I was dating this guy from Florida for 5 months. I live on Ohio. He's 18, I'm 16. He was always sending me clothes and gifts. So he came down to visit me, and I figured it was time to introduce him to my best friend, and had been for 3 years. So I introduced them, and everything was perfect. Well, then he went back to Florida, and we still talked all the time. A week later, my friend was on her Myspace, and had messages from my boyfriend. I asked her to open the message up, and they were calling eachother baby, and saying they missed eachother.
So, I broke up with my boyfriend. I asked my best friend what she was doing. She lied by telling me she just wanted to help. I made her delete him, and she did. Then we talked, and she had to go home (It was Sunday). So she went home, and I checked her Myspace, and they had added eachother again! That was December 16, and they are together now. She has Miami clothes, and all kinds of new things. I talk to neither, but that makes me furious!
2007-02-20 06:12:44 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
wow. Your friend is not your friend, and he was never your man. It sucks that life is that cruel but both of them will get theirs. The best can do is not be Friends with any of them and move on-grown up and find you a man that is not like this jerk. You're young. You got plenty of time to find you a good man. Don't cry no tears over losing him as a boyfriend or her as a friend-cause they were lousy examples as both and in actuality-it's good you found out how they both are-you gained knowledge of the truth and now you can find people who are NOT like THEY are. They deserve each other, because if both of them could be so conniving to back stab you, then they will cheat on each other anyway and wind up apart. Y'all all young so you all got time to learn and grow up.
2007-02-20 06:20:37 · answer #1 · answered by marquella_la_nice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you wanna do anything else than let them have each other and wish them both luck on their relationship doomed to insecurities and trust issues. If they were so dishonest loyal and careless for a previous girlfriend/best friend what makes you think it would be different if not worse! It really worked out to your benefit,you should know now what not to put up with! There are so many better people willing to love and respect so keep your head up!
2007-02-20 06:21:36 · answer #2 · answered by yessca333 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually you are lucky you found out so quickly. And you probably already realize that neither of them are worth your time. Seek other friends, and eventually a new boyfriend will turn up. Remember to always treat your friends or boyfriends as you would want to be treated. Good luck and God Bless.
2007-02-20 06:44:47 · answer #3 · answered by tersey562 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your friend had crossed the line, she has disrespected you totally. She should of stepped back. Now your boyfriend is at fault too. She can be forgiven after some time and some talking with her to tell her how you feel. He on the otherhand needs to be kicked to the curb. You dont go after or let your girlfriends friends go after you..
2007-02-20 06:18:23 · answer #4 · answered by wingedladyk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My best friend and I are pretty close. We talk about everything. We've meet each others interests on ocassions and we are pretty good with that. I told her however that is she ever stole my Boyfriend I would seriously kick her ***...We laugh about it all that time but I was actually serious about that...My foot doesnt seem to be up her *** yet....but you never know....
2007-02-20 06:23:54 · answer #5 · answered by ask n ye shall recieve 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
friends like that you certainly don't need,as far as your b/f is concerned I'm glad you fond out what he is really like.it won't be long before he's doing the same to her anyway,he's a player nothing more.when your friend comes crawling back,tell her no thank you
2007-02-20 06:24:37 · answer #6 · answered by TOM 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no way your friend could have stolen your boyfriend if he was not attracted to her in the first place, they deserve each other because they are just as bad as each other, you deserve better than that.
2007-02-20 06:44:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither one of them are worth your concern. get on with your life, find some real friend that will not stab you in the back.
2007-02-20 06:20:39 · answer #8 · answered by Dan ( 2 ) 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a friend who had this happen. She let the top down on his convertible while he was asleep and filled the car with popcorn. It didn't get him back but it did **** him off.
2007-02-20 06:17:22 · answer #9 · answered by BooBoo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were right to break it off with both of them...but that's really all you can do.
They both cheated and lied to you and you're better off without them.
2007-02-20 06:19:36 · answer #10 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋