Other - Family & Relationships - 20 February 2007

First it was my mother in law. Trouble-trouble.Then father in law, nosing-nosing.We have put things to work peacefully and logically without any pains with anyone.

Now distance a bit, but we are busy working on the new house.
Although I 'm not with them, i don't see them, everytime I am out there somewhere, here it comes the news about their awful critisism...

I heard that my sister in law is not contacting my husband. Oh well, this reminds me the days when I was only engaged and I used to hear so bad things against the X-daughter in law before I heard her story!

Now, without me having any clashes to sister in law, already mother in law has poisoned her against me, also her husband & her other son!!Why does my husband have to have bad relationship with his sister? I have said nothing nor been against their relationship!

Now i heard today that my sister in law saw a friend. He said 'give my regards to your brother' and she said 'oh, i don't think so, i won't see him'. AGR!!

2007-02-20 04:17:14 · 5 answers · asked by Spark S 5

I needed to have a second child and so got pregnant by a work colleague. I never intended him to know as he was planning on leaving the country within a few months. Now I find out that he may have to delay his departure by several months and would then see that I am pregnant.
I am feeling so bad now - I'm not sure that to do. We have become quite close since we slept together and I hate to think of his trust in me being destroyed.

Help, I do not know what to do!!

2007-02-20 04:15:35 · 46 answers · asked by Gillian 1

I went on holiday a couple of months ago, met this person and everyday since I left I have been thinking about them and cant get them out of my head!
please help I dont know what to do
their the reason I want to go back to this place, and when I do if their gone I will feel really depressed!
please help
When I mean thinking about them I mean EVERY day

2007-02-20 04:15:33 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

my other wants to go to WY. but I don't, she says it will make us closer but I think it will just make us cold. Can we run from our problems?

2007-02-20 04:08:17 · 1 answers · asked by Rusty 2

I have just now returned from the airport after sending my mother aged 86 back home. At her age, everytime I say goodbye, it could be the last. However, this time she was with me for 2 months and I am really tired. I had so many people for Christmas and every day coming and going, I really need a break. BUT - she is gone two hours and I feel guilty over the relief I am feeling and the 'joy' I am experiencing at being alone and private for the first time since November. Now I can play the radio, watch any TV program, invite friends over and make a noise, go out whenever I want, be inconsiderate and think only about myself (don't have to cook and serve).

Am I going to have lots of regrets when she dies and is no longer there to visit me and "inconvenience" me.

2007-02-20 03:53:51 · 8 answers · asked by MaggieSA 3

me and my boyfriend have been doing sexual stuff for a few months now. should i have sex with him. i love this kid to death and have been with him for about 5 months now.

2007-02-20 03:52:07 · 19 answers · asked by Miss Justinee X3 2

well i just turned 18 and ever since then me and my mom have been gettin into it lately i love her god knows i do but she is just workin my nerves i tried to tell her my plans bout prom but she doesnt seem to interested, she took my cell phone she just keep treaten me like a child, we never seem to agree on anything what do i do please help before i do somethin i regret!!!!!!!

2007-02-20 03:52:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well not to make a long story about this. I am unemployed right now but can work as a cytotech(what I have done for 5 years.) I am playing to go live with my boyfriend pretty soon and look for work there. I have never hit another individual (besides my brother as kids). I have a two year old and back home living with my folks. It was hard being I am a very self sufficient, independent person. The problem is my parents and the past couple of years we have been estranged. This is the second time my dad threatening to kill, me, and or knocking my down. It was an argument about my wanting to leave and being unhappy at home(which I very am). Last christmas my mom said she was going to call the police and told my father to beat some sense into me, hestarted to hit me and I tried to run but he was too stronger than me. The second time he pushed me really hard and slapped me, and grabbed me hard so I couln't run away, I back at home (living in fear)
Some body tell me my right's?

2007-02-20 03:42:14 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

my friend..im not tellin the name.. told me she is in love with her cousin..literally!! an although i think it is wrong i told her if ur in love ur in love ther isn't any thing u can do about it.But i also told her don't come crying to me when she ends up on the jerry springer show..but i jus wonder is it wrong to fall in love with ur cousin when they love u back.?

2007-02-20 03:36:42 · 8 answers · asked by skittles72 1

And I mean absolutely p....d .
How good did you feel or not feel.
How was your memory of such an occasion and how
shamed did you feel when others told you what you did
the night before.

Hick ! Oops Sorry Hick !

2007-02-20 03:36:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-20 03:32:54 · 5 answers · asked by rambo 2

at Bay Front Medical Center in St. Petersburg Fla, her mothers name is Judy Franko, she has a brother named J.R. and a sister named Tracy, she has relatives in Sarasota, Fla. I know her mother moved them to Los Angelas California in the 70's and that was her last none whereabouts. If anyone knows this person, any information would be greatly appreciated.

2007-02-20 03:26:52 · 2 answers · asked by Deborah V 2

i need a very clever lie that basically tells them why i couldn't make it in the last minute. Thanx

2007-02-20 03:19:01 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

if an "old" love which is living in another country and u only connect via emails or msg wants you back ??? but of course dont write it straight !
what would u write or what "hints" would u use ???
i am very curious as i have the feeling that my old flame is doing it this days but i am not 100% sure ;-)

2007-02-20 03:11:56 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi,

My g/f and me were planning to move in together this september. I'm 27 she's 22 and she's German living in Germany.

She's now turned round out of the blue and said she's not ready for us to move in together as she's scared the relationship will get boring, that she won't see her friends and that she doesn't want to leave her parents.

As an alternative she wants us to stay with her parents for a couple of months and then see how things are togetrher from there, maybe move in together or maybe me finding my own space somewhere.

I understand this stance from her completely and it's sensible and reasonable. So why do I feel so rejected and resentful??

It also gives me the impression that our relationship would go on trial at her parents in this way, what would it mean if we decided not to move in together??Also, my german's not good,the thought of getting a room on my own is scary and its taking away my motivation to even go there!

2007-02-20 03:10:51 · 12 answers · asked by colejoe79 2

I am moving out of my apartment in a week b/c I can't afford the rent. I can't move in to another apartment b/c I just lost my job. I don't have friends I can stay with.
Here's the catch: I have a toddler and my mom has agreed to take him into her home. She said I can't live with them b/c we don't get along. I don't want to stay at her place any way cause I can't stand her.
So what do I do? This has never happened to me before so I don't know how shelters work. I live in Chicago.

2007-02-20 03:08:41 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

wake them up? do you wake them up in any specific way?

2007-02-20 03:07:22 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok if you are dating someone and he tells you he slept with 7 other girls before you, and then you get married and two weeks after you are married he tells you that really he slept with 14 other girls before you, three of which were a month before you started dating, what would you do? What number of women is not ok for your significant other to have been with?

2007-02-20 02:55:00 · 6 answers · asked by Alice 1

just realize they are weaker in all aspects except looks and childcare

2007-02-20 02:53:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

is like 16 years old or younger? Is there anyone on here that is older?

2007-02-20 02:51:43 · 6 answers · asked by precious 3

Why does it seem that once a couple have been together for a little while the man stops doing special things for their women? We would love to have our man come home once in a while with flowers, or our favorite treat, or to run us a bath out of the blue and tell us to relax while they do the dishes or watch the kids, or how about to send us an e-mail once in a while to tell us they love us and are thinking about us when they are not with us, how about making us a nice dinner, or offering to brush our hair...any of these things, LITTLE things, would make us feel SO special...so why don't men think to do these things?
and is it only this way in man and woman relationships, or are people like this in homosexual relationships too?
Please help, I am trying to understand!

2007-02-20 02:44:23 · 10 answers · asked by stangwoman 3

He's not legally harrassing me, just really annoying me. I'm not selling my house to him EVER - but he won't take no for an answer. How do I make him go away?

2007-02-20 02:36:29 · 11 answers · asked by peacekitty 2

My friend came over and brought her new man with her, I was in my pajamas as were my children. I told her she should have called first, and another time. Now we are kinda argueing. Opinions????

2007-02-20 02:22:45 · 33 answers · asked by ? 5

everyday my dad always has change his girlfriend he has many of them,he dont tell me he have many,i know because there is one time he left his telephone at home me an my mum see inside his telephone in the inbox i see that letter said"hi darling, how r u.why dont you come back to your club"i mean what kind of dad is he it looks like i dont know him,i alway pray to gad that he will change ,but he never change,i told to my mum"mum,i think when im 18 year old ill tell to dad i know he have many girlfriend for so long already and i dont think you are my father"im brave to say that if im 18 years old,now im 16 only.how can i tell him??

2007-02-20 02:10:56 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-20 02:02:53 · 6 answers · asked by victoria c 4

Would u do it? Am I sick? I did it

2007-02-20 01:59:03 · 20 answers · asked by Joshua 2

Beverly Johnson contact lost during Katrina, from Gulfport Ms.
In her 60's, white, cared for Frank Zimmerman.
Searching for BEVERLY Zimmerman. May have been born in Cincinnati, Oh or Fla. Just a lucky guess. Born to Frank Z. Don't know if a mother raised her or if adopted out. Age probably between 30-48. I have been searching for her for a long time..... she has siblings.

Should contact me at redoakrita@insightbb.com
Thanks so much for any help....
Rita

2007-02-20 01:52:18 · 1 answers · asked by Rita 1

My roomates friends are a little immature I'll admit. We dont get along because Im positive and their negative. Anyway, one of them came up to me to ask how many time I hit my Ex? I looked at him like he was crazy and told him no. I later called my ex up and told her and she laughed at that .. Anywat it was all good until they told her friends they thought I beat her and then she wanted to giv ethem a piece of her mind.
I calmed her down but she thought it was very immature of them to make statements that weren't true . She thinks they are a bad influence on my roomate . Was this a very immature thing to do by them ?

2007-02-20 01:51:41 · 1 answers · asked by Arthur D 3

2007-02-20 01:46:48 · 6 answers · asked by Dama 3

My step son just won,t play outside all he wants to do is watch TV or play on the playstation and be round me and his dad he just won,t give us a minute. I tried getting lads his own age to call for him but he says he can not be bothered or if i make him he goes out for half an hour and then comes in saying he feels unwell, we also have a 15 year old lad who is out all the time and has asked the 14 yaer old if he would like to go with him but he just refuses my husband says he will go out one day but when can someone please help me as i am ready to climb the walls

2007-02-20 01:45:27 · 31 answers · asked by caz 1