2007-02-20 02:02:53 · 6 answers · asked by victoria c 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
he has the biggest "heart" but we have great communication barriers. He speaks spanish and I am a great teacher but it is limited to what he is interested in learning. I am not living a good life here in my own country due to his influence and inability to adapt to culture here. I am tired of being alien in my own country. But he is very affectionate and loving 95% of the time. But when he is bad, he is awful
2007-02-20 02:15:09 · update #1
Working on a relationship takes work from both parties and if he is only willing to do what he wants and not what is good for the both of you it is time to say goodbye.
2007-02-20 02:36:43 · answer #1 · answered by robbie501 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love does conquer all... sometimes. But its only value is that it brings you good things like happiness and support. If it makes you feel bad though, what would the point be? What would it be conquering, except conquering your happiness?
Is he as committed to you as you are to him? All relationships have issues and bad bits, but they're only worth sticking out if he loves you back.
Don't hand your heart over to someone who abuses you. I've been there and so in love with someone that you're willing to take whatever he does to you just to stay with him, but it doesn't work. Because he won't love you enough to stay with you, and then you'll just feel like you handed over your self-esteem and watched while he walked all over it.
I've also been in a relationship with a guy who abused himself. You can try to help but you can't make yourself responsible for what other people do or you'll go nuts trying to do the impossible.
Don't suffer alone, talk to someone about exactly what your problem is.
2007-02-20 10:37:17 · answer #2 · answered by Emily Rugburn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love does not conquer all. I used to think so, but after being in a relationship where I thought love was enough, to only find out that it isn't enough, I was crushed. I couldn't figure out why our love couldn't sustain our relationship through the hard times. After a lot of soul searching after our break-up, I realized it was because all we really had in common was our love for each other and nothing else. You have to have some sort of common ground in a relationship. Similar interests, similar goals. Now that I have found love and I have common interests with this person, it has become so clear....love alone isn't enough.
2007-02-20 10:21:27 · answer #3 · answered by Freckles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Love doesn't conquer all. There are many terrible situations that no matter how much you love someone, you can't change them or help them. If they abusive or an addict in any way, you should get yourself out of there.
2007-02-20 10:06:54 · answer #4 · answered by kelloggs322 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love does NOT conquer all. Do not go further with the relationship if you can not deal with the barriers....It would be leading him on.
2007-02-20 10:27:40 · answer #5 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on the extent of the terrible situation...like physical abuse, mental abuse, etc...love won't conquer anything.
2007-02-20 10:06:08 · answer #6 · answered by IGH3Rat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋