later on after a month i found out that he has a son and married )cant confirm if they are living together but he said he has a wife or sumthin, regardless of that, i avoid him but still bugs me to have sex with him but the problem is that I gave my virginity to him and it will be hard for me to forget him that easily. we've known each other for 2 months already. help guys, i need a very realistic and effective and serious advice to this problem of mine.
2007-09-05 22:30:05 · 6 answers · asked by armyleen r 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you are so easy.
look around
there are plenty of other married men for you.
2007-09-05 22:36:49 · answer #1 · answered by dirtyoldman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off you gave up your virginity to a guy you only knew for a week?? Not a good decision! But I'm sure you know that now, that's why you don't sleep with someone so quick! I would for get him and move on. Tell him you made a mistake and can't be with someone who is married. Then move on and next time make sure you know the person longer than a week! I'm not judging just answering your question. We all make mistakes and just have to live with the decision we made! It's not that bad, he should have been honest and things may have been different!
Good luck
2007-09-05 22:39:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is best to end it with this man. He has a wife and a child & I personally wouldn't want to be responsible for breaking up a marriage even if it was doomed to begin with.
There are other people involved & it would hurt them deeply if they ever found out. Also would you really want to be with a man who is not open & honest with you from the start. Tell him that you will only be interested once his divorce has been finalised & he is living on his own. But please be aware that he probably won't leave his wife for you and is only using you for sex. I know it is hard esp since he was the first man you were with but rather hurt now than hurt even more later. You are not only dealing with your feelings you are playing with 2 other people. Imagine if you were the wife or child!!!
2007-09-05 22:50:42 · answer #3 · answered by withlove 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a jerk and an as#hole to take your virginity knowing that he was married. I wouldn't give him the time of day if I were you. He screwed you big time, and is still trying to ruin your life. He doesn't give a darn about you, or he would have been more concerned about you losing your virginity to him. Get rid of him, and find a man that will love and respect you. You deserve better than a cheating jerk like that. If he will cheat on her with you, he will cheat on you with someone else too! He has no moral character.
2007-09-05 22:38:07 · answer #4 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just think that it was a learning experience for you. Since he is a married man cut all that means of communication that connects you. How to forget him? Time will tell... but for now just move on. Just think it was just one of your bad dreams that needless to pay your attention to. Just thankful that you found out earlier about him.
2007-09-06 05:28:21 · answer #5 · answered by gandakoh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So I hope you learned - no sex until married! Then you know about him and know he loves you. Good luck (by the way, you had no relationship - you had some sex)
2007-09-05 23:13:38 · answer #6 · answered by vegasrob89118 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋