My girlfriend and I broke up a few weeks ago. We were friends first and decided because of that we would remain friends. she was really animate that she wanted to stay friends with me. (she had multiple brain surgeries and I was there to help her through her depression.) The day after we broke up she called me and asked me to hang out. I declined because i already had plans. We made plans for the weekend and she cancelled them on me... twice. We finally hung out about two weeks ago and i felt fine ( i didnt think i would.) She told me that she "felt weird." I told her i didnt and that it could have just been because it was the first time hanging out. We made plans for yesterday and i told her to call me. She said she would.
She has not called (which is not normal for her, she usually is good with calling people back etc.) She keeps giving me these mixed signals.. one minute she wants to be friends, one minute she completly ignores me. (please read addintional info)
2007-02-20 04:42:36 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
This is really frustrating... one minute she wants to be friends, the next minute she ignores me. She is the one who broke up with me because she "didnt feel a spark." Friendship is a two way street, and i do not feel like playing games. What should i do please help.
2007-02-20 04:43:54 · update #1
well dear u have answered your question yourself......she is i think just playing with you....or she is mentally sick she dont know what she is doing why she is doing........she in a state of confusion one minute she wants you next minute she dont....talk to her and find out what does she want from u.......because its hurting you........
2007-02-20 04:50:00 · answer #1 · answered by mahek 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if you feel this way you should just let it go. She will be just fine and beleive me if you are a good guy she will really miss you and hate that she broke it off in the first place... Good luck...........
2007-02-20 12:54:52 · answer #2 · answered by huddlestony 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok
ONE. shes isnt ur gf... WHO cares blow her off... she isnt too amazing that u need to worry this much about her.. if SHE was then ud prolly be her bf... right?
TWO. cut her off for liek a week dont call her, see if she calls its not a game.. its an experiment.
hope it goes good...
2007-02-20 12:48:55 · answer #3 · answered by LIL JAY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I do not think she is playing games it just may be that she is a little confused. Be patient with her.
2007-02-20 12:47:54 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no such thing as "friends after". it's only going to cause you more anxiety.
2007-02-20 12:49:33 · answer #5 · answered by iron chef bryan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋