So i just dumped my boyfriend and this other guy just asked me out. I realy want to be go out with him but im still good friends with my ex and i dont want to hurt him. WHat should i do, should i say yes or no?
2007-02-23 07:05:54 · 23 answers · asked by micky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yes, give it a try and be careful and take it slow. ♥♥♥
2007-02-23 07:08:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you answered your own question when you said... I really want to go out with him. So go out with him. Have a good time. Yor deserve some fun. It is only a date. It does not put you at the same level of committment yet that you felt for your old boyfriend. You mentioned that he is still a good friend. That is nice. You can not have too many friends in this world. A word of advice, though.... remember not to talk about the ex-boyfriend to the new boyfriend. It is very rude, and really not a good idea at all. Go have some fun.
2007-02-23 15:12:27 · answer #2 · answered by Janice W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are single. Say yes! If your ex is hurt then he needs to move on. Sometimes in life you have to be selfish and if this is one of those times then so be it. Do you really want to live with the "what if" question? I wouldn't. Date the guy and who know's what will happen. Just make sure you aren't rebounding with him though.
2007-02-23 15:09:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2007-02-23 15:08:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you wanting to go out with him to make your ex jealous or is it a rebound issue? Check your motives before getting involved too quickly. It would hurt your ex but he would get over it. Let your heart be ready before moving on if its a relationship you are looking for. If it is just a casual date as a friend then yes i would go out just to have some companship But long term you are not ready...
2007-02-23 15:12:06 · answer #5 · answered by Chris 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should say yes.. I mean discuss it with your ex but u broke up with him for a reason you should not pass up an opportunity with a guy you want to go out with
2007-02-23 15:08:58 · answer #6 · answered by scytherbug@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tough one, because it WILL hurt your boyfriend to be dumped and then see his ex go out with some other bloke the "next day".
Think about it...
2007-02-23 15:10:27 · answer #7 · answered by arrow h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, if your just looking for friendship. But your ex and the new guy are Friends then no.
2007-02-23 15:10:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Listen you just got rid of that guy so you should go out with that other guy because your heart is telling you to! (besides if your ex is a true friend he will understand)
2007-02-23 15:09:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long ago did you dump him? If it's only been a few weeks, I'd say you should wait if you really want to stay friends with him. If you don't, go for it.
2007-02-23 15:15:35 · answer #10 · answered by Not Allie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you just "dumped" somebody, you shouldn't be going out with anybody.
You're supposed to allow some recovery time, or else the NEXT guy you go out with won't get a fair shake.
Won't kill ya to sit one out.
2007-02-23 15:09:34 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋