doesn't want to do the dishes and i ask him to, he'll stop talking to me and refuse any contact with me until I give in and apologise to him for him doing something wrong. Or today I picked him up from work 5 minutes late so he refused to talk to me all day. I spoke to him about it and he said it's because he's stubborn and feels like he always has to be right. He said to let him know next time and he would stop. So I did, and he really did work on it for a while, but now he's fallen into his bad habits again (he was ok for about 3 weeks). He'll even go as far as threatening to leave or once he actually left because I wouldn't give into him. When I give in, he goes back to normal. What do I do?

2007-09-05 02:07:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My own house, boyfriend moves in, been together for six years works he works hard on house, then son moves in, then dog appears, drinks like a fish, takes me out when he has finished drinking with mates, I only seem to fit into things when it suits, nothing goes on in bedroom dept. am I being used? If I try to talk about things then I am accused of being mardy. I am 47 years old and dont wont to live round a drunk, I cook, clean, etc. and hes well looked after, but its not enough. Am I wasting my time or should I keep trying?

2007-09-05 01:48:37 · 29 answers · asked by Elizabeth 1

This weekend was my aunt’s party! It was all top notch.. Bar men, waiters- n' all that! So being as it was a special occasion, I had a few drinks - nothing wrong with that right??

I had stuff like Bacardi & Coke, Screwdriver, Baileys, Mailbu etc. I probably had about 6 drinks! I wasn’t drunk, but I was a bit happy lol.. i actually chose to be, coz the party was getting boring and it needed some excitement!

The next day my 28 yr old cousin was telling my aunt and uncle at work about "how drunk I was and cant be trusted" and " how he was going to tell my dad" I actually spoke to my dad that night telling him that id had a few drinks, so he trusted me - the thing is, I don’t want to get a bad rep. My cousins been telling everyone.. I find this totally un fair – What should I do??

PS. Im 15 and only have drinks on special occasions – I hardly ever go out..

2007-09-05 01:18:01 · 7 answers · asked by Strawberry 3