Other - Family & Relationships - 20 February 2007

I am really not okay with my boyfriend going to strip clubs, but I'm trying to be okay with it.I'm not afraid that he is going to go and cheat on me-but I really have a problem with the objectification of women there.I have been objectified all of my life, and I hate that my boyfriend would go there and support that.True, these women are not being forced into it, and I believe that it is possible for them to be perfectly healthy & confident(although unfortunately this isn't the majority of cases).I can't help but feel that by him going he is disrespecting MY sexuality as well. Maybe it is jealousy, but it doesn't feel like it-I feel so hurt when he goes.His attitude is that he's not the 'type' to be right up at the stage, and he only goes once in a while, so I should just 'get over it'.I just don't get why he needs to go-if he's not all that interested in the women, as he claims, then why not just go to a bar, or come home to me?Would it help if I go with him once to understand it?

2007-02-20 08:43:36 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

mine are: when people are really skinny, when people drink milk after other people, people that pick their nose, and when people still say you are lying when you tell them over and over again that you aren't, oh and when someone says they did something that you know they didn't and they say that they are right because they are older or smarter. and etc.

2007-02-20 08:43:32 · 5 answers · asked by crazychick 3

i hav this group of friends. ive known 1 of them since third grade and i now i LUV him. he asked me 2 my face if i liked him, and i said yes. it turns out that he luvs me 2. i think that it would b really awekward to go out bcuz if we broke up, we might not b friends again. i really dont know wat 2 do! i no that we would eventually hav 2 break up, but i luv him and i he luvs me. he also thinks that it will suk when hav 2 break up. the rest of my friends r begging me 2 go out with him, but im not sure how i will deal with a inevitable break up. the break up will hav 2 happen, but wut shud i do right now? we r so young that i think it will not last long, but my undying luv might get the best of me. wut shud i do? wut shud he do? and wut shud my friends do?

2007-02-20 08:33:47 · 7 answers · asked by rusty2spoon 2

well theres this guy i love, when i told him i wanted to ask him out he sed he cant go out with anyone atm but when he sorts his life out he'll let me know cus he does like me like more than mates, but he hasnt mentioned anything ever since and that was weeks ago, and i just asked him if he likes any1 and he sed no

does he really like me like that?
or was he just saying it so i dont get hurt? :S
really confused please help

2007-02-20 08:32:04 · 12 answers · asked by ? 1

My husband is a compulsive liar.(not only to me but his friends) He has hurt me many times with his lying and it came to me almost leaving last year. He swore he would never lie to me again and I was almost convinced he had stopped. I recently found out not only has he lied to me again about a few things but also to his friends. My question is should I try to trust him again or confront him and tell him he really needs professional help(which he refuses to do)?This has been an issue for years and it tears me up inside.

2007-02-20 08:21:18 · 14 answers · asked by confused one 1

2007-02-20 08:16:18 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me & one of my closest friends had a falling out.
this probubly sounds petty but we are only teens so it is.
she ditched me when i asked her to go shopping with me. then the next day i was going to see my nan who i havnt seen for 3 months but my friend invited me to go & see her.
& at the moment i feel there the most important people in my life (friends) & i dont no why. but so i didnt see my nan... i went to see my friend & then she said oh sorry i cant come out today because im grounded. she didnt call me or even try telling me when we had 3 hours before i had to leave.
so i was stuck in town... on my own.
she now is blaming it on me.
but im sure its more her fault for us falling out.
plz help i really dont know!
because right now i dont feel in the wrong.

2007-02-20 08:15:39 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

So my girlfriend brought up masturbation the other day, and it gave me two question:
1) She asked me when was the last time I masturbates, and how frequently I did. I know she was just curious, thats how she is, but how do you answer that question?

2) I know she doesnt do "it" very often to herself, and when I asked her she said she couldnt do it as well as I could. She went on to say, "What is the difference between masturbating and being gay?" She tried to justify this by saying if a guy jerks it, technically it is a guy getting a guy off, and vice versa for women. I disagreed because it is a person doing it to themself, but what do you think?

2007-02-20 08:12:02 · 2 answers · asked by YouKnowImRight 3

well there are these idiots on my bus who think i like this one guy who is a TOTAL jerk aka jerrick. i wrote him a fake valentines card as a joke, and ever since then they've thought i like him. so then they made up songs 'bout us, and the guy won't try to stop it and he's one of the people who are concerned with their image and their "style". well every time i try to defend my self they flip it around and make it look bad on my part. like today, i called my mom to see how my cousin and her newborn were. then the people on the bus said i was a liar and all that crap. so i said i called because i cared 4 them. so because of that they said so you
care for jerrick, and in the end they some how came up with me likng my cousins, jerrick, chris, jason, and someone else. everything i say they flip around to make it totally bad on my part. they won't leave me alone, and i'm getting really really sick of it. please help me, i'm confused and don't know wat to do. thanks in advance.

2007-02-20 08:10:11 · 7 answers · asked by Shannon 3

Do you think I should shave off my hair or get a tattoo on my left cheek or both. What would annoy her more!!!!

2007-02-20 08:07:54 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

My girlfriend has her best friend living with her in her house .She can make feel very uncomfortable when I'm there , as if she doesn't want me around . This girl has had much luck with relationships , and has had really enjoyed parting when my girlfriend was single . Anytime we have an argument or i cant call over this housemate brings her out clubbing . I get the feeling that her friend wants her single again so they can have fun like the good old days .
She has admitted that when she see's us together that it makes her sad but does she secretly want our relationship to end .

2007-02-20 08:04:48 · 15 answers · asked by johnny.20022002 1

THIS DOES NOT HAPPEN TO ME!!!! It is my friend.....She has a 24 year old sister and she is really mean. My friend is 13. My friends sister still lives at home and whenever I come over she is really mean to us. When we are home alone with her she would lock us in the basement for hours. I do not like coming over there but she is my best friend. She also puches and hits my friend. My friend is so scared of her. She has bruises. One time she even hit me. I told my mom and my mom told her mom but then my friends mom did not believe her and told the 24 year old about it and then she hurt my friend really bad. I am a little afraid of her myself because I am over her house a lot and she can be very mean to me to.

2007-02-20 07:46:07 · 12 answers · asked by Heather 1

It could be portrayed as a burdened request. Is there a positive perception a girl can take from a guy's sigh after a task is asked for?

2007-02-20 07:41:09 · 29 answers · asked by Seamless Melody 3

You are laying next to your honey who is knocked out sleeping and you are feeling hot N bothered...you make an attempt to wake him/her up but it's a no-go. What do you do?

2007-02-20 07:41:08 · 15 answers · asked by akiastatz 3

I let my so go over my sistrer house over the weekend and when he came home he told me his cousin( 5years old) kissed his butt and he told me mommy you should kiss on the lips right not on the butt right and I said yes baby why you ask?? and he told me what the boy did.. now my sister live a life with a woman because her husband left her and she said they don't do anything around the kids or when other people are around so I let my son go over there for a sleepover,, now my son is saying my newphew kissed his butt,, my sister is going to say my son is lieing but what would you do???? I'm sick right now and need to calm down I know..

2007-02-20 07:39:54 · 4 answers · asked by ladytee 4

2007-02-20 07:31:21 · 7 answers · asked by murtadafarouk2 1

my mom has a new boyfriend whos like 20, and im only 16. he doesnt pay mush attention to her, but does to me all the time.
i want to go for it, ya know, talk to him about dating him, what should i do?

2007-02-20 07:30:01 · 12 answers · asked by butterfinger341 1

Yesterday I found out my cousin is a hooker her boyfriend is one of my best friends and he doesn't know. Should I tell him I don't want him to get hurt, I can live if my cousin is mad at me but if my best friend is...I can't. (My cousin is 20 and I am 19)

2007-02-20 07:28:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Here goes - I have a friend who has been in and out of trouble. I've known him for about 6 years and he's a really fun guy to be around, but he always chooses the wrong girl! Now, his most recent fling has gotten him into some big-time trouble - he's in jail! Anyhow, my lease is about up and i'm having trouble finding a place (i have dogs) and he offered me a room at his place. That means if/when he gets out, we would be room mates. I'm totally psyched about the bonfires and i'll finally have a buddy to go trail riding with. BUT - he's also very attractive and charming. I know better than to ever get involved with him in any way other than just 'friends,' and i've done a d@mn good job so far. But his family seems to love me and they compare every girl he dates with me (maybe they just tell me that). I really do care for this guy (in a keep-him-out-of-trouble way), but i could never be 'with' him - so what do you all think? Would this situation work, or would i be too weak??

2007-02-20 07:26:31 · 17 answers · asked by gunnerdane13 1

i love my bf and i want to marry him but i wanna ask him in a really different surprising way.

2007-02-20 07:17:33 · 3 answers · asked by ? 1

my husband's cousin was pretty rude to me this past weekend. If I asked her something she would answer me in a smart as* way. It still bothers me and when he asked me what was wrong with me last night, I told him nothing.

Should I make a big deal about it or just drop it like it never happened?

2007-02-20 07:07:33 · 58 answers · asked by Jacinda 2

I have always hated her, she exploits my father financially, is cold and does not love him. I want her to disappear.

2007-02-20 07:07:28 · 25 answers · asked by Dri 2

I mean he thinks that I doesn't..And I just need some advice on how to tell him

2007-02-20 07:06:15 · 3 answers · asked by T. MiLANi 2

How did you decide who should lie on which side, did you chose the UK right hand drive or the US left hand drive. And will you every swap over?

2007-02-20 07:02:44 · 6 answers · asked by yakatang 2

in public? what was the setting? did it make it more exciting that it was in public?

2007-02-20 07:00:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

i need step by step procedure pls.

2007-02-20 06:57:30 · 3 answers · asked by anne 3

2007-02-20 06:56:32 · 8 answers · asked by murtadafarouk2 1

2007-02-20 06:54:54 · 12 answers · asked by murtadafarouk2 1

2007-02-20 06:53:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

i really dont understand her actions right now. all i know is that she's acting very unresponsible as a mother! i mean i completely understand how she must feel having 2 kids back to back, and having a loser husband like that leave her, and her career, umm nothing like it use to be! but that's the life she chose!!! there's alot of things going through her head i bet, and i do feel bad for her, but i think this whole shaving thing is crazyyyyy!!! she has never looked like that before, or given us the impression of that syle in her before. i think she did that for (a) ATTENTION ( because she could've easily have bought a machines and shaved herself at home without having the media and hundreds of people outside looking at her do it) or (b) she was on something. and will regret it any minute if she hasn't already. i dont know what else to think. i like her and wish her the best, but with all that money, fame, all the works, why would u be messing up your life like that??

2007-02-20 06:51:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous