Like they wish they could change stuff in their life?...I am so sick of the way my life is going...I love my boyfriend but my mom n dad are getting on my nerves..WAY TO OVER PROTECTIVE..I know they care...but telling that i can only do one thing a week even when its my money and they dont have to take me where i need to go..is rediculas im 15... find myself wondering..WERE THEY EVER A KID??
God...I am so sick of living this way...once im 18 im outta here...i know alot of ppl say that and dont leave like my brother {ha ha} but im not joking im gunna be headin to collage..im so sick of them!!! im actually looking forward to colage..just to get aweay from them...does anyone else feel this way...like you feel your kept in a box..with no way out?
2007-02-20 10:53:30 · 8 answers · asked by TakenByHim21 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Believe me, I've been there. So I know how you feel. Give yourself time and once you're able to move out, you should be able to enjoy life more. I hope my answer helps you, Good Luck.
2007-02-20 10:58:23 · answer #1 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not that they don't want you to experience things, it's just a lot that is going on in the world and they want to prevent you from making a mistake that they may have made. You are just 15, your life haven't even started yet. Just be patient about becoming an adult. Everything will work out within it's time. Don't rush your time, you just might grow up too fast. Trust me I wish that I could go back to 15 and right the wrongs I did in the past.
2007-02-20 19:01:18 · answer #2 · answered by LiStEN<<<Is Retired!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I remember when my mother are like that and telling me not to date deaf women and I should be dating hearing women and telling me how to save my money even if it my money? and She would not tell me during school week until weekend telling me about my grandma has died on wed. I would ask why you wait that long.. I don't want to see you greif during your school week. she over protect me.. and she even lie to me so many times....
I finally had it and I moved out when I was 22 years old and moved from Washington state to Califoirna and I work really hard to make sure where I am staying not going back home... I even remember my mom told me that if you need to come back you can more welcome to comeback.. and guess what.. I called to see if any.. she said ohh you know I already used that room so sorry there no room for you ... That nothing new all she had to do is tell me that I don't want you to move back here. You big boy and learn down there... but she didn't
So I never talk to her for 14 years and Now I have my own family and married for 9 years going on 10 oct 07 and 3 kids. and I show kids how much I love them and If something I don't like or disagree I talk to them.... But I will make sure they have their own kids years... I alwasy love to be around them and My kids love be around me and we always have open commucations... I don't care I will never be like my mom... I would never do something that my kids go though Like I did..
I promised to myself that if there a reason I would say something.. But if there no reason then Why would I want to make it worst??? I always want my kids to be honest with me and always feel comfortable to see me and talk to me..with out worried about daddy be mad... My daughter lie to me she only 3 and I told her this "Sweetie why did you lie?" she said "I don't know" "Sweeting remember you wet your bed 2 months ago??" she shook her head (yeah) "Did I get mad when you told me what happen?" she shook her head (NO) "see why because I love you and as long you honest and I will not be mad if you lie then I will be disappointed." I told my daughter I know sweetie it an accdient. and she smile said "Yeah daddy it accident, I am sorry" I told her "Don't say you are sorry just learn your mistake.." you can say you sorry if you hurt someone feelings or something.. It nice to hear that but just learn. I have to tell her over and over so she going on 4 years old... I am looking forward to see her grow and learn that daddy not mad and not telling her what to do.. I am teaching her in life.
hope this helps.. I make sure kids not in the box with no way out.. I make sure there is a way out with window and door and everything... I hopeyou would do that same thing your future kids... I know kids are not easy It take alot time to teach and train them.
2007-02-20 19:29:31 · answer #3 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just start hanging out with other people and be far away from home as possible! like if your friends are going on a vacation! GO WITH THEM! tell your parents that your not a little kid anymore and you are ( your age here) haha. GOOD LUCK! :]
2007-02-20 19:00:51 · answer #4 · answered by tOyBoAt237 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its spelled college and every 15 year old feels this way. u'll get over it. I did
2007-02-20 18:57:41 · answer #5 · answered by lilkitty4eva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel bad for ya... but parents are parents ya know... cant diss the just like tht. we owe them hell. they feed, cared loved us.... bare with them. after all ur just 15...
2007-02-20 18:58:55 · answer #6 · answered by music for life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah everyone feels that way one time or another
2007-02-20 19:00:52 · answer #7 · answered by Mayonaise 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my gosh my parents are the same way. they constantly bother me.
2007-02-20 18:57:36 · answer #8 · answered by Eliza 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋