Here's my situation- been married for 7 years, we are both in our 30's, financially stable, solid marriage, no kids. He says he is ready for kids, but is not pushing me. He's ready whenever I am. I feel like my clock is ticking and kids are the "next step", but I'm scared! I worry about everything there is to worry about (will I be a good mom, will the kid be healthy, will it effect my marriage, etc.) Am I overthinking this and talking myself out of it? Should I NOT have a kid unless I'm 100% certain I want one? Has/is anyone else in this situation? What did you do?
I would appreciate responses only from people that have been or are in my situation, NOT people who accidentally got pregnant or were absolutely certain they wanted kids. Please be as thorough as you can in your response.
2007-02-20
09:09:57
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