Other - Family & Relationships - 20 February 2007

my friend has been charged with attempted rape, she woke up only to find a policeman & woman knocking on her door!!! apparently, her ex boyfriend whom she was with that actual night has gone to the police and told them that he woke up covered in semen, and has accused her!! she says she didnt touch him can women rape men??? i have my views and im sure many of you will....

2007-02-20 06:51:39 · 4 answers · asked by welshlad2303 2

from my partner who I live with. When I ask him if he still loves me he wouldn't answer me directly, Instead said he doesn't feel affectionate towards me. He has been like this for nearly 2 months, yet there have been times he talks about us, and starts to initiate plans. He wants to feel in control in his own house. I told him I am going crazy not knowing where I stand. He says he will let me know as soon as because he is not feeling too good about the situation! We are both in our forties and acting like twenty year olds I know!
I have a good job nearby ,as I did upsticks to be with him. I don't want to go back to my house as I have let it out, and yet I'm upset .
He says and I know that I have always got my own way with him, and now he is taking charge of himself. We have quarrelled so much, but not recently. He has now booked a week in Moscow with some friends in June. He poured his heart to them. I am not invited. We still go out together..So what do I do now?

2007-02-20 06:44:05 · 19 answers · asked by Sani 2

Eh Yo, i'm in this problem man. I be askin' all my dudes what i should do about this sitution. Im dating this girl right now and she is hellafine. but she dun't know i got this girl on the side. don't hate on me, yall know yall boyfriends and dudes got a sidechick. anywayz, the girl i be creepin' with got knocked up by me! She don't know what to do, keep it or abort it. i told her that if she has it im not going to be there for her since im 19 and i gots my own life to live. i dunt even like this girl, she just a hoodrat i picked up at a club when i was bored. If she got the abortion done, i told her i be glad to pay for half of it since im partly to blame. i think the decision to get the abortion rests on me. truth be told, i dunt even think its mine, ya know? because i'm just prolly one dude out of many she be creepin roud with. what do yall think? should i force her to abort or not?

2007-02-20 06:43:32 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-20 06:39:04 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend's ex is accusing him of being the father of her now 2 week old son. He tells me that the time SHE SAYS she concieved he wasn't with her and I believe him. He says he wasn't "with" her for a full 2 weeks before the conception date because they broke up. However, just in case it is his he went and paid for a paternity test, set up the date, and even offered to give her a ride to the place to get the test done and she keeps coming up with excuses not to go. He even rescheduled the first appointment for her because she said she wanted her mom to go with her and her mom had to work and then when the 2nd appt. rolled around she wasn't feeling well enough to go. She told everybody and put him down for the whole nine months & now that he's offering her a test to prove it (which she can use against him to sue for child support in court) she seems to be trying to avoid it. Also, she's told him that he's not allowed to be around the baby.

2007-02-20 06:38:12 · 6 answers · asked by Babygirl 1

what would you pick?

2007-02-20 06:33:04 · 6 answers · asked by elfkin, attention whore 4

I was dating this guy from Florida for 5 months. I live on Ohio. He's 18, I'm 16. He was always sending me clothes and gifts. So he came down to visit me, and I figured it was time to introduce him to my best friend, and had been for 3 years. So I introduced them, and everything was perfect. Well, then he went back to Florida, and we still talked all the time. A week later, my friend was on her Myspace, and had messages from my boyfriend. I asked her to open the message up, and they were calling eachother baby, and saying they missed eachother.

So, I broke up with my boyfriend. I asked my best friend what she was doing. She lied by telling me she just wanted to help. I made her delete him, and she did. Then we talked, and she had to go home (It was Sunday). So she went home, and I checked her Myspace, and they had added eachother again! That was December 16, and they are together now. She has Miami clothes, and all kinds of new things. I talk to neither, but that makes me furious!

2007-02-20 06:12:44 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-20 06:12:35 · 5 answers · asked by Clarkie 6

Would you ever go out after work with a married male co-worker and tell his wife that you and her husband are just best buds and nothing is going on between them. Then pick up his beer and share it right in front of his wife. I think this was very disgusting and disrespectful and my husband says no big deal? What do you think?

2007-02-20 06:00:04 · 15 answers · asked by confused one 1

I dont know what to do?? Ever since I have had my son 17 mo ago my sex drive has gone to zero. My sons father is complaining and I want to keep him happy but I just dont have the drive anymore. Before I had my son my sex drive was very high and I know he misses this and I do to but I just dont know what to do. Please help!!

2007-02-20 05:57:34 · 16 answers · asked by oneluv804 2

My sister is coming on to me and my bro.

Me and my older bro rent this place near london coz we've always been best mates.

Just to fill in the picture I'm late twenties, my bro is early thirties. Our sis is nineteen, and it's not like she's a full sib - dad remarried.

Its really near her uni, so coz she's a laugh, she's a nice attractive lass and we all get on well it was suggested that instead of gettin rubbish digs she move in here, which was of course great.

Since moving in shes been flirting a lot, talking about her sex life, wearin not a lot around the house, and this weekend she couldn't keep her hands off our six packs which as you can imagine was obviously arousing.

Me and my bro have talked about the situation and neither of us think she's attention seeking but we have slightly different views on how best to respond.

Advice?

2007-02-20 05:52:43 · 5 answers · asked by GymLad 1

i dont call the police ok i hope you understand.

2007-02-20 05:51:51 · 7 answers · asked by spunthefckout 1

2007-02-20 05:48:38 · 47 answers · asked by patsy 3

Is it wrong to think about what could of been??

2007-02-20 05:38:46 · 10 answers · asked by Latin Beauty 2

Whena couple decides to have kids, when should it be too many?

2007-02-20 05:38:12 · 22 answers · asked by Latin Beauty 2

Whena couple decides to have kids, when should it be too many?

2007-02-20 05:38:00 · 8 answers · asked by Latin Beauty 2

If so, Who??

2007-02-20 05:37:03 · 2 answers · asked by Latin Beauty 2

shes 44 yrs old 5 ft 2 in blonde hair blue eyes she was in a bind and had to go to beaverton or colman or midland michigan i need help finding her as i have no more contacts in that area can some body please help me

2007-02-20 05:19:28 · 3 answers · asked by tom goodin 1

She constantly calls the police when she needs to communicate with us. My step son had visitation with his mother on Sunday, he was sick, now yesterday she called the police to do a well check on him. A couple of weeks ago she called the police because we dropped him off 15 minutes early. How can I stop her from calling the police and having them come to my home. It's embarrasing and I feel harrased. Someone please help. This has been going on for 10 years.

2007-02-20 05:17:19 · 5 answers · asked by Jacuzzi Lover 6

He works very hard eveyday toprovide for our family and I just want to do something very nice for him to show him how much we love and appreciate all he does!

2007-02-20 05:17:02 · 5 answers · asked by megan 1

I need to come up with a quick "love you" text to send to my g/f. any suggestions? And please dont say "just say I love you!" hehehe...

2007-02-20 05:15:40 · 4 answers · asked by merkdog99 1

Just curious. (- -,)

2007-02-20 05:08:59 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

my boyfriend of a year and a half is a great guy but has done out of the ordinary things in the past that i cant seem to let go. hes bad with the phone and doesnt always pick up my calls , mine and everyone elses, lets just put it this way hes done suspicious things that i have called him out on and i said it looks really weird and he denies hes ever done anything like that cuz he knew what i was thinking, and when i ask him why he did it he has an explanation. then when he speaks i truly believe him and that hes being sincere. i would never be with someone who cheated on me ever. he knows how it feels his ex gf did it to him and we always made a promise since i first met him to break up first beffore anything happens. how do i just let go of the past and continue with our future. btw, hes a very sweet caring guy so nice and sweet that i think he could NEVER ever do tha to to me. he tells me im his dream girl and i know he loves me. how do i stop being paranoid. i really need advic

2007-02-20 05:03:03 · 4 answers · asked by nygirlsrdifferent 1

2007-02-20 05:01:15 · 7 answers · asked by Akane 2

Okay...i will start here! My ex which I have two kids from, is having problems with his new marriage. Mind you i didn't marry him he's what we call now...My BabysDaddy...
Well we still talk as friend...YES as friend. I try time after time to give him advise. I am starting to wonder why he keeps on treating his wife the way he does. I mean...i guess she cheated and he's now throwing it in her face. I mean don't get me wrong, i don't think that she should have been forgiven because that meant that he wasn't good enough for her. But if he likes it i love it....(old saying) But my question here is should he just keep getting rejected from her or should he just move on? I mean i have sat up thinking about it. They have been married for over 2 years and he says that he has been rejected from her ever since. I told him he can't change her from not giving him affection but he should have told her from the beginning that he needed this attention. Don't you agree?

2007-02-20 04:57:03 · 5 answers · asked by ♥Miss Self-Sufficient 5

or a work colleague, to get pregnant deliberately, but was happy for her to take sole responsibility of the child would you stay out of the situation? Would you be angry at this woman - even if it was her last chance of conceiving?

2007-02-20 04:47:29 · 22 answers · asked by Gillian 1

My girlfriend and I broke up a few weeks ago. We were friends first and decided because of that we would remain friends. she was really animate that she wanted to stay friends with me. (she had multiple brain surgeries and I was there to help her through her depression.) The day after we broke up she called me and asked me to hang out. I declined because i already had plans. We made plans for the weekend and she cancelled them on me... twice. We finally hung out about two weeks ago and i felt fine ( i didnt think i would.) She told me that she "felt weird." I told her i didnt and that it could have just been because it was the first time hanging out. We made plans for yesterday and i told her to call me. She said she would.
She has not called (which is not normal for her, she usually is good with calling people back etc.) She keeps giving me these mixed signals.. one minute she wants to be friends, one minute she completly ignores me. (please read addintional info)

2007-02-20 04:42:36 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-20 04:37:16 · 6 answers · asked by tiemetight814 2

or a paper round if so and you have some hilarious moments about it please tell

2007-02-20 04:25:21 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

what does " one night stand "means.. i really dont know....pls help me.. im not kiddin.... i heard that in t.v///

2007-02-20 04:19:28 · 16 answers · asked by alisha 2