I am 18 and my bofriend is 32...we really love each other ALOT....No one can change my opinion of his/us... but I just want to hear what other people think of this
2007-02-20 13:38:59 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Hey KJ480,
"Well, when you are 48 he'll be 62, so it won't be that big of a deal. Age shouldn't matter. But education does...you should learn that a lot is spelled as 2 words. "
We can't be perfect all the time & if you were smart you would know that you don't begin a sentence with "But". I would suggest before you try and bi*** at other people you look at yourself! Thank you!
2007-02-20 13:54:32 · update #1
him/us**
2007-02-20 14:12:52 · update #2
my husband and i are 13yrs apart--very happy and in love...we have been together 5 1/2 yrs and married 3 1/2. I am 26 and he is 39...love is what counts (your of age to make your own decisions anyways no matter what people think)--good luck
2007-02-20 13:51:17 · answer #1 · answered by Amber D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, when you are 48 he'll be 62, so it won't be that big of a deal. Age shouldn't matter. But education does...you should learn that a lot is spelled as 2 words.
2007-02-20 21:43:11 · answer #2 · answered by KJ480 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, from what I've seen with my own 2 eyes..it's fine, for now. But in a few years, the problom lies with the maturity level..and it's more than likely with HIM..not with you. You grow up. He's already supposed to be grown up and then once YOU mature, and "find yourself", he becomes all confused and has no idea where to go from there. You end up resenting him because you've lost your youth and lost out on the things that you would've done had you not been attached to him. Once you marry and have children, things change. ..it just all changes and no longer are you on the same wave length. You've matured and he's where he's always been (in your eyes) and there he will stay unless he does something drastic to change within himself which is unlikely since he's now "set in his ways." Right now, things are perfect, you are 18...he's 18 in his own mind. Problom is, you grow and he doesn't.
Personally, I think it's fun for awhile...but not for long. The age thing always catches up to you at some point.
Hope you wind up moving on to someone closer to your age. He doesn't have to be 18...I think just closer to where you want to be when you reach the child-bearing ages. What's going to happen when he reaches 40. Will he want children then??(assuming you don't have any now and are going to go through school, career ect.) These are questions you have to ask yourself.
Good Luck to you whatever you choose. It sounds to me like if you're asking, there's doubt in your mind already.
2007-02-20 22:02:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, i think actually you are already decide what to do and no need to seek for opinion.For me, love is very strange and when you really love one people with your sincere heart, you won't care so much about the other things.Maybe you and your boyfriend ages are a little bit far apart, but as long as you two love each other and can communicate well, i think there are no problem.In this world, there are very difficult to found a person that love you and you love him too.So,treasure what you have now and i hope you can be happy all the time.
2007-02-20 21:44:55 · answer #4 · answered by Jessica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're willing to wait a while before you take the next step...
Enjoy. Just remember that in 5 years, that 14 year gap will not be as significant as it now is, and you will BOTH be better off, as you will be more confident and sure of yourself as who you are, not simply as his girlfriend, and your relationship will be stronger.
Think of it this way - you probably aren't completely comfortable with his friends, and he isn't with yours. In 5 years, that won't be so, or at least as true. They will learn that you are a mature equal for him, and your friends will mature to where he can feel comfortable with your woman friends as opposed to "girl" friends.
2007-02-20 21:53:44 · answer #5 · answered by jcurrieii 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that your ages means nothing, btw Im well past his age. Its where his minds at, what ages are your friends if they vary in age then you have the maturity to be with an older man.
In saying that its a huge ego boost for an older man to get a younger woman, just be sure that he is with you for the right reasons.
2007-02-20 21:53:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Older guys are on the same mindset as females, our minds mature faster anyway. I think some of the best relationships are when the guy is a little older, they tend to be easier to talk to then..and they lack a lot of the immature mind games and cheating that younger guys do.
Age is nothin but a number. ⥠is real.
2007-02-20 21:41:12 · answer #7 · answered by Miss Interpreted 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is 14 years older than you. When you are 32 and he is 46, he will be looking for another 18 year old. He is boderline pedophile. Be careful.
2007-02-20 21:43:22 · answer #8 · answered by ric9757 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's all good ... I've never understood what all the fuss about these age differences are. Who gives a rats *** about age as long as two people are mature, consenting and in love.
2007-02-20 21:40:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself this question, Does he want kids? If he does than you need to ask yourself, when, and how old will "we" be when the graduate college. You are also very young and have alot of partying left to do.
2007-02-20 21:45:11 · answer #10 · answered by mega man5000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋