or a work colleague, to get pregnant deliberately, but was happy for her to take sole responsibility of the child would you stay out of the situation? Would you be angry at this woman - even if it was her last chance of conceiving?
2007-02-20 04:47:29 · 22 answers · asked by Gillian 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
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2007-02-20 05:01:21 · update #1
No I would not stay out of the situation; Yes I'd be somewhat angry despite it possibly being her last chance. Who wants their child conceived from a deceptive act?
If conceiving was her main goal, she could have went to a sperm bank or another fella. (Easily leaving me out of it.)
If she was in love with me (very possible : ) that would be a different story -- love makes people do crazy things.
2007-02-20 05:01:35 · answer #1 · answered by truthyness 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
the question is this: if it would be her last chance of conceiving and she doesn't want a father for her child than why tell the colleague? it would only cause problems for both the mom and the colleague as the colleague would be probably angry and, although there are not too many heroes left, would try to be there for the child... when needed. and as the mother doesn't want that then the arguments start. so... why tell... right?
2007-02-27 19:00:03 · answer #2 · answered by booghynson 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would show her consideration.. and admire her desperation and will to risk a frienship for a child... a womens dream a child.. you should be thrilled and very flattered that she wanted you to be the father.. and that you were chosen.. not angry..
I would show her some consideration and explain that you were hurt with the sneakiness and you would have preferred if she was a little more honest about it... But you want to support it...
Either way you slept with her willingly.. and you are the father to a child..you took the risk of an accident..
Support your friend like you would do any other time... and sew the seeds of someones new life..you might think your not ready but everything happens to ytou for a reason..
Good look daddy...he!
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2007-02-27 22:39:25 · answer #3 · answered by neeneeuno 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Havent read your other answers - but are you asking cos you are thinking of doing this to some guy you know? Not really a good idea in my opinion - would be better to go to a sperm bank. Obviously guys should take responsibility and not be having unprotected sex if they dont want children, but i suppose they might trust someone was on the Pill if they said they were and then be totally horrified to find out they were pregnant.Too many implications to go into here, but i think most men would be angry to be tricked. Wouldnt you be - if it was the other way round???
2007-02-20 05:26:08 · answer #4 · answered by Caroline 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i would be pretty pissed off,,the end of the day there is no such thing as sole responsibility any more because you get that many people looking for you for mony,,e.g child support.and besides that dont you feel the child deserves both a mother and a father after all the baby didnt ask to be brought into this world..
2007-02-20 22:25:27 · answer #5 · answered by topeefree 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a good question Tamsin. I think I would be angry initially, but when the child was born I would probably be very pleased, especially if it was a boy ( I have got two daughters) . It must happen though.Women can be sneaky at times. lol.
2007-02-20 05:00:24 · answer #6 · answered by iain xx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it wouldn't matter what reason she gives, that is an evil act! I pity the poor man this was done to, and hope for the child's sake that he sues for custody and raises the poor kid himself. Nobody so selfish as that woman should be allowed to have kids, she obviously doesn't have her children's interests at heart, or any consideration of the father! not to mention no moral fiber! If you know someone who did this, you should call child social services and have them intervene!
2007-02-20 07:56:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think they would be a true friend if they were prepared to use you but if you could both talk about it, you may find that this may be something that you can cope with, but my question to you is, what about the rights that the child may have to have two parents and what role would you really want in the future?
2007-02-26 09:43:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a pretty low trick for a chick to pull...but any guy who chooses to have casual sex without a condom is choosing to take the risk....it doesn't make her action (deliberate) right though.
2007-02-20 04:56:11 · answer #9 · answered by . 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I would prefer if she'd discussed it first before consenting to sex
As honesty is everything ,other than that yes I'd be upset and felt cheated.
2007-02-20 06:24:34 · answer #10 · answered by Zenlife07 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋