i'm completely atracted to my History teacher.Is not like I'm in love with him, but I keep having dreams and fantasies about him all the time!I In class, he looks at me more than at the other girls, and when me my friends are at the school cafeteria or library, or anywhere outside the classroom, and he sees any of my male friends touching my hair, or hugging me, he keeps looking with a ...I don't know...a weird look on his face. also, I'm the only girl in class that he don't use to chat...like friends, even when he's talking with the girl beside be, he only looks at me with the corner of his eye, almost like if he didn't want me to notice. A friend of mine told me that he already kissed a few girls from the senior year, and when the school takes the students in a field trip, he gets a little more "close" to the girls. This is the first year that I'm having classes with him.Should I show him(discreetly) that I'm interest, or leave it the way it is?
ps: I'm 15, a junior.
2007-02-23 06:27:40 · 34 answers · asked by br15 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
First understand that a fantasy of this type is very natural, but keep it in mind that it is just a fantasy, kind of like make believe. I had a crush on a music teacher when I was around your age and used to imagine and conjure up all kinds of thoughts. I think that sometimes a fantasy is the beginning for us to understand what we may like in a person when we become older and wiser. Enjoy the moment of your fantasy, but remember that is all that is is. It would be disrespectful to your Teacher and embarrassing to you if you let him know that you are interested.
2007-02-23 06:39:44 · answer #1 · answered by myleshunt 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
whilst you're too shy to kiss him your self, follow those steps and he would be kissing you very rapidly: a million. Wait till the main suitable 2d. you will comprehend it whilst it occurs. right it fairly is a splash: you would be close to to one yet another, you would be looking into one yet another's eyes, and no person else would be around. 2. Make that 2d take place. Your date spot could be at a bowling alley or a college dance, yet you will no longer get your kiss till ultimately the stroll domicile - or till you surreptitiously drag him into the motor vehicle parking zone. 3. Awkward silences are your chum. anticipate a ruin in the communication, then look up at him and smile softly. he gets the hint. 4. If all else fails, discover an excuse to the touch him. If it fairly is chilly, ask to hold his hand. If he's have been given a fuzzy concern in his hair, take it out for him. (If there is not any fuzzy concern, pretend there is.) Coming mutually bodily will make the transition to a kiss much extra organic. 5. do no longer in simple terms stand there observing him like a weirdo. there is not any rule that asserts you need to anticipate him to kiss you. If the temper is powerful, lean in and kiss him your self.
2016-10-16 08:17:37 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any man over the age of 25 messing with a 15 year old is a pedophile! Sorry, but real men don't find such young girls sexually attractive. He sounds like a creep and you'd do well to steer clear of him.
However, the power position of a teacher is very alluring, I will sympathize with you. I used to have a major crush on my studio art teacher in high school. His hands throwing a piece of pottery on the wheel would entrance me and he would ask me a question, and I would be like "huh?! what?" hahhaaa...he thought it was cute and flattering, but never once over-stepped that boundary of teacher/student.
2007-02-23 07:09:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Go for it. Give him a big wet sloppy snog.
No, seriously. Don't.
Okay, love. This is how it goes. I had a crush on a teacher back when I was in school (I'm 22), but it didn't evolve into anything. It's probably just your hormones. I used to swear my teacher was completely in love with me too, but, what it sounds like is maybe he wants to protect you, like a father, which is why he looks at you weird when you're with your male friends.
Or maybe he's thinking, "I want to shag her so bad!"
Tell me more about your situation via email.
2007-02-23 07:07:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't do it. report it to the principal. My cuz once said bye sexy to one of the teachers and someone heard and my cuz got suspended from school for a week. Plus your teach's a perv. He's suppose to be teaching you not having relationships with the students. If you decide to do it and not follow our advice you're ruining your own life. PLus since he already had a bunch of girls yoour not going to be anything special to him. Just a girl he wants to have fun with. Go find yourself somebody your age and kiss him instaed. Not some crazy teacher
2007-02-23 06:41:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you go and do this it will just end up being trouble for both of you. He could and should go to jail . He should already be in trouble for kissing the other girls, the guy should no longer be in a position of trust where he can prey on little girls.
2007-02-23 06:45:56 · answer #6 · answered by Kristal E 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Do you really want to be just another girl that he kisses? I wouldn't! You want to be careful with a guy like that. If he likes you he will let you know. He is a teacher and you and him can both get in trouble for that
2007-02-23 07:20:45 · answer #7 · answered by modelingal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay that is creapy and he should be reported!
it is in some sick way it's a fantasy that im sure we all have had. but you are 15 and he is probably considerably older. you should find a HOT guy you own AGE to day dream about not your history teacher and he should stop hooking up with high schoolers!
2007-02-23 06:38:33 · answer #8 · answered by meenie_is_sweet 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No honey don't kiss him, report him. He is a pervert preying on young children and it can ruin yours and his lives if you per sue these fantasies. As interesting and exciting as it may seem to you right now, you will only regret it in the long run. Not to mention if he doesn't get help he could wind up in prison or ruining his career all together. Talk to your counselor or your parents for both of your sakes.
2007-02-23 06:34:19 · answer #9 · answered by inquisitive 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
sounds like he's a pedophile. He is sick. Someone should go report this guy. Make sure he don't have aids before you do anything. ewww. And to think that he's manipulating the young minds of a 15 years old... wow this guy got a lot going for him. Could any parent imagine a pedophile teaching kids in high school where they expect their kids to be safe? go for it and feed his obession. Just do what u like kiddo, seems like you already made up your mind.
2007-02-23 06:32:51 · answer #10 · answered by Scpwnz 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋