Other - Family & Relationships - 20 February 2007

how should i dwell on (break up) on it?

2007-02-20 14:09:10 · 14 answers · asked by Carlo P 1

i was with my boyfriend for nearly 3 months but we wer close friends before we went out with each other then we split up because he was txting my cousin askin her to meet him on the sly and thing but he told me he was winding his friend up as my cousin was going out with his friend ! but wen i found out i jus rang him and started flippin on the phone then he said he wernt txtin her which made me fume ! then i ended our relationship but then after a couple of days i regretted it and wanted him back ! all i ever done was cry over him ! then after two months of being apart we are back together ! :D i am sooo happy i am alwayz smiling but b4 we split he told me that he loves me and things but now he doesnt say nothing he hardly every calls me babe ! does he stil love me ? i am confused ! i want to believe he does i keep tellin myself if he didnt love me we wouldnt of gotton back together ! what should i do ? should i ask him if he does love me or am i jus worrying to much am i insecure ?

2007-02-20 14:03:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My aunt and uncle and cousins always go on a beach trip every year for two weeks and always have fun. My cousin Kelly and her husband receltly had a baby and my aunt has been taking care of it alot since Kelly and her husband work during the day. Now my other cousin Misty is jelous( i belive) because My aunt is keeping Kellys baby alot but still seeing my Mistys kids. Now Misty has told her kids that my aunt doesnt love them and the whole beach trip has been called off. (as of now). Misty and her husband have nothing to do with us now. How can i get my family back together!

2007-02-20 14:01:06 · 4 answers · asked by ryan12bs 1

My husband and I are trying to have a baby but really he is not that interested because he is already 45 and he have to daughter 22 years and 20. Right now we are trying and he is really nice and lovely but each time we have a discussion he takes out that conversation and says that I taking him to the limit and that I am doing with him whatever I want. And really I don't feel comfortable he feeling this way.

2007-02-20 14:00:22 · 1 answers · asked by Yolanda L 1

While i admit that sausy stories are helpful for arousal, but i find it too much that i have to tell her an erotic story from my own experience. In one hand i have to unwillingly remember those episodes, may also rekindle my longings or lust for them but on the top of everything, i have to face her attack as immediately after the session is over, she rises up and says, "so you had all these activities and intimacy with them"? She becomes angry and sad and remains aloof from me. Later she uses these references and remains offensive often..
Sometime i tried to avoid narrating any story but only to find out that she simply can not come to her pick and have an orgasm without it!

2007-02-20 13:53:48 · 15 answers · asked by bashantapur 1

Well, my girlfriend is bisexual. She had sex with a girl once in her past in a threesome (I hadn't met her yet). We plan to get married but she said that before we get married she wants to have sex with a girl alone once, no guy. She says that it's a big part of her and that she feels like she needs to do this, she has to do this. She said she wants to do it and put it away for good (what does that mean?) before we get married. She said she'd feel most comfortable with her close friend who is also bisexual, and not a stranger because she doesn't want the stranger to get the wrong idea. She said that afterwards she'd tell me everything, what they did, does she feel satisfied getting it done with, everything. What should I do? I'm a bit lost and a bit scared.

2007-02-20 13:42:31 · 5 answers · asked by Mimo 2

If I asked someone” why are you being racist for? Is that the same thing as calling them racist?

In my opinion its not, it’s like saying to someone why are you acting stupid for. You know they are not stupid but they are just acting that way.

Me and my friend broke up because of this and she says that I called her a racist. She called all Muslims “Pakis” I know she’s not racist but I did not agree with what she was saying. Do you guys agree with me or is she right? Just need to see whose right, if im wrong then I owe her an apology.

2007-02-20 13:41:21 · 10 answers · asked by Mr. 4

I was physically and mentally abused by my family throughtout my upbringing (I still live with them, but it's not as bad now and my parents divorced).

I wasn't the particularly targeted victim...they were always fighting and argueing, although I feel like I am a good person and didn't have anything to do with it, and should not have been brought into any of it.

Now I have severe Social Anxiety and depression as a result, and it has limited my life soo much, and caused a lot of suffering as a result. After several attempts at killing myself, I am starting to try and get my life back on track.

I was just wondering about other peoples experiences if you don't mind me asking.

Thanks.

2007-02-20 13:41:14 · 6 answers · asked by Om Mani Padme Hum 2

I am 18 and my bofriend is 32...we really love each other ALOT....No one can change my opinion of his/us... but I just want to hear what other people think of this

2007-02-20 13:38:59 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

U fal in love with sumone and give him everythin, satisfy him da best and make him feel like a king.. then he jus cheat on u or lie to u.. Well dis is wat happened to me.Now i lost my trust and i dont want to fall in love again.Love sux.It doesnt matter how pretty,sexy or sweet u re, u will get decieved at da end anyway.. then why do we waste our times? It might seem stupid and immature but I think i should just play guys and have nuffin serious. Maybe i wont get hurt then.I will be d one hurtin... Wat do u think? -Thx fo takin time and read it-

2007-02-20 13:35:49 · 4 answers · asked by babebabe_o 1

can real love be possible at the age of 14?

2007-02-20 13:34:06 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

My extra virgin olive oil was caught having sex with the vinegar. What are people gonna say when I explain to them that the olive oil isn't a virgin anymore?

2007-02-20 13:32:20 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I WAS JUST WONDERING IF I SHOULD START HAVING SEX WITH MY BF OR WAIT LONGER. WE'VE BEEN DATING FOR ALMOST A YEAR AND HE'S REALLY ON MY CASE ABOUT HAVING SEX, BUT i DON'T KNOW IF I SHOULD WAIT LONGER. I'M NOT A VIRGIN SO IT'S NOT ABOUT LOSING MY VIRGINITY OR ANYTHING

2007-02-20 13:26:11 · 31 answers · asked by chuckhighdiva 1

men who beat on there wifes and then sometimes end up killing them i know alot of people wonder why doesent the wife just leave him but do you all think it is so simple to just kick him out so he can come back and kill you while you sleep or better yet get a restraining order on him which does nothing it's just a peice of paper he will find you beat you then kill you do you all have input on this topic what do you think?

2007-02-20 13:21:49 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-20 13:20:09 · 11 answers · asked by Raver Xeno 4

Typically, how often for you? Is it enough and are you satisfied?

2007-02-20 13:13:09 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a horrible habit where I just can't wait to get to the next step. They become more than a goal. It's a cycle: I'm in love, I want to be engaged: if I was engaged, I'd want to be married; if I was married, I'd want to have children. It is like this in most aspects of my life but especially in my relationship with my boyfriend. I don't understand why I just can't be content and slow down and enjoy my life! How do I look forward to these things without letting them control my life ? and how do I quit trying to rush them? (I also have this insane fear that I won't be able to have kids so I need to start trying now. This isn't based on anything at all. Is it really odd for me to feel this way?)

2007-02-20 13:09:39 · 11 answers · asked by Amanda 4

so my boyfriend is from el salvador, and he's always calling me 'mi amor, mi vida, mi corazon, preciosa, nina pequanita' i feel bad that the only thing i can say back are things that he's already said to me....can anyone give me some words of admoration that i can call him that are more for a woman to a man then 'precioso'.....

2007-02-20 13:09:08 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do you sometimes feel like you cant take them anymore..!! I do very well in learning..catching things..n all the people starting from my age to teirs always say my positive thiings to them..but i feel like it makes them feel not so happy!! its soo weird n so sad to me! IM Sad because the way they treat me i sllike..theyr tryin 2 put me down..! my mom sometimes enjoys gossipin about me at our neighbors. relatives house!! n i can see they start laughin n telling her *BELLA ISNT LIKE THAT what u talkin about.?? its really difficult to handle this especially when my dad getson her side too! my sister sometimes starts withem too but others around us r just suprized..cuz theres no reason that i hear those word from them.!! while i was in HIGH SCHOOL..i was doin perfect..all As n shed soetimes tell me **UR NOT EVEN GONNA GRADUATE N ULL BECOME SOMEONE REALLY POOR ONE DAY!!just bcuz shed see me hangin out sometimes w friends! ihavent even had a normal childhood life! HAVE U EVER FELT LIKE THIS?

2007-02-20 13:06:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

ive liked her for months ive tried everything in the book nothing works i want her soooo bad to be my gf please help

2007-02-20 12:53:02 · 6 answers · asked by joeymooch 1

I've been having one of those months and theres been a couple days were I've been completly happy but then it just goes downhill and school is so hard. Life is hard and boys are idiots. now on top of things my best friend/(I really like him -crush) is moving to wyoming. And yah I could go on forever but I just wanted tips for staying happy and making myself feel better and maybe boosting my self esteem.

Background info

15 year of female

sophmore (high school)

I live in montana

currently my lowest grade is a C+ but I've never got anything below a B before

My parents give me the disapointed talk alot and make me feel like crap when really I'm not doing anything bad. I don't drink/do drugs/have sex/(havn't even been kissed) and I don't swear or hit or stay out past my curfew.

I don't understand

2007-02-20 12:39:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

what do u think, do u do it

2007-02-20 12:35:24 · 25 answers · asked by Vector 1

How do you do them too?

2007-02-20 12:35:06 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

It's actually a good thing, but what would you say? Any advice is appreciated.

2007-02-20 12:33:10 · 4 answers · asked by ireallycantbelievethat 2

did i get rejected?
and should i stay friends with him???
and u thoughts on this experince?

i told a guy that i liked him. all my friends told me that he liked me and that i should tell him when i did he said this:
"Alright... I'm going to be brutally honest... You've got the wrong one. Don't worry, its common. I'm manipulative. I have a friendly sugar coat of charm, and quirkiness. But at heart I'm a drug addict, an alcoholic, and I'm selfish. I'm only 18, the world revolves around me. Its all about the pursuit of happiness. I don't want relationships, all I want is drugs, *****, and music (in that order). I don't date girls, I exploit them. The only joy I get from girls other than physical touch is watching them squirm because their head over heals in love and I could careless. You've got the wrong one."

2007-02-20 12:33:07 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-20 12:28:39 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I found out a week and a half ago that I am 8 weeks pregnant. When I got the news, my boyfriend was away on holidays, so I didn't want to tell him then. And when he got home we realized someone had broken into his home and stolen items. He was busy and stressed out all week, and I was no help being stressed over this pregnancy issue. So I held off on telling him, wasn't waiting for the right moment, just not a bad one. I told him on saturday, and we got into a huge fight, and he didn't know if he wanted to be with me anymore. I had already decided on an abortion because I am to young, and financially unstable. He agreed I could NOT keep it. Then today, he decided he wants to come with me to get the abortion, I said no. He though about it all day I guess, and wants to keep it. But I don't want him to be with me just because I am pregnant, seeing how he didn't know a few days ago. Our relationship is unstable, and so are our finances. Do I have the baby? Or not? Any advice is apreciated

2007-02-20 12:25:11 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Just wondering, because I have a decent family but still like my friends more.

2007-02-20 12:25:10 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-20 12:11:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I watch my fiance's son for him two nights a week and now he's asking me to watch him more, do he can pursue other activities (Not work related or that he HAS to be there for). I don't want to do more than what I'm all ready doing because I feel I'm here alone with him enough as it is, without feeling very appreciated for it. He is an older kid, just not mature enough to be alone, so it's not like I'm changing diapers and chasing him around, but it still just feels like twice a week is enough. I want to be a lover and partner, not a babysitter, but he's really angry at me about this which leaves me feeling sad and misunderstood. What would you do in my situation?

2007-02-20 12:04:57 · 17 answers · asked by wellbeing 5