i feel guilty bcuz i had 2 boyfriends b4 & i hid it from my mom.i know i know i should have just told her but @ the time i was scared.even tho i think she would have been fine with it.well n e way i feel like i should tell her now but i dont want 2 loose her trust.bcuz we were talking last night & she said one of the worst feelings i when ur child hides something from u & u have 2 hear it from some1 else.but the thing is i havent had a bf 4 a year now.see now im really trying hard not to have a boyfriend til im lil bit older bcuz boyfriends are usually drama.if i tell her now she will be heartbroken i didnt tell her that a yr ago.& i dont want 2 keep hiding it from her cuz i have a feeling she will find out by some1 else.....HELP PLEASE
2007-02-23 07:03:04 · 5 answers · asked by hayley s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well, if you want to do the right thing I think you should tell here exactly what you are writing over here. Just be honest with her, tell her you don't like to hide things from her but you were scare before, but you were thinking about the conversation you had with her and she's right, tell her you fell bad. I think she will understand you, if she gets mad it will be only for a little bit.
2007-02-23 07:13:43 · answer #1 · answered by tabylu 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think the best thing you could do is tell her. If you're scared of losing her trust realize what will happen when she hears it from someone else first (and she will). Every choice has consequences. You chose to hide it from her now you have to own up to the consequences of telling her. I think it may be hard at first but over time this can help to bring you both closer and wilil even increase your trust by increasing the openness in your relationship with your mom.
2007-02-23 15:08:14 · answer #2 · answered by yoyomama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The way she phrased her comment about how hard it is to hear it from someone else, makes me think she already knows, and is trying to give you the opportunity to fess up. That's classic, and I do it with my kids all the time.
Talk to her. She will respect that you're coming to her with the information, and it shouldn't be a big deal to her, since it sounds like you're on the right path now.
Good luck...and remember honesty is the best policy!
2007-02-23 15:07:31 · answer #3 · answered by salemgirl1972 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You could say, you know when I was younger I had crushes on a few boys, Nothing serious, just friends, you know what I mean, and now I feel, I just want to concentrate on getting my life together, and concentrate on school, so I can make you proud of me!
2007-02-23 15:09:01 · answer #4 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the bfs is in your past noone will find don't hurt your mom like that.
2007-02-23 15:07:46 · answer #5 · answered by Loco 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋