Other - Family & Relationships - 23 February 2007

In July I moved out of the house that my bf and I lived in with our 2 kids. We had been together for 7 years. I took the kids with me. He was abusive and cheated on me many times and even got another girl pregnant. He also took my credit cards, spent thousands of dollars and then put them back in my purse and I had no clue until I got the bill. Since I moved out he has refused to pay any of the bills that didn't have his name on them resulting in my credit going to hell. He owes me almost $7,000 and refuses to pay me back. He also refuses to pay any child support even though there is a court order to do so. He claims that he loves me and wants to get back together and he expects me to do things for him all the time like give him a ride to the store since he doesn't have a car. I don't want to have anything to do with him anymore, but my kids love him and want to see him. For their sake I want to be able to get along with him, but he is making it impossible to be civil. Any suggestions?

2007-02-23 07:20:20 · 3 answers · asked by Steph 2

So i just dumped my boyfriend and this other guy just asked me out. I realy want to be go out with him but im still good friends with my ex and i dont want to hurt him. WHat should i do, should i say yes or no?

2007-02-23 07:05:54 · 23 answers · asked by micky 1

i feel guilty bcuz i had 2 boyfriends b4 & i hid it from my mom.i know i know i should have just told her but @ the time i was scared.even tho i think she would have been fine with it.well n e way i feel like i should tell her now but i dont want 2 loose her trust.bcuz we were talking last night & she said one of the worst feelings i when ur child hides something from u & u have 2 hear it from some1 else.but the thing is i havent had a bf 4 a year now.see now im really trying hard not to have a boyfriend til im lil bit older bcuz boyfriends are usually drama.if i tell her now she will be heartbroken i didnt tell her that a yr ago.& i dont want 2 keep hiding it from her cuz i have a feeling she will find out by some1 else.....HELP PLEASE

2007-02-23 07:03:04 · 5 answers · asked by hayley s 1

If you are looked up and down by a bloke does it mean he fancies you or something else?

2007-02-23 07:00:57 · 24 answers · asked by Wim 2

i can't believe how hurt i feel over this guy i work with. he had spent so much time flirting with me, calling me up at night, etc. i really thought he was interested. I thought he was shy so i told him i would go do something fun with him if he wanted. The next day, the phone calls stopped. He started behaving erratically towards me, sometimes very friendly, sometimes cold, sometimes taking photos of me w/his phone sometimes sending sexual jokes. It's at the point where this has all really hurt me and I'm trying to move on. But i feel awful. I feel like a loser nobody will ever be interested in, someone who people only play games with. I don't even want to be friendly towards him bc it hurts me but he sits right next to me. How am I going to get over this? I am really in pain over it all. Please please say something that might help. I am 36 female, never had a steady boyfriend but people say i am attractive but intimidating. I feel like a freak for never having had a boyfriend.

2007-02-23 07:00:52 · 15 answers · asked by Jebbie 7

This is my first question on here, and it's probably a stupid one. I figure I ought to tell you about strange relationships in my life if you're going to be telling me about yours. My parents aren't married, weren't married, my mum lives here (London), my dad in NYC, and they're feelings for each other are so complicated, even I don't understand. They're in love, but at the same time, they aren't. My roommate just recently got full custody of his son who's mother, his ex-fiancee, didn't ever want kids. (Is that considered abandonment, even if he's still with one parent?) Plus, everyone in the neighbourhood thinks I'm married to him.

2007-02-23 06:42:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have just got a boyfriend and i don't know how to kiss (tounges)
can you help

2007-02-23 06:31:03 · 10 answers · asked by Claireee Bee && Lauren Aee 1

i'm completely atracted to my History teacher.Is not like I'm in love with him, but I keep having dreams and fantasies about him all the time!I In class, he looks at me more than at the other girls, and when me my friends are at the school cafeteria or library, or anywhere outside the classroom, and he sees any of my male friends touching my hair, or hugging me, he keeps looking with a ...I don't know...a weird look on his face. also, I'm the only girl in class that he don't use to chat...like friends, even when he's talking with the girl beside be, he only looks at me with the corner of his eye, almost like if he didn't want me to notice. A friend of mine told me that he already kissed a few girls from the senior year, and when the school takes the students in a field trip, he gets a little more "close" to the girls. This is the first year that I'm having classes with him.Should I show him(discreetly) that I'm interest, or leave it the way it is?

ps: I'm 15, a junior.

2007-02-23 06:27:40 · 34 answers · asked by br15 1

2007-02-23 06:18:05 · 20 answers · asked by bpgveg14 5

What i don't understand is that men think that when you argue. They always say they want to leave you, nomatter how small the arguement is. Is because they want to make a excue to leave or is it they want the first ticket out to cheat?

2007-02-23 06:04:09 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I feel sometimes my husband is using this to make me sleep? maybe he is fedup from me talking?!!

2007-02-23 06:02:43 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

have this guy..who flirts with me but he never really made an actual move,. so he told me that he finds me to be very attractive and to call him if I ever wanted to hang out or go to a movie.. but he's always questioning me about how come I'm always leaving when he comes and talk to me... so I thoughtwell he told me to call him if i ever wanted to hang out..so I made the first move and asked him to hang out.He told me that he would like to but it would have to be in a couple of weeks because he is broke....so I called him yesterday..and told him i was going to starbucks and if he wasn't busy after work, he could join me he told me that starbucks sounds good, however today wouldn't be too good since he's busy, and that we would have to meet up sometime next week..then I asked him if he wasn't interested would he tell me?

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He replied that "if I wanna meet up with him that's cool" "But I can't say that I'm intrested in it be an ongoing thing"....and i thought to myself hmm..okay..I mean I wasn't trying to make you my man or anything.. and then I thought well you were the one that invited me out first, he invited me to workout with him, and to church..so I'm a litle confused..

2007-02-23 05:43:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

How does one live a normal life with an aggressively alpha woman? How would kids see an alpha mother?

2007-02-23 05:41:42 · 5 answers · asked by Marke Me 2

How can you tell if your husband is cheating & what are some good ways to catch him in the act?

2007-02-23 05:41:01 · 14 answers · asked by lili 2

2007-02-23 05:39:10 · 8 answers · asked by Julia E 3

2007-02-23 05:20:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've always been paranoid about someone being in my house while I'm by myself. I'm terrified of what could happen, if someone could break in and I'd be in shock and wouldn't move. I have a deadbolt and lock on every door, but I'm afraid it's not enough. Also, what if they break in through the windows? Is there any way I can get over my fear and what are some good ideas to make things around my house feel safer to me?

2007-02-23 05:08:23 · 8 answers · asked by gally 1

This is what happend on Tuesday i was caught by cheating by using the answer key on the math test in my math class, now i have been trying to tell my teacher that i need some easy problems to figure out however, my other teacher knows about it all! How can she not lecture me because i know in my other class she is mad at me for cheating. How can i make sure that she does not throw any kind of trash at me? How can my math teacher and i get along?

2007-02-23 05:01:24 · 7 answers · asked by Sewer Tank 1

today, i went on myspace and i added my friend, who is also friends with my brother, i found my brothers profile and i saw pictures of him with bongs and in 2 he was "tripped out" what does tripped out mean and does this mean hes doing drugs...i can't turn him in i love him even though i wont admit it and i don't want him to get kicked out of the house.... what do i do and is he doing it? and what the hell does "tripping out" mean??

2007-02-23 05:01:19 · 4 answers · asked by Melly. 3

I have been very confused and now I am thinking rationaly. Me and my sister have been in a relationship in the same home. Both parents do not have a clue! She is pregnant and refuses to abort the pregnancy. She wants us to be a family. I am trying to explain to her what we have done is wrong and not rite. She wants nothing to do with what i say other than she loves me, wants to marry me, and wants us to be a family. I am so embarased, my family is going to be realy mad. What do I do? I am so scared!

2007-02-23 04:57:35 · 12 answers · asked by carlos f 1

i was with my guy for 7 years..i was in it for life pretty much..i was always there for him through so much..more than anyone would have to go through and yet i stayed by his side....i thought he really loved me..even all my friends would say things like wow hes going to marry you..and then out of the blue behind my back he started seeing someone else and once things started working out for them he dumped me...that was a couple months ago and now their in love and happy and the whole works...i did so much for him and im the one left in the dark....hes making this new girl so happy...where is karma..does it even exist?

2007-02-23 04:37:27 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

They are always trying to make me feel bad about it.What can I do to get them off my back?

2007-02-23 04:36:03 · 16 answers · asked by FLORIDA 4

2007-02-23 04:24:55 · 12 answers · asked by hotjuicygal4u 1

2007-02-23 04:22:19 · 4 answers · asked by hotjuicygal4u 1

i have been with this man for 9 years and have recognized he is abusive, loud and has double standards. How do I get rid of him? We have two little girls together and he is displaying the actions of a man I don't want my girls around.

2007-02-23 04:22:02 · 2 answers · asked by Lauren W 1

I have a child that is 12, and is a very bright kid (high honors), but spends hour after hour after hour doing homework. She is not actually doing her homework, but is distracted by every little thing. The upsetting thing to me is that she does not have a problem with the work, just focusing on getting it done. It has also seriously cut into her personal time. Any suggestions or similar experiences?

2007-02-23 04:20:30 · 11 answers · asked by mark 7

guys if i brought a guy home to my parnets and he was a porn star what do you think my dad and mom would say if i told them!!!!!!!!

2007-02-23 04:13:49 · 1 answers · asked by monkeylove 1

Parents, do you ever hit your children, and under what circumstances?

2007-02-23 04:09:38 · 18 answers · asked by mark 7

I love her so much, we been dating for 1 year already. We gotten really serious, she wanted to move in with me, so I did let her, ever since she moved in with me, my passion for her had decreased but I still love her though. She shown her true side while living with me. She started to get really annoying while living with me. She never been this annoying before we lived together. This has been going on for 2 months already. I am not sure if I will plan to marry her anymore, I planned to marry her before she moved in with me though. Any clues on how can I get back my passion?

2007-02-23 03:49:11 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Thier bedroom is right above ours and their squeaky bed springs are loud enough to wake us up (almost every night) and keep us awake until they are finished!! I have never met these people and I am afraid of how they may react. Could I stick an anonymous note on their door and hope they are embarassed enough to try and fix the problem?

2007-02-23 03:45:44 · 39 answers · asked by curious_me 1