What i don't understand is that men think that when you argue. They always say they want to leave you, nomatter how small the arguement is. Is because they want to make a excue to leave or is it they want the first ticket out to cheat?
2007-02-23 06:04:09 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Some men want power in a relationship, sounds like you are dealing with someone who is young, and have no experience with love. Be patient, and you will find someone who loves you for you, and there will be no need for arguments.
2007-02-23 06:08:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on many things in the relationship, such as do you argue all of the time, how are things when you are not arguing.Do you feel as though he loves you. If you basically have a good relationship then it could be that he does not want to argue. If your relationship is bad in other areas, then yes he may want out of it. You need to take a good look at why you think that he wants to leave or cheat because of an argument, either he gave you a reason to distrust him or you are insecure, only you know what is really going on.
2007-02-23 06:19:08 · answer #2 · answered by myleshunt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are young. That would explain some of his actions. I've been married 25 years and if he or I left or went to cheat with someone else over every little argument we would have never lasted. If a man or woman want to cheat then their relationship means nothing to start with. You need to find another guy. Things that make relationships work are love, being best friends, respect and most of all TRUST. Hope things get better as you mature.
2007-02-23 06:34:09 · answer #3 · answered by Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They usually don't find an excuse just to cheat... The excuse has to be made up quickly after they are caught cheating... It's a cover mechanism...
2007-02-23 07:11:45 · answer #4 · answered by deakjone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a person really likes you and values your relationship they will not leave because of an arguemant. It sounds to me this person is very young and doesn't care about you, or it is thier way to see if you will beg them to stay friends
2007-02-23 06:19:08 · answer #5 · answered by leonardhomes@sbcglobal.net 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women do the same exact thing
2007-02-23 06:14:17 · answer #6 · answered by Mike 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋