My sister is coming on to me and my bro.
Me and my older bro rent this place near london coz we've always been best mates.
Just to fill in the picture I'm late twenties, my bro is early thirties. Our sis is nineteen, and it's not like she's a full sib - dad remarried.
Its really near her uni, so coz she's a laugh, she's a nice attractive lass and we all get on well it was suggested that instead of gettin rubbish digs she move in here, which was of course great.
Since moving in shes been flirting a lot, talking about her sex life, wearin not a lot around the house, and this weekend she couldn't keep her hands off our six packs which as you can imagine was obviously arousing.
Me and my bro have talked about the situation and neither of us think she's attention seeking but we have slightly different views on how best to respond.
Advice?
2007-02-20 05:52:43 · 5 answers · asked by GymLad 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you think it will have large psychological ramifications on others you care about then you may want to forego the mating. However, if your only concern is the social mores of having a sibling sexual encounter, then you shouldn't worry overmuch.
Sex is just sex. And between sibs of extended parents it is more common than you may think. Social mores aside, if all of you are consenting adults above legal age, then I say go for it.
However, don't forget the importance of birth control, especially in this situation. THAT would certainly complicate the matter beyond its worth.
2007-02-20 06:51:26 · answer #1 · answered by Avatar 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
All you that answered to 'do it'are perverts. Obviously you guy's intuition is telling you that something isn't right. So what if you're not blood relatives. There is a line that you will be crossing and you will most likely regret it for the rest of your lives. One night of 'taboo sex' is not worth the peace of mind you won't have. You both need to discuss what you will tell her and both do it at the same time when she has her clothes on. Nicely tell her that you both feel very uncomfortable when she dresses in skimpy clothes.It isn't what you expect from a SISTER,( and although it was 'in fun' to feel your six-pack, make sure it's not for long).As far as her stories about her sex life, just say you don't want to hear it, she'll get the point.(even tho' you do)
She might not know that she is playing with fire, and might cause something that will totally ruin her life. It's up to you guys, being 'older' that you take the steps to make her quit. Tell her even though you are 'step' doesn't make it right.Psychologically you will never get over it. Just think, the family get-togethers, the 'secrets' of the family.....yuck.Anyway, one day she may blame you guys and say 'YOU should have known better, I was so young!"
2007-02-20 14:21:45 · answer #2 · answered by La Cicada 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Um, stay away from her. That's kinda creepy... She might be lonely or confused. Maybe she just wants a boyfriend...but if she does something like that again, go to your mom or dad or aunt or uncle. That should help you.
2007-02-20 14:02:18 · answer #3 · answered by youarenotyuna 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You still have the same father so it would be incest ....
2007-02-20 14:45:52 · answer #4 · answered by Lost in Merryland 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if ur only steps go ahead if you like her!
2007-02-20 14:03:01 · answer #5 · answered by ?Huh? 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋