I have been very confused and now I am thinking rationaly. Me and my sister have been in a relationship in the same home. Both parents do not have a clue! She is pregnant and refuses to abort the pregnancy. She wants us to be a family. I am trying to explain to her what we have done is wrong and not rite. She wants nothing to do with what i say other than she loves me, wants to marry me, and wants us to be a family. I am so embarased, my family is going to be realy mad. What do I do? I am so scared!
2007-02-23 04:57:35 · 12 answers · asked by carlos f 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Oh now you're thinking rationally. NICE.
Sweetheart, you made your bed, now you have to lay in it.
2007-02-23 05:07:28 · answer #1 · answered by hehehe 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Well it is good that you are thinking rationally now and that you realise you have done something wrong. There's no point going on about how it's not right to hav slept wit ur sis, etc because now the worst is done. You have a prob and u have to deal with it. You could let her keep the baby (which she seems intent on doing) but it is almost for sure it will come out with defective genes because of how close you two are genetically. Let her know that and that you could never marry because of the family relations. It is illegal. Explain that you already are family, but it wouldnt be fair on her or the baby if she kept it. Make it clear that you will always be in her life anyways as her brother. Talk to her, give her some time.
2007-02-23 05:40:28 · answer #2 · answered by Lily 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, what you and your sister have done is wrong, immoral and in many states illegal. Unfortunately it is not that rare.
Aside from religious and societal mores against incest, it can also produce children with disabilities due to the infusion of like genes into the fetus which increases the chances of defective genes becoming dominant.
You need to sit down and bite the bullet and tell your parents...then you need to move out - go live with a relative or family close friend and create distance between you and your sister.
BOTH of you belong in counseling as does your entire family because something in the home helped create this unfortunate situation.
2007-02-23 05:12:44 · answer #3 · answered by sage seeker 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You said ..."Both parents don't have a clue". Is she your step- sister? Anyways step-sister or not its still wrong. You need to come clean with you family and by the way an abortion won't make things better.
2007-02-23 05:47:32 · answer #4 · answered by maggie209 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What you have done is called incest, you both need to come clean and tell your parents. Your sister should have the baby and put it up for adoption. You both need to go to counseling and go to confession and be free of your sins. I don't know how old you and your sister are, but if you are of age, one of you needs to move out to avoid this temptation.
I hope you do the right thing. If you're being honest (maybe you are, maybe you're not) then you're obviously crying for help. I hope everything works out for you. Good luck.
2007-02-23 05:06:55 · answer #5 · answered by KOI 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Is this question legit? First off, if you knew it was wrong why do it? Second, do either of you have any idea what you could have done to this unborn child?????? OMG WTF is wrong with people? You should be embarressed and ashamed that either of you would do someting as morally wrong as this. That poor child, even if she decides to keep it I hope social services steps in because if you two are that bad at making responsible decisions, neither of you should have the option of ruining that child life.
2007-02-23 05:12:24 · answer #6 · answered by vanillashimmer21 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
What were you thinking?!?!?! You have no choice but to tell then i REALLY recommend getting some professional help.
2007-02-23 05:14:53 · answer #7 · answered by glazer_098 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Thanks I just lost my appetite make her watch a few episodes of Jerry Springer or better yet go on the show or move south where everyone is inbred
2007-02-23 05:02:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
first is she your blood relative or did she become your sis by marrige? you should tell your folks, it may be hard but it is the right thing to do then they can help your sis
2007-02-23 05:16:53 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ur sick if thats not enough shes wrong too but shes not making another wrong by abortion ur sick and ur sicker wrong once again another sin another wrong u need help dont pressurise her to have abortion come clean with ur family
2007-02-23 05:02:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋